The other type of photos with regards to BRANDING photos is photos of my clients products and/ or them 'doing something'...walking, using their laptop, holding a mug, talking on the phone, interacting with another person. Things that represent what they do AND draw out their personality.
We aren't always smiling, SOMETIMES we are thinking, or writing, or brainstorming, or maybe truly laughing, and capturing those expressions as well as the typical headshot (looking and smiling at the camera, cropped in, half body, which are great for social media profile photos) is KEY!!
I provide variety for my clients so they have options for social media posts as well as any marketing material they may need photos for. Even if it's just photos of accessories that can represent a part of what they do or coincide with a post to make their online conversations more relatable.
If you need a BRANDING session let me know...happy to help strategize and figure out the best way to approach it!
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1. Freeze time.
2. Children change every year...why not document it?
3. Captures moments of impact aka LIFE!
4. They can make wonderful holiday gifts.
5. Decorate your house with YOU.
6. If you don't have kids/ make it a date / dress up and end up with some photos that remind you of your connection.
7. Bring a game or a picnic / make it fun (even if it is a bit chaotic to prep for).
I realize it can be chaos preparing for a family photoshoot...what to wear? What time of day? Where will we do the photos?
I am here to help!!
*Coordinate outfits but you DO NOT have to match!!
*Let kids have a say in what they wear.
*Layers, textures, patterns and colors work well! Vests, fur, lace, jeans...all great ideas!
*Based on the time of year and the weather we can figure out an approximate time to shoot and decide specifically closer to the day!
*Location will depend on the type of 'look' you want. Urban vs nature...grass, trees, river, lake, city rooftop, age of children and busy-ness of possible locations!
*Have fun...make it an outing and enjoy each other...the BEST photos come when you allow yourselves to SIMPLY enjoy the in between moments!
I am always up for a conversation so let's chat!
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In a world with hundreds of images flying at us every minute of everyday...telling us what we should look like, feel like, buy, sell and BE. I love that I get to photograph women who embrace themselves right where they are at. Some young, some older, some just starting life with a special someone, and some having been through a lot just to be at this point! Some bodies will grow babies and some have the evidence of the amazing ability our bodies have to be incredibly elastic with beautiful 'road maps' to prove it!
As a mother of two girls I am desperately trying to teach them how to love themselves. No matter how they look, how can they embrace their differences? AND choose to be thankful for those differences!! To show their inner beauty through outward confidence. It is something I struggle with myself but as long as we are talking about it and moving into it every day I think it's in the little things we do for ourselves that will help us get closer to that!!
And to the question - do I photograph boudoir...Yes I DO... but most of all I photograph the beauty of the journey of life. Is there a better time than now?
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DON'T DO IT!
Having been a professional photographer now for almost 9 years I will tell you I have done so many 'Anniversary' sessions trying to recreate what they didn't get on their wedding day and although beautiful and I LOVE those sessions...it is not the same as the wedding day itself!
1. You want your friends and family to attend and enjoy your wedding not be 'working'. Just because someone owns a 'good' camera doesn't mean they know how to manage a timeline, coordinate groups of people and document the most important day of your life.
2. It isn't about me...it IS about YOU and YOUR experience and YOUR connection, and my job to catch and unveil the moments that convey the connection between you and your love.? AND... have FUN!!!???
3. A professional is an investment, it's not just a steep pricetag, especially for what they bring to the table.
All of these things to be considered and not taken lightly.
4. Having back up gear if something goes wrong, not to mention a second photographer with them.
5. You get your photos back in a reasonable timeframe. I find it disappointing when I hear that they only got a handful of photos or it has been a year and they still haven't seen their wedding day gallery (if there is a gallery). Additionally being able to provide you with heirloom items such as albums etc.
BONUS:: You will not be able to handle how gorgeous your wedding looks and how thankful you will be to have these memories...HIRE a professional!
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She has a podcast and an e book and many more projects in the works...look her up...
You can find her on instagram @markiewilliams and on facebook.
Their story, their day, them as people both individuals and together...PERFECT...INSPIRING...and the SPARKLIEST!!!
You will want to see their full day here...
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They made it a date night (just with paparazzi) and enjoyed some down time from their busy work schedules...
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2. They make fabulous gifts and can use for senior invitations.
3. To feel beautiful (mainly the girls), but what guy doesn't want to have some cool photos!?
4. To show their variety of expressions and style during a big life change.
5. They need a yearbook photo and can make for professional headshots as they enter the workforce.
6. To reward themselves and have some fun!
2020 Senior bookings are happening...click on the video to see a few samples and email me to book!
2020 SENIORS
HMU:: Yessie Libby
Florals:: Juliet & Lou
Dress:: BHLDN
Veil:: For the Luv of Bridal
Tux:: The Black Tux
Photographer:: Arlene Chambers //Seattle Wedding Photographer
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Sarah and Caleb knew they wanted a snow wedding…it was just something she had always wanted! So what better place than Mountain Springs Lodge! Everyone was an amazing sport about the frigid weather as we did photos outside including the ceremony. With her 7 nephews and 1 niece joining in the fun (I call running around in circles with random kids crying fun) it all turned out perfect!
Click on any photo below to see more of this gorgeous wedding...
VENDORS::
Venue:: Mountain Springs Lodge
Wedding Coordinator:: Andrea, Mountain Springs Lodge
Florals:: Alexa Johnson, Family friend
Sweets Table & Cake:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
Dress:: The Dress Theory, Pronovias
Bridesmaids Dresses:: BHLDN by Anthropologie
DJ:: JMG Entertainment, Jed Gossman
Videography:: Best Made Videos
Caterer:: Mountain Springs Lodge
Boots:: Hunter Boots
Shoes:: Badgley Mischka
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LADIES- do it, get it, bring it, strut it, unleash your inner sexy self...and let's show off your goods! Gosh -one day you will be 80 and want to show those grandkids, or other ladies (or men) in the nursing home what you used to look like!
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Families look different for everyone. Sometimes they are big, sometimes they are small, sometimes they include pets, sometimes they are blended, sometimes there are wounds that need healing...no matter what they all include love and the desire for connection. Often times family photos (or prepping for them) is stressful. Selecting outfits (and no you don't have to all match), keeping attitudes in check, rushing to get out the door when all of a sudden someone spills something or has to go to the bathroom. Then you have the weather and everyone NOT smiling at the camera when told to.
Well even though all of those things happen the goal is to not to only aim for the 8x10 glossy image of perfection for your wall or Christmas card, but to enjoy a bit of time together and love on each other. To interact with your kids and remember the things you love about them. This is not the time to be the strict parent and teach them a lesson (I say that to myself as I write this). I fall into the trap too, of wanting them to 'BEHAVE' as they should...maybe they would if we just let them 'BE' ...meanwhile I swirl around you zooming in and out of the moments that are happening. Of course I always try to get people to laugh and even once in a while look at the camera but truthfully life happens in these in between times and isn't that what you want to remember? Even if it means a tantrum or a snot bubble, but what if it could mean that toofy smile, or the cutest nose crinkle?...that's real life and having a variety of memories after a session is my goal. Perfectly imperfect...
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I photograph both in my in-home area as well as my clients home. It's best if we talk about lighting and how your home is setup to make sure it works but I will say sometimes it's nice to come into your environment and let you all just 'be'. And other times, it's nice to get out and bring the excitement to me. We chat, figure out clothing and the different looks we can potentially do and how a session will flow.
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Their big windows allowed the sunshine to stream in and made for a light airy feel! Letting the kids jump and run freely (with a bit of random containment) was refreshing!
I met Carli, Olivia's good friend,when we were there this past August. She was kind enough to babysit my girls for an evening and hang out with us adults a bit. She is vibrant and fun and these two will miss each other when school is done.
We ventured around Houston find sketchy warehouses and rooftops and ending downtown in the city lights.
They have managed to survive #Harvey and have been helping out neighbors and shelters and being part of a community!!
You two ladies are gorgeous and full of life. Don't ever lose that. Life is just starting for you both and I can't wait to see where God leads you!
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Info::
Venue:: Heritage Hall Kirkland, WA
Coordinator:: EVENTful Moments - Jessica Campbell Jess Bartleson
DJ:: Otto-Matic Mobile Music
Caterer:: Redmond's Bar and Grill
Cake Artist:: Paul Massey
MUA:: Timaree Rae
Shana Rogers - Bridal bouquets
Carly Linger & Monica Linger Venue Flowers
Rentals:: CORT Party Rental
Hair:: Kristin Rahm
Photographer: Arlene Chambers Photography/ Seattle Wedding Photographer
Seattle Wedding Photographer
2nd Photographer: Brooks Scribner
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Tom looks at Darcy with an endearing smile and she returns it promptly. They make each other laugh and have a quiet, tender love. With Darcy losing her dad just a few months ago, her mom walked her down the aisle. There were some emotional moments during the day remembering her dad and I feel giving acknowledgment helps even if it means a few tears. Darcy is super close with her mom and sister and their bond is evident.
Tom's good friend officiated the ceremony which made it that much more special. It was a quaint group of friends that celebrated these two and so much sincerity and love for them. During the toasts Molly praised Darcy for her dancing skills as well as her loyal lifetime friendship. Life is about these connections and hearing their toasts celebrate and welcome these two and their 'togetherness' is inspiring.
I feel blessed to know these two and witness their love. Everyone supports them emphatically and could not stop talking about how special they are as a couple.
They are off to Italy for their honeymoon and I am sure enjoying tons of bread and wine…
Much love to you two…
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Info::
Venue:: DeLille Cellars
Caterer:: A Platinum Event
Wedding Coordinator:: Kristen Molina / A Platinum Event
Florist:: Julie Borrud/ Bella Rugosa
Cake Artist:: Dessert Works
DJ:: Branden Landon
Wedding Gown:: La Belle Elaine’s Bridal Dress Shop
Shoes:: Badgley Mischka
Hair:: Becky Tripicchio
Makeup:: Shannon Mercil
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Vera Wang/ David’s Bridal
Suits:: Macy’s
Officiant:: Jake Snider
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography / Seattle Wedding Photographer
Seattle Wedding Photographer
2nd Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
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Info::
Venue:: The Golf Club at Newcastle
Caterer:: Newcastle
Wedding Coordinator:: Janine / J9Bing
Florist:: Janine / J9Bing
Videographer:: Best Made Videos Reid Johnson
Cake Artist:: Jeannie Kehn
DJ:: Tim Humphrey / Ideal Entertainment
Hair:: Obadiah Hair Salon
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Don Kersey
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography / Seattle Wedding Photographer
Seattle Wedding Photographer
2nd Photographer:: Dan’yelle McNeely
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Info::
Venue:: Hidden Meadows
Caterer:: Wooden Spoon
Wedding Coordinator:: EVENTful Moments
Florist:: Flowers By Tiffany
Cake Artist:: Angie Oliver, friend
DJ:: Ottomatic Mobile Music- Otto
Signs:: Chalk Boss
Wedding Gown:: The White Dress, Portland
Shoes:: Betsy Johnson
Hair:: Angie Oliver
Makeup:: Delaney Nohavec
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Monty Wright, Snoqualmie Valley Alliance Church
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography / Seattle Wedding Photographer
Seattle & Snohomish Wedding Photographer
2nd Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
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My mom yelling checking in on me, from the other room, 'Are you doing your hair AGAIN?? Why are you washing off your makeup? Does it need to take you this long to get ready!?' Well YESSS my 5 inch hair didn’t stand straight up on its own ya know…it took time. It was ART!
Little did I realize this was all part of who God made me to be. I am sure it was annoying and I am sure I took waaaaay too long to get dressed. And trying new hair and makeup styles were challenging to understand, especially when my parents DID want to hang a school photo in the house and knew I may one day regret that huuuuuge, backcombed perm.
One day at a time, one phase at a time…I sit here 40 years old. Having been a banker, a manager in an escrow office, immigrating to a new country, getting married, loving spicy food (ok that's a bonus tidbit) and now a mom of tweeners (gosh -I have now have other hair stories I can tell you)…I STILL love doing my hair, makeup and changing my outfit 3x a day…ok not everyday and somedays it may just be a variety of yoga pants!! More importantly it has been such a treat to find such talented people in an ubiquitous field, that have shared their craft with me. To see how they express their art and heck I love being a canvas!
What once was an annoying habit has led me to seeing detail that others may not see. And not in a critical or comparing sort of way. IN a way of embracing how different we all are. Shapes, sizes, eye color, noses, birthmarks and let’s not forget personalities – YES these do come across in a photo!
Being in front of the camera is such good perspective for me, to see what it's like on the other side! To know ways I can make my clients more comfortable. To study poses that work for different body types and get people to laugh and relax. We don’t breathe enough, I mean we breathe but don’t BREATHE. We rush through life forgetting to connect and enjoy.
I am so grateful for those days of doing and RE-doing my wing eyeliner…and learning how to curl and crimp my hair…cause let me tell ya I am bringing sexy I mean, crimping back…ok so it may look like you’re hair is fried but it adds a thickness that no ‘thickening’ shampoo could EVER do!
Those days of playing with different looks taught me to embrace my differences…and even though it may have taken me 40 years, I am sure I have a lot to learn in my next 40 – yes I am only living till 80 cause living to 100 seems daunting…just sayin’!
Cheers to dressing up, changing outfits, and having a hubs who is willing to endure and even have fun while doing it! (And notice --HE too had an outfit change) :)
Thanks to ::
Timaree - Hair, Makeup and Personal Photos
Ryan Flynn Photography - Anniversary/ Couple Photos
Outfits::
Nordstrom - Free People, BP, Steve Madden, Nike
Zara - Leather coat
Laineemeg Bridal - Cream Tulle Skirt
Anthropologie - Hat
Floryday - Blue/White floral dress
Forever21 - Jewelry
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Info::
Venue:: JM Cellars
Coordinator:: Jacky @ Event Success
Florals:: Fena Flowers
Videographer:: Unified Cinematic
Catering:: Kaspars Special Events & Catering
Music:: Windsong Classical Trio
Officiant:: Elaine
Hair & Makeup:: Kathy Evans Beauty Studios
CORT Party Rental
Vintage Ambiance
La Tavola Fine Linen
GreenLight Events
British Motor Coach
2nd Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
Seattle Wedding Photographer:: Arlene Chambers
I kept hearing them say throughout the day ‘it’s just perfect, what a perfect day’…and hearing from them Sunday about how they were both in awe of how it all turned out (despite many days of worrying about the unpredictable Seattle weather)…it really did turn out FLAWLESS.
Ending with Dick's Drive In Restaurant Burgers was a huge treat and everyone LOVED them...I have never seen burgers devoured so fast...including Erik's 2 year old niece!
You two are impeccable…enjoy PARIS…and a few million crepes for me!
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Venue:: Within Sodo
Coordinator:: Jen Leslie Events
Florist:: Jen Leslie Events
Cake Artist:: Eat more Cake by Candice
Caterer:: Porkchop & Co.
Late Night Snack:: Dick’s Burgers
DJ:: DJ Malo, Danny
Wedding Gown:: BHLDN
Shoes:: Badgley Mischka
Suits:: Nordstrom
Calligraphy & Signs:: Chalk Boss
Stationary:: Minted
Jewelers:: Bony Levy The Mrs. Box
Makeup & Bridesmaids Hair:: Salon Maison
Hair Stylist:: Karen Reichert
Bridesmaids Dressess:: BHLDN
Officiant:: Margo Helgen
Rentals:: CORT Party Rental
Vintage Ambiance
Something Borrowed Portland
Creative Bus
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
2nd Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
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Info::
Venue: Lord Hill Farms
Caterer: Lord Hill Farms
Florist: Costco
Cake Artist: Cupcake Couture Trish Mcknight
DJ: Ramon Villalovos
Wedding Gown: LaineeMeg Bridal
Shoes: TOMS
Suits: Men's Wearhouse
Hair & Makeup: Miranda McGuire
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My phone rang and it was this upbeat chipper gal on the other end. Having photographed her fellow college friend in the summer, Gabbie was super excited to tell me all about her wedding. She was ecstatic. I could almost ‘hear’ her beaming from ear to ear. Adoring words flowed from her lips about her fiancé, Jimi and how they couldn’t wait to get married. She had a ton of plans for the reception and her enthusiasm definitely made me smile! Of course her excitement to hire me made me anticipate their big day even more.
Meanwhile Jimi and his groomsmen were getting ready at a nearby hotel trying to relax, as a night of dancing was awaiting them.
Gabbie and her girls hopped on the party bus and headed to a park down the road to have her first look with Jimi. She could hardly wait. The day was here and as she reflected she was in awe!
We found a forest like spot at this park. Jimi was amongst the trees and was anticipating Gabbie’s arrival. He turned around and was enamored. Her nerves finally calmed and their embrace was such a symbol of what they are to each other. Peace.
The sun was shining…it may have been chilly but finding an open area with some pretty cascading light was more than I could have hoped. They enjoyed some time together and endured the brisk weather. The bridal party had such good attitudes and were full of fun banter!
Gabbie was so graceful…her dress hung on her and gave the illusion that she was floating. Jimi, poised and somewhat composed couldn’t stop smiling at her!! It wasn’t long before we had to get to the church for the ceremony. We made a brief stop at Sodo Park, where the reception was going to be, for a few other photos then we were off to the church.
It was a beautiful Catholic ceremony at St. George Church. With an encouraging and loving liturgy spoken, communion was taken, vows were exchanged and they were pronounced Mr. & Mrs. Lewnes.
They ran down the aisle ready to sign their marriage certificate. We quickly did some group family photos and then made our way to enjoy the reception party at Sodo Park.
Sodo is a stunning warehouse. Walking in, the tables had a simple yet elegant feel to them. Stunning centerpieces and an overall romantic ambiance filled the room. Gabbie had a vision to keep people entertained throughout the night (just in case they weren’t into dancing).
First up was a Cigar bar…I mean with it not raining people being able to be outside in January (in Seattle) was a treat in itself. The cookie table was full of decadent sweets to savor. It was hard not to hover around that table all night.
As dinner was about to start Gabbie & Jimi made their entrance and went straight into their first dance. It was followed by Jimi’s dance with his mom and Gabbie’s special dance with her mom. Let me tell you those two ladies can move!! Much love and affection were expressed during the toasts with a few moments of tender emotion shared by all. Words of affirmation and an excitement for their future was evident. The cake was cut and dancing commenced! This was surely a dancing crowd. I am not sure Gabbie left the dance floor for more than a minute here and there.
The Gelato bar and Caricature artist both arrived offering more variety for the guests to enjoy. The line for the gelato spoke for itself, as the scoops were generous and were full of delicious-ness (yes you bet I had some). Gabbie wanted something different than a photobooth so that’s how she landed on the caricature artist idea. They were so talented. I have to say not only in their artistic ability but in their knowledge of peoples ancestry based on face shape and features.
The crowd continued to dance of course working up an appetite so why not bring in….HAPPY MEALS…McDonald happy meals were delivered and people loved it! Gabbie thought of everything.
Ending the night with a bang…or shall I say sparkle..they ran through the crowd as everyone congratulated them. It was a seamless day and they couldn’t have been more ready for their honeymoon.
Congratulations you two. You are dynamic and definitely the makings of a power couple. It’s lovely to see how much people love you and it was an honor to share in your day!
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Info::
Reception Venue:: Sodo Park
Ceremony Venue:: St. George
Caterer:: Herban Feast
Coordinator:: Elise Rushton
Florist:: Love Blooms, Katrina Allen
Videographer:: Best Made Videos
Cake Artist:: Borracchini’s Bakery
DJ:: Sounds Unlimited
Wedding Gown:: Romashka Bridal, Maggie Sottero
Shoes:: Blue by Betsey Johnson
Suits:: Mens Wearhouse
Hair & Makeup:: Posh Styling
Bridesmaids Gowns:: I DO Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Rev. Kevin Duggan
Cigars:: JR Cigars
Caricature Artist:: Muggshotz
Gelato Bar:: Gelatiamo
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
2nd Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
Photographer:: Bob Chambers
Everyone has a story and people are absolutely intriguing. We are all different yet have so many similarities. Being married almost 18 years there have certainly been bumps in the road. Big bumps, little bumps and some potholes as well. Let's just say I could definitely use a few construction zone signs here and there!
Being part of peoples happiest day, seeing their chemistry, their love, their fairytale come to life is an both honor and emotional. Emotional to remember those times as well as knowing not everyday is a fairytale. Challenges come and real life sets in...what I am learning is life is often BOTH. Fun and serious. Good and tough. A fairytale mixed with doses (sometimes large doses) of reality. AND somedays...are like groundhog day...wake up, eat, work, work, did I say work, sprinkle in some motherhood, maybe rinse, and repeat!
Without my clients who often become friends, and without these construction zones I don't think I would appreciate what I have.
With that being said...A HUGE virtual HUG and THANK YOU to all my couples!! Thank you for your kind words and taking the time to post a review. Referrals are the majority of my business and without you I wouldn't be able to do what I do! THANK YOU is hardly enough...
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She had waited for this day for what seemed like forever. With her Monique Lhuillier dress hanging in the window and her friends by her side Michelle was ready to enjoy the day ahead.
Michelle and Shawn are fun…and when I say fun… I mean like up for anything. They are easy going and free spirited so when we suggested trying to take in some Seahawk pride they were totally up for the idea. We followed their car into a sea of tailgaters. With traffic being CRAAAAZY…we decided to find some random tents and hop out. Of course they were greeted with open arms. Fireball, jello shots, selfies, snapchats and cornhole. This is what I call making memories on your wedding day! Michelle and Shawn could not stop laughing…needing to get back, they hopped in the car ready for their reception!
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Info::
Reception Venue:: Arctic Club
Ceremony Venue:: St. James Cathedral
Coordinator:: EVENTful Moments
Florist:: Flowers by Tiffany
Videographer:: Sure Shot Video
Cake Artist:: Cakewalk Shop
DJ:: WA Sound, Danny Goldfarb
Wedding Gown:: Brides For a Cause , Monique Lhuillier
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Vow to be Chic, Monique Lhuillier
Shoes:: Christian Louboutin
Tuxes:: Jos. A. Bank, Vera Wang
Robes:: Plum Pretty Sugan
Calligraphy:: Kirsten Rose, friend
Mirror Chalk Art:: Champagne & Chalk
Stationary:: Fine Stationery
Jewelers:: Joanne Wright & Company
Makeup:: Shannon Mercil
Hair Stylist:: 7 Salon, Miyoko
Officiant:: Father MIchael Ryan
Rentals:: Rented Elegance
CORT
La Tavola Fine Linen
EVENTful Moments
Chair:: Sweet N Designs
British Motor Coach:: Get away car
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
2nd Photographer:: Bob Chambers
I never want to be above learning. Whether it’s a You Tube video, an online class or simply a conversation with a new perspective…I always want to be open and willing to learn. I mean gosh, I certainly don’t have this job or life all figured out. In case you didn’t know… I am a parent, and shortly into parenting everything you think you know…your kids reiterate to you that you don’t.
With weddings being intense and everyone managing them different, not to mention workflow, posing, and all that goes into dealing with a day that is multi-faceted…I thought why not attend a workshop. Even if I learn a just few additional nuggets it would be worth it. And meeting new people in the industry…even better.
As I poked around Instagram one day I saw a workshop called Vine &Flourish by Kristen Marie Parker & Carly Bish. Of course being in the industry you hear names, and see images everytime you click on anything social media wise. So I followed links from page to page almost as if I was skipping through a field…and pretty much with a hop, skip and a jump, decided right then to sign up!
It was a day filled, like full, full to the brim with a variety of topics, conversation, struggles, shooting, food, editing, and laughter too! It is always encouraging to hear how others navigate situations, and how they deal with both the business side as well as the personal side of it all!
I think my biggest take away from the workshop was getting deeper into extracting organic emotion. It’s what we all want to see in photographs… but when placed in front of the camera with tons of eyes on you I realize it’s hard for people. Giving them things to do, subjects to talk about, ‘fun-tivities’ (as Kristen calls them, gosh I wish I would have coined that term)…it made me step back and really begin to feel again. Putting myself in their shoes…to sometimes let silence do the talking …and…simply remembering to breathe.
The workshop also pushed me to consider one day sharing all I have learned...I am not a big public speaker (somehow a bridal party of 24 doesn't intimidate me but put a podium in front of me and whoa...I want to throw a blanket over my head and hide) but mentoring and sharing my own experiences. 2016 was a year filled with huge lessons...the word to describe it for me...perspective!! We each have one...they are most like all different AND if we let it, it can be a powerful way to learn. Between my past life in the escrow industry, customer service, traveling and now the photography world there is a lot to share and a lot to gain from listening to others!
Thank you Kristen and Carly for your perspective...for so many things you brought to the table that day…and for sharing your talent and love for what you do with all of us. I loved connecting with gals from all over the country and seeing such new and different perspectives.
‘Learning is the only thing the mind never exhausts, never fears and never regrets’ –Leonardo DeVinci
Thanks to::
Creative styling by THATCH FLORAL
Cake by BLUE BOX BAKERY
Paper Goods by LIBBY TIPTON
Hair & Makeup by OFF WHITE BRIDE
Outfits by NORDSTROM, ZARA & an Alexandra Grecco skirt from THE DRESS THEORY
Models, Rachael & Keith, recently married, and stunning models for the day. Thank you for spending the day with us…you make looking good look effortless!
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Finding a location true to them was important for Laura. Black Diamond Gardens seemed to be a perfect fit. A rustic, garden with a greenhouse as a reception hall…and the hopes of an outdoor candlelight ceremony even if it was October.
Laura & Tyler each got ready at the venue with the venue providing a special bridal cabin. It had a quaint lodge type feel. Tyler and the guys were a bit more casual as they dressed along side the grooms trailer. With the sun making an appearance they did their final dressing outdoors.
It meant so much for Laura to have her mom there to help her with some of her details. Assisting with her dress and earrings as her bridesmaids surrounded her with support.
Tyler’s mom, Danielle, owner of NEST interior design, helped execute Laura’s vision for décor. With a Harry Potter infused, romantic vintage inspired theme the greenhouse was transformed. Lemon infused olive oil favors for the guests that read ‘Olive our love to you’ were a unique way to display name tags.
Rich colorful florals dripped both out of her bouquet and around the venue. All with the most fragrant of flowers. I wish the photos were scratch and sniff cause I have never smelled such sweet aroma from a bouquet. Books and candles, old medicine bottles with flowers lined the moss filled tables. It was simply gorgeous.
The weather that day was warm with the sun shining down on Laura and Tyler pretty much all day. They couldn’t have asked for better October weather especially considering it was raining all week prior.
We were able to wrangle the bridal party and dodge traffic on the busy road to take in some of the fall foliage. They were all so excited for Tyler and Laura and each had such special friendships with them.
Finishing formals with the family and a having a chance to add in some candids of the cutest flower girl…who seemed to take a liking to my name rather than saying ‘cheese’ so the word of the day happened to be ‘ARRRRRRRLLLLLEEEEEEEENNNE’…she was absolutely hilarious (and made my day).
Laura and Tyler wanted a candlelight ceremony. I must say it was something that was abit out of my comfort zone as in October once it gets dark…it gets DARK. With the hopes of tiki torches lighting the aisle we quickly realized they weren’t staying lit. Another part of my job is to stay flexible and make what we had work. We did, and it was a calm, sentimental and absolutely beautiful ceremony. Mid-way they lit a unity candle and took a moment to enjoy the silence and the view of all of their family and friends who were there to support them. It was then they shared their light, and one by one everyones candle was lit and an amber glow lit up the night. Phil, the officiant, shared his experiences of both the couple and each individually. How he had seem them evolve into the people they are and how tender and genuine they are to not only each other but people in general.
With rings exchanged they shared a kiss and ran down the aisle as husband and wife.
They were ready to enjoy the reception and eat. And with a desert table like they had, I was ready for cake ;)
The reception was filled with toasts and tons of adoration. Listening to friend after friend and parents share stories of these two and their love made me tear up not to mention the bride and groom. Tyler’s little brother, Nathan, captivated the crowd with his admiration of his big ‘brudda’ and impressed everyone with his verbiage.
They shared cake and a kiss and then went into their first dance. After enjoying their guests and dancing for a while they were ready to exit and head to their honeymoon the next day. Everyone cheered as they left to an array of sparklers and I must say people could not be happier for them. They have a tender love and sweet gentleness towards each other and I love how Tyler tends to Laura.
I am excited for you to start their life together and I hope your honeymoon was warm and relaxing!
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Info::
Venue:: Black Diamond Gardens
Caterer:: K & F Catering
Coordinator:: Emma Wehmann, Simply Serendipity Events
Décor & Florist:: Danielle, Erickson, NEST
Videographer:: Best Made Videos, Reid Johnson
DJ:: Rian Souleles
Wedding Gown:: David’s Bridal
Hair & Makeup:: Sorrinda Salon, Michelle Pieromonacl
Shoes:: Modcloth
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Etsy
Rentals:: Vintage Ambiance, Seattle Farm Tables, Cort Party Rentals
Officiant:: Phillip Manginelli
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Bob Chambers
Getting married on a Seahawk Sunday was perfect as they are avid fans and knew if the Seahawks won it would be good luck for them and it was! Not only did they win but Briannah & Drew had the best day.
The groomsmen got ready and in the midst of it all Drew opened a couple of gifts, one from his best friend and roommate (a belt with an engraving about their ‘commonlaw’ relationship) and another gift from Briannah. She did a special album for him of some tasteful photos for him! I loved his reaction taking it all in, wondering when she would have been able to sneak away to do it.
As the vendors buzzed around setting everything up Briannah & Drew opted for a first look. We had a sunshine filled day and as Drew turned around he was stunned. In awe of Briannah. These two love with abandon and are most at ease when together. Drew gifted Briannah with a white gold bracelet and a love note to accompany it…and Briannah gifted drew with a handkerchief with his own letter embroidered on the front. I love all of the little special details that they did for each other…never trying to out do each other only wanted to make each other feel extra ordinary!
As we walked around a few blocks of the Everett area…yes I find beauty in Everett too…we added the fun, spunky and spontaneous bridal party. They were so kind and energetic with one groomsman, Elliott who deserves a shout out for carrying my bag for me…THANK YOU!
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It really hit Ryan 2 years ago that Hannah was not only the one, but HIS one for FOREVER!! With their families so connected by this point it made it easy for Ryan to approach Hannah’s dad to get her parents blessing. Funny thing was when Ryan went to ask Hannah's dad, he was already asleep and with the proposal being the next day it didn't really work out for his to technically 'ask'. Luckily her brothers were around and happily gave their blessing and Hannah's parents, well, they already considered Ryan part of the family so when they heard the news officially they were thrilled.
Hannah wasn’t sure about incorporating a garter as they weren’t going to do a garter toss however a few days prior to the wedding she asked her mom if she could wear the one she wore 30+ years ago. Of course Joan was thrilled!!! Hannah also found a tie clip for her dad and engraved the message ‘I love you daddy’. It didn’t take long to notice the tight knit relationship between Hannah and her parents.
They have one amazing bridal party. With such a large party they were so much fun and obliging…and probably the least amount of blinkers I have ever had!! Which on a selfish note, makes my job easier when choosing bridal party photos!! THANK YOU!
We headed back to the venue for family photos and to start the ceremony. As we walked in the décor was incredible . Dripping florals, candle ambiance, rose petals sprinkled down the aisle and a alter area I have never seen before. Simply by Tamara Nicole did one spectacular job executing the couples vision. They had a semi circle of flowers with chairs for both the parents on one side and MOH’s and Best men on the other. The bridal party entered and stood along the wall at the front. Hannah’s mom walked down the aisle with Ryan’s dad…and Ryan patiently waited for Hannah to approach him accompanied by her dad. It was beautiful and emotional. The parents each wrote letters for Hannah and Ryan to open in 5 years, as well as handed the rings to them to exchange. I loved being able to see their emotion along side Hannah and Ryans’. They said their promises of forever and KISSED. They exited as husband and wife and couldn’t wait to dance the night away.
Cocktail hour commenced and the room was transformed. Working with Tamara was such a treat. Her vision and ability to execute Hannah & Ryan’s dream was nothing short of amazing. Centerpieces, menus, sprigs of greenery, nametags on glasses of champagne…nothing was missed.
Toasts filled with love and intertwined with tears and laughter filled the room. These two are loved…adored…treasured. They paid much tribute to Ryan’s mother. Reiterating that Ryan is gentle and Hannah is kind and she loved both of them and especially loved them together. Memories of how they met and how their love has grown were shared and the support they have is overwhelming! Everyone cheered and dancing began.
DJ Otto turned the music up and the lights down and after the first dances were shared the party began. And let me say these guys can party. They danced for hours with a full dance floor and enjoyed every minute with their friends. The parents didn’t even sit back to watch and take it in, they joined them on the dance floor to celebrate all together!
Midnight struck and they ended the night driving off in a convertible '67 Camaro. They had a perfect day however their honeymoon in Aruba was calling and they were so excited for some well deserved R&R.
You two are a power couple for sure. Dynamic and gracious and full of love!
We wish you many many blessings!!!!
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Info::
Venue:: Hollywood Schoolhouse Woodinville, WA
Caterer:: Hollywood Schoolhouse
Coordinator:: Simply by Tamara Nicole
Florist:: Christie Jones, friend
Cake Artist:: The SweetSide
Treats:: Lady Yum
DJ:: Otto-Matic Music
Wedding Gown:: The Dress Theory
Designer:: Katie May
Makeup:: Flawless Beauty Bars
Hair Stylist:: Tahnee Brock, James Alan Salon
Shoes:: Shoes of Prey
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Bella Bridesmaid
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Kelvin Thomas
Bar:: Prive Bar
Rentals:: Grand Event Rentals
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Bob Chambers & Brooks Scribner Photography
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These two definitely know how to love. He admires her from afar but also appreciates her up close. She gifted him with a special photo album with photos for his own eyes only. As he flipped the pages and started to blush his groomsmen were rather inquisitive. But having respect for his bride he kept it to himself.
Alexa, adores Kyle. Everything about him. Tenderly caring for him and all of his hobbies. They do everything together and have a bond stronger than super glue.
They were married at Hidden Meadows and it turned out to be a perfectly beautiful day. A few hiccups along the way didn’t stop these two and their adventurous side. We decided to go off site for a few photos in town and at the flower fields. We made it back just in time to join the bridal party as they waited at the venue for photos.
The ceremony was short and sweet and performed by Kyle’s cousin. It included the children she nannies and two meaningful readings by Alexa’s brothers. They kissed and made it official and celebrated down the aisle.
As cocktail hour began, we snuck in family photos prior to the grand entrance for the reception.
The night was slipping away fast but not before we caught the tail end of the golden sunset. Before the sun dipped behind the hills of the Snohomish Valley Kyle & Alexa shared a kiss and a stroll along the railroad tracks.
As the reception progressed toasts were shared along with a touching story from Kyle’s mom. Patrice shared how they had lost Kyle’s brother in a car accident 4 years prior. It was then she saw a compassionate side of Alexa that was very different than the ‘stalkerish’ 15 year old she once knew. Alexa cared for Kyle in a way no one else could. She was there for him day in and day out. When the nights were long and all you could do was cry. She also showed Kyle’s mom and dad a persistent love. Each month on the anniversary day the doorbell would ring and there would be Alexa with a bundle of roses for Patrice & Mike. Finally on the one year anniversary Patrice told Alexa they were grieving but moving on…that she no longer needed to bring roses. The next month the doorbell rang and Patrice opened the door…this time Alexa wasn’t there but the doorstep was covered in rose petals. This girl knows how to silently show love and care.
Patrice and Mike have received Alexa with open arms and these two families are united in a way that is very special.
It was a very touching toast and meaningful to say the least. (It's even hard to write this and not cry)...
The night ended with dancing to Kyle & Alexa’s favorite music, EDM…headbanging and enjoying every moment. I loved seeing a bride & groom together on the dance floor.
You can tell they are in it for the long haul. You two are young and vibrant and simply amazing.
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Info::
Venue:: Hidden Meadows
Caterer:: Trails End
Florist:: Flowers By Tiffany
Cake Artist:: Friends, Teresa & Deborah
DJ & Photobooth:: Otto-Matic Mobile Music, DJ Otto
Wedding Gown:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Designer:: Stella York
Videographer:: Timeproof Productions
Makeup:: Anta, Friend
Hair Stylist:: Rachel, Friend
Shoes:: Sam Edelman
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Rentals:: Sweet Buffet Lady
Officiant:: Cousin, Rand Matter
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
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Kailey & Statton the love and joy you have surpasses a lot. Not to mention the respect I have witnessed between you both. May you have many years of happiness and lovely memories like the ones you are making in Hawaii!
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Venue:: Carleton Farms
Caterer:: J&L BBQ Joel Sexton
Florist:: Flowers By Tiffany
Cake Artist:: Mikes Amazing Cakes
Wedding Coordinator:: Sarah Elliot, friend
DJ:: DJ Aanshul - [email protected]
Wedding Gown:: Bellevue Bridal
Designer:: Wtoo
Hair & Makeup:: I Love Blush
Shoes:: Nordstrom
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Bellevue Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Rentals:: Cort Party Rentals
Officiant:: David Cooper, Together Forever
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
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Shortly after Steve made his appearance. For having never met Steve you would think we had known each other for a while. He is warm and engaging, and just when I thought Emily was over the top sweet here is a guy equally as sweet. WHAT!?
Considerate and genuine with almost as big and blue of eyes as her. Seriously they are a PERFECT match.
With each of them having 8 in their bridal party they did very well to keep on time. AND a big shout out to Emily who did her own hair and makeup...and looked flawless to boot!
We decided to do a first look with Emily's dad as well as with Steve. Tears were flowing and the love and adoration Wayne has for his daughter is endearing. It was kind of neat to have Steve watch from the sidelines.
Emily looked like a princess and Steve was smitten. Embracing and taking a moment to let their nerves settle...they were in disbelief that their day was finally here. We wondered to a nearby park dodging cars along the way. I love how most people are forgiving of a bride, must be the huge white gown with yard of tulle!
We did a bit of trespassing but it wouldn't really be a shoot with me if we didn't.
The bridal party joined us soon thereafter as well as their beverages...it was a hot day and I try to keep the photos fun and relaxed so it is enjoyable for all If drinks help by all means bring them along. We ended on the putting green celebrating the gift Emily gave to Steve, a new putter with a note that read 'You make my heart pitter putter'. Emily will have to wait to use part of her gift, a Cinnabon giftcard (she has been saving up to eat those carbs again) and a pair of sunglasses for Hawaii (their honeymoon happening in a few weeks). The one thing she immediately wore were the sparkling new diamonds Steve surprised her with.
Prior to the ceremony the family gathered near these big white doors outside the ballroom. I love these doors as a backdrop for a pics. Its classy and classic and was an easy area for everyone to congregate. The ceremony was set for 5:30 and a friend of Emily's, Emma, was officiating it. She also had a fellow friend as a cellist as guests arrived. Emma gave them the cutest gift that promotes togetherness. A frying pan and a cook book called 'One Pan Two Plates'. Love it!
During their vows they reiterated important words they always say to each other and remind each other often in cards. 'I love you AND I like you'. Even as I write this now it makes me tear up as it's soooo true. It's such a concept...to like our spouse as much as we love them. I think that is something that is often lost after years of marriage. Thank you, for the reminder!!
After the 'I Do's' they had flower petals sprinkled on them as they ran down the aisle. Dinner commenced shortly after and toasts began. What lovely words were spoken by her sister, his best man and her dad. Words of love, adoration and encouragement for the future. The best man had a long poem/ song and gosh I wish I could quote it all...I must say it was rather impressive.
Now they are enjoying the blazing sun, blue skies and white topped houses in Greece. Much love to you both...you are one fun and gorgeous couple!
She bought the bridesmaids necklaces 2 years ago knowing she would need them sooner than later. And now, finally, on 07.23.16 they finally were put to good use.
They cut the cake and started the dance party…with a brief interruption for their sorority chant. I would definitely say most of Kelly & Kory’s friends know they are HUGE Coug fans, as they both graduated from WSU. It only made sense to incorporate the WSU color in some of their details as well as a huge ice sculpture in the lobby for specialty drinks (and other schenanigans later that happened which we can’t talk about)…all of it helped to make the night that much more special.
Morgan, moving here from the mid west doesn’t see her family all that often. Seeing the bond between her and her dad was absolutely inspirational. Loving, caring, and with the ultimate being tenderness.
The mom’s joined the bridesmaids in helping Morgan button her dress, as well as dealing with a few mishaps along the way… like maybe a missing button, and maybe their sweet dog Cali running through the mud prior to skimming over the bottom skirt of her dress. All in all I think the thing that kept everyone laughing was seeing the special undergarments Morgan selected to wear under her dress. I can’t say much more but they were colorful and super unique and made for some awesome inappropriate conversation.
Prior to the first look Morgan decided to have a special time with her dad. It was emotional and you can tell he is so very proud of her. She has accomplished a lot and he has been her #1 fan. She admires him and they have such a love and respect for each other.
After wiping the tears Morgan was ready to shed a few more when seeing Aaron for the first time. But not before doing a photo outside the wood workshop. We beckoned Aaron to come out onto the upper deck while Morgan waited below. It was after that Aaron headed downstairs and waited for his future bride.
They walked...they smiled…he was in awe…she was relieved. Finally in each others arms ready to start the rest of the day together. These two are vulnerable and have the ability to share their emotion so freely. They stopped and prayed and I have to say I have never had a couple pray at a first look. Inspiring and reminds me…there is always time to stop and pray!
With such a vast property we tried to take in a few different areas for their photos and later had the bridal party and family join as well. With walking paths here and there and props like a couch and a chaise lounge it was fun to incorporate a few different things!
Guests started to arrive and once settled Morgan was driven to the aisle by her dad in an old Bronco. With her dad walking her down the aisle and Aaron anxiously waiting, Aaron then firmly shook Doug’s hand to have his bride join him at the alter.
They said their ‘I Do’s’ and pledged to a God centered forever love. Before sealing it with a kiss they lit a unity candle (or tried to…I think the symbolism counts when the wind doesn’t allow for the candles to stay lit)...and then were pronounced husband and wife.
After their kiss the two of them looked so ecstatic. They are incredibly gentle and sweet with each other and equally can’t keep their hands off each other.
They were able to take a moment to enjoy some appetizers and sit quietly. We took that time to take a photo of them by their piano. It super special to them and I can see why. After hearing Aaron serenade us …WOW...he is super talented. I can only imagine how peaceful it must be for him to play for Morgan at any given time when they are home.
Evening was approaching and they joined the rest of the guests in time for dinner and toasts. These two are loved. That may not even be enough to say…admired, adored, cherished and people want to honor them.
Morgans little sister and maid of honor, Courtney, looks up to her dearly. She told stories of how she wanted to do everything Morgan did and be everything Morgan wanted to be. If that isn’t enough of a testimony of how wonderful Morgan is than I don’t know what is.
Aaron’s parents were celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. Another huge encouragement to Morgan and Aaron that couples can make it! There were 2 other couples in the crowd that were celebrating 51 years. What an example, it was awesome that each couple had some words of wisdom they shared with the couple.
Some of Morgan’s cousins did a group toast/ song in German. With everyone cheers’ing’ and laughing it was time to dance.
Not only are these two gorgeous to look at but their tenderness shines through. They love Jesus and people…and people love them.
I feel so honored to have been part of their day. I could feel such a sincere joy from the moment I walked in that day. They are now honeymooning and relaxing in Hawaii and rightfully deserved as they worked so hard to prep for their special day.
Morgan & Aaron you are loved!
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Venue:: Das Feld Haus (Their personal property)
Caterer:: Grant & Linda Lander
Florist:: Flora D’Amore Chealsea Dudder Cox
Cake Artist:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
DJ:: Blue Beatz Entertainment, Jeremy
Wedding Gown:: Mea Marie Bridal
Designer:: Pronovias
Invitation Suite:: Originals Paper Art
Makeup:: Jonelle Cornwell - 206-973-6759
Hair Stylist:: I love Blush, Karen
Shoes:: DSW
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Romashka Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Pastor Fred Williams
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
The Knot website:: Morgan+Aaron Haack
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Gracious to start the day early in order to get a few getting ready ‘shots’ and then planning to head to Mukilteo. Krisla, at home in her parent’s house in Mukilteo was primping with her girlfriends. They were starting with a traditional Vietnamese Tea Ceremony which meant Krisla started in a delicate, ivory, long sleeve, lace 'ao dai' (traditional Vietnamese dress). It was gorgeous…I couldn’t resist hanging it in the immaculate garden that surrounded her parent’s home.
Although they had already seen each other this was a private time for them and it was nice to see them relaxing into some moments together. We were able to take in all of the surroundings for their portraits as well as the bridal party photos prior to heading to the church.
Guests were arriving and we snuck Jourden away to freshen up.
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Venue:: Nature’s Connection Place, Arlington, WA
Caterer:: Cristiano’s
Coordinator:: Ruth Jacobsen
Florist:: Stadium Flowers
Cake Artist:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
DJ:: Event Source NW, Troy McVicker
Wedding Gown:: Laineemeg Bridal, Stella York Mermaid
Makeup:: Bekkah Puckett - 425.622.6776
Hair Stylist:: Miranda McGuire - 801.822.2617
Shoes:: Betsey Johnson
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Rentals:: Sweet Buffet Lady
Officiant:: Pastor Scott
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
I stood mezmorized for a moment…watching the ball bounce from one end to another…once in a while being held in a pocket racking up the points only to be flung again from top to bottom. Does it mean it was on the right path or the wrong path…were points the only goal?
As I sat there with my eyes glued to the ball it made me think…gosh life is kind of like that. I can often feel like I am in the pinball machine of life…bouncing here to there. Carpool line, grocery store, managing emotions, fights over nectarines (the big things in life)…not to mention jobs and marriage and oh ya is there where God wants me to be? Are we held in one spot for a moment for comfort, only to be flung about in the chaos of life in order to be humbled and have ‘teachable’ moments.
I was listening to Judah from The City Church online the other day and he spoke about ‘Paths’. Of course our paths all look different but what if you can hardly see your path…or what if your path is so clear it’s hard to think you will ever go off course! Is it about our path or is it about who we follow no matter that path we are on?
The pinball machine made me think of paths…and can we use different paths to make the most out of life. That it’s not right or wrong just simply a curve or dry patch and a period to readjust.
I also love the words smack in the middle of the machine ‘SHOOT AGAIN’…who doesn’t need a chance to ‘SHOOT AGAIN’, ‘RESET’ or a ‘DO OVER’ button at some point…just another way to shift our perspective and take another look!
In the midst of being flung about I long for peace. I do have it… through Christ and although it doesn’t always ‘FEEL’ like it… I know it to be true and trust He’s who I want to follow no matter my path!
I saw this saying on Instagram today on Proverbs 31 Ministries….definitely TRUE!
As the guys got ready Colin’s sense of humor really came out. I had kind of pegged him for being rather serious but nope, I think he just has a cop demeanor with a cool sense of humor you just have to allow to shine! (Even if it means embarrassing selfies while I am pinning on his corsage).
We ventured outside as it was an incredible gorgeous sunny day. The sun rays were warm and as they approached each other for their first look, they were both emotional and excited to see each other. I know Colin even shed a tear but was hesitant to let me catch it on film. We proceeded with photos doing our best to keep everyone laughing and moving along. I love when there is time to take in a couple of the areas around the venue to provide some variety to their portfolio. A back alley and a brick wall never hurt!
Guests were arriving and the ceremony was about to start. Mel’s daughter, Morgan walked her down the aisle. They exchanged their rings and immediately sealed it with a kiss. I love that Brooks (my second shooter) was able to be on the balcony to catch their exit and have a different vantage point!
As cocktail hour began guests enjoyed the delicious food that the Monte Cristo’s menu provides. Mingling around the photobooth and seeing the display of photos around the venue of Mel and Colin’s adventures together was definitely a highlight. As well as the cocktails ;)
After dinner cake cutting and toasts began but not before we were able to slip out for a few sunset photos. Time was limited so finding a rooftop was not an option however improvising is key and getting a few at the golden hour was sweet!
With toasts from the maid of honor, best man and grooms-woman (and partner at the police dept.) I learned a lot about this couple. Mainly how much they love adventure and each other. They make each other smile and they have an ability to be tender that comes across in all that they say and do.
What I didn’t learn from the speeches the Origami Fortune Teller, as part of the décor on the tables, was able to add. Like Colin preferring Coke over Pepsi and Mel possibly having less shoes than Colin. Tid bits of info that tell you a few fun facts about the couple – what a fun idea!
They moved into the ballroom for their first dance and invited other couples to join part way in. They were ready to socialize and celebrate with everyone who came. You can tell when people love and admire a couple…they want to hang around and just ‘BE’ with them. They have a ton of love and support and now as Mr. & Mrs. Davies, they couldn’t be happier.
Much love and all the best….
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Venue:: Monte Cristo Ballroom
Caterer & Coordinator:: Monte Cristo
Florist:: Flora D’Amore Chelsea Dudder-Cox
Cake Artist:: The Cakewalk Shop
DJ:: Monte Cristo
Hair & Makeup:: Salon Maison
Wedding Gown:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Shoes:: Badgley Mischka
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Romashka
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Patrick Hamman
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
With baby #2 arriving in early September, April seemed like the perfect time to get married. And with Hidden Meadows being their venue (and my adoration of Kendra) I was ecstatic when they asked me to be their photographer. I mean Kendra is one gorgeous blonde beauty with a killer smile…so um…YES! (Ryan you aren’t so shabby either).
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Wedding Venue:: Hidden Meadows
Caterer:: Tyler Stocker
Dessert Table:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
Florist:: Darla Halverson, Mother of the Bride
DJ:: DJ Otto, Otto-Matic Mobile Music
Hair:: Andrea
Wedding Gown:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Shoes:: Nordstrom
Bridesmaids Gowns:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Suits:: Mens Wearhouse
Videographer:: Whiskeytoo Productions, Jordan Stansberry
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner
Farm & Larder is a one-of-a-kind rendition of community supported agriculture. They provide a weekly assortment of goods including organically grown vegetables, herbs, fruits and berries that can be delivered to your door…most of which is grown at Bella Luna Farms. They also include homemade small-batch jams and pickles, farm eggs, honey, fresh flowers, artisan cheeses and more!! They partner with other farms to provide thoughtfully selected products from food artisans and wine makers, which are specialty items for the table, kitchen and home.
You can have your Farm & Larder goods delivered once a week, including details about the goods, and recipes with how to prepare them.
Bella Luna Farms also has an annual summer gathering where you can meet the animals, tour the gardens and see the creamery where their artisan cheeses are created. Their grapehouse serves as a beautiful area for hosting their family style garden supper as well.
Check it out www.farmandlarder.com
As the grand entrance started the couple entered the dance floor and immediately were surrounded by their bridal party and a celebratory dance. One thing the Egyptian crowd knows how to do is DANCE.
Marim and Ronnie, I see your love…it’s evident to those around you. You not only love each other you really like and respect each other. You are fun to be around and Marim your laugh is contagious. I am sad to see you move, however as a Canadian, I can appreciate that you want to move to Canada and have chosen a fellow Canadian as your husband. I know Canada and Ronnie will take good care of you.
*Special shout out to everyone enduring the terrain of the field and my entourage, Nancee, Missy & Bob for all of their assistance.
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Wedding Venue:: St. Mary’s Coptic Orthodox Church
Reception Venue:: Lynnwood Convention Center
Caterer:: Lynnwood Convention Center
Florist:: Flora D’Amore, Chelsea Dudder-Cox
Cake Artist:: Mike’s Amazing Cakes
DJ:: Dj Drew
Videographer:: Seattle Wedding Videography, Mason Wheeler
Hair:: Abigail Salon, Mariam Riad
Makeup:: Carissa Owen
Wedding Gown:: David’s Bridal
Shoes:: Nordstrom
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Nordstrom
Suits:: Macy’s
Officiant:: Bishop Aghathon
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Melissia Millan
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These two really know how to make music. They fit together maybe a bit untraditionally but no doubt a perfect fit.
Steve was surprised at their first look. As he turned around he saw Somar in her beautiful unconventional black lace gown. Taken back that it wasn't white, she reminded him how much she loved black...Steve laughed as he cried, filled with much emotion and unable to hold back the tears.
Joined by many loved ones, they said their 'I Do's' and made the marriage certificate official, signing it with their own special pen specifically engraved for them.
So many friends and family joined them. Among the guests were others that were also members of the Rock n' Roll Hall of Fame as well as the host of the party that brought them together 8 years ago.
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Venue:: Martens Farm Kola, MB Canada
Florist:: Flowers by Shamay
DJ:: 4 Square
Hair & Makeup:: Ashley Beutler
Officiant:: Dallas Beutler
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
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The Hollywood Schoolhouse is a beautiful venue with many windows and some lovely pieces and architecture.
We arrived and started to photograph the details. While Steve was enjoying guy time with his groomsmen, Megan and her bridesmaids were prepping and you could hear random moments of giddiness among the girls.
The rain continued to ping against the window sills and although Washington is rather unpredictable, somehow I was still hopeful that the weather would turn. Then it happened. As Michelle & Mary were lacing up Megan’s dress the sky opened up and glowing rays of light were flooding the room. There it was …the sun…blue sky…and no more rain.
It was meant to be. Megan & Steve had a beautiful afternoon to enjoy photos (Steve’s favorite) outdoors. It was still a bit blustery and chilly but I have to say everyone had great attitudes and a sense of humor about it all.
They chose to do a first look where they see each other prior to the ceremony. With a 5 pm ceremony that seemed to work the best. We roamed the venue and took in more than enough photos (per Steve).
As guests arrived people were seated and Steve's good friend (and cousin) started the ceremony. It’s always special seeing someone who is close to the couple officiate. They said their vows and in no time were finally Mr. & Mrs. Bryson!
Ready to mingle with the guests and relax a little they had a brief cocktail hour while they flipped the room.
Dinner was soon served followed by a few toasts. The best man, maid of honor, mother of the groom and father of the bride were on the list. The longest and most emotional being from Megan’s dad. Richard had much to say about his support of their relationship and love for them as a couple. They toasted to finding the ‘right’ person and being there through times when reality really hits.
After a few more details, it was time to dance. The kids and grandpa seemed to be the ones that enjoyed the dance floor the most. Watching Grandpa dance with his granddaughters was a highlight for a few of the family members.
As I sat back I watched people just smiling…joyful. They may not have been on the dance floor whoopin’ it up but they were there, content, and truly happy for Megan & Steve.
You both are so sweet even if Steve did razz me a lot about the amount of photos I made him partake in. At least we know now he has it in him and doesn’t ‘really’ mind it, in fact Megan, I think he secretly loves posing! And….telling you how much he loves you!
Congratulations!
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Venue:: Hollywood Schoolhouse
Caterer:: Chef Frank of Hollywood Schoolhouse
Florist:: Flowers by Tiffany
Cake Artist:: Brides Aunt Jeanne Horton
DJ:: Friend, Kevin Stride
Hair:: Betty from Elle Marie Hair Salon
Wedding Gown:: Laineemeg Bridal
Shoes:: Ebay
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Suits:: Mens Wearhouse
Officiant:: Grooms Cousin Dylan Armstrong
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
I feel like tweeners are even starting younger now. Having my own 10 year old, this stage of introductions to electronic devices, IG, snapchat, music-ly and many, I say MANY things...that I am 'trying' to get a handle on, is ever changing. With emotions at their all time high and attitudes flying all over the place...I find myself working hard at being ever present to what is going on with them. Yes the drama is sometimes over the top and the stomping out of the room can happen more often than not, but the tender moments I am having with my daughter(s) in the in between is nothing short of incredibly bonding. Of course I see a lot of myself in my girls which scares me half to death as I seem to remember that age soooo vividly. Flooded with emotion and often feeling misunderstood...it propels me to want to know them and who they are deep inside (even when it hurts me).
I have photographed more and more girls this age even just within family sessions and have realized how special they feel when I walk a little with them, ask them about who they are and what they like and give them some of their own portraits. So...why not encourage them to feel special and beautiful in this awkward stage of life and have their own session.
Seeing the girls light up when given a special moment of their own is undeniably priceless and confidence building. It boosts their self esteem to see their own unique beauty and to have a positive photo experience despite a lot of peer pressure and negativity that surrounds social media.
When friends, looks and feelings are shifting by the minute, photographing them just as they are, prior to their next big stage in life (a high school senior), has become evidently important to them...and me!
Boys of course are included in this...they too have peer pressure, insecurities and trying to learn who they want to become. I will say not as many love the camera like girls do however it is more about feeling special and embracing who we are than our gender.
Photos are for making memories...for any age...for any person! We all deserve love & acceptance right where we are at.
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Who doesn't need to document this...hair, I mean reallly a PERM...and the 'vintage' photography.
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I found myself reflecting on how absolute I have found things to be in the past. All or nothing...when really there is so much in between. Someone either loves me or hates me when really could it be both just at different times. I am happy or sad...is it one or the other or can they exist side by side? Reality, when I am honest with myself, says...BOTH doing the best I can, AND possibly disappointing someone at the same time is very true. And it's not good or bad...it just is. Knowing God has designed us with the desire to KNOW us helps me have peace in the midst of it all.
Psalm 139:13
For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place,
when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
How precious to me are your thoughts, God!
I try to tell my girls as often as possible 'You are fearfully and wonderfully made' and have found myself holding that truth close lately as well. I am thankful for so much this Christmas season...The good the bad and everything in between!
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As we arrived at Richmond Beach my girls had fallen asleep briefly in the backseat. Thinking to myself 'ahhh so glad they had a little nap now they will be happy for photos'....I was once again proven wrong as a parent. Heidi was not happy. Annoyed that we woke her up she was having a bit of a struggle to want to take part in our 'photo opportunity'. Eva, being the social butterfly she is walked over to our photographer and simply introduced herself.
Now...Mrs. Melissa Kilner is not only a fabulous photographer, she is also a woman, and a mom and well...human. Thank the Lord! Cause instead of me feeling like I had to explain how out of control I felt...she looked at me and said 'Girl...I get it, I got you'!
I feel like I have known Melissa for a year or so now...but nope, just through social media we have followed each other. I have to admit, I don't get to many networking events etc. so what better way to meet someone then to have them do your photos. Now this maybe a little more than she bargained for and a glass of wine may have been more relaxing but oh well...I initiated her into my life. One thing I love about her is she is just as she portrays herself. Fun and funny with tons of energy. She is the same in real life! I LOVE THAT! Girl you got some energy and a smile that is contagious!
Heidi snapped to and her and Eva played around the driftwood. My girls don't always get along but when they do, it is a moment of a slow motion high five in my head! I really tried to step back this year. I let Melissa corral the girls and Bob and I stood off and just enjoyed being together. I wanted to TRY to take my own advice and not be that parent yelling at my kids through my teeth to smile.
Marriage has a funny way of testing your joy. You expect the other person is going to make you happy. When in reality no ONE, no THING (or nothing) can do that. It's a unrealistic pressure I found myself putting on Bob and one no one could live up to. It has been a year of love, forgiveness, and most of all grace. I have experienced grace. A level of grace I don't deserve. The kind the Bible talks about and we think we know... but do we really? When pushed and shoved and pressed...what comes out?? When my biggest worry was 'What will people think?' I found myself down a dark and lonely path. When I finally looked up and fixed my eyes on what was truly important...that question wasn't even one necessary to ask. My girls...as different as they are, are unique and deal with life in ways that makes sense to them. Their approach to the same situation can vary so greatly and everytime I step back I learn something new from them. I see something in me that relates and no longer sees certain things as good or bad...or right or wrong...just different. AND that's OK!!
Having a husband who has shown his vulnerability and loved me despite my own. It's overwhelming somedays to look back and some of the hurtles and choices made yet I choose to trust in God using everything for HIS glory and for good!
I read a devotional everyday from a book called 'Jesus Calling'. Today was 'no matter what your circumstances may be you can find Joy in My Presence'. I would not have made it through this past year without Jesus infused and center in my life. Holding Him close and having him show me true love. It's a year to celebrate being a family and being together and as thanksgiving approaches (and Canadian Thanksgiving just passed) ...I A M T H A N K F U L! Thankful for my favorite people!
Joah and Lorraine opted for a first look and Joah could barely contain his grin. Absolutely beaming when he turned around immediately they hugged and were in awe of each other. They are quite natural together. Affectionate and gracious Joah would lead and care for Lorraine as they walked down the street.
Their wedding was at Sanctuary at Admiral in West Seattle and it was the perfect fall day. Considering it poured the day before everyone was thrilled to be able to do photos outside.
The park across the street was perfect for photos...as are the different areas around the venue. The blanket of beautifully diffused sunlight combined with the ombre orange to yellow leaves made for a romantic backdrop...not to mention I could have photographed their gorgeousness all day!
As Lorraine and Joah's closest friends and family arrived, Lorraine's dad walked her down the aisle. I love how they were talking and laughing as he escorted her to Joah. Both Lorraine and Joah wrote their own vows and Joah's were refreshingly real and honest. They definitely had the crowd smiling. They said 'I DO' and enjoyed the outdoor cocktail hour on the patio of the venue. With a signature drink for both the bride and the groom the guests definitely enjoyed themselves.
The creative team at EVENTful Moments is just that...creative. They flipped the room super fast and it was simply elegant. The reception began and the room was filled with laughter followed by genuine and loving words from the best man, maid of honor and father of the bride. They toasted with champagne and headed to their first dance on the stage. Later dancing commenced downstairs in a separate room called the 'Speakeasy'. It was an awesome club vibe for the night to continue with the guests (including the bride and groom) bustin' a move.
Lorraine's dress was perfect for twirling and absolutely lit up the dance floor. She changed mid-way through the dancing to a cute little white sequin dress. It fit her like a glove and she could now breathe!
Their day ended with a sparkler send off... and the two headed off to Disneyland to enjoy a bit more of their fairytale before settling into real life.
Congratulations and much love!
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Venue:: Sanctuary At Admiral
Caterer:: Foodz Catering
Wedding Coordinator:: EVENTful Moments LLC, Sarah Swanson
Florist:: Flora D’Amore Chelsea Dudder-Cox
Cake Artist:: New Renaissance
DJ:: Otto-Matic Mobile Music DJ Otto
Hair & Makeup:: Yessie Libby
Wedding Gown:: AniA Bridal Collection
Shoes:: Nine West, Macy’s
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Nordstrom
Suits:: Mens Warehouse
Officiant:: Steve Tanejo
Rentals:: AA Rentals
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
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Venue:: Dairyland
Caterer:: Duelin Jay’s BBQ
Wedding Coordinator:: Sabina Bischin
Makeup Artist:: Kristina Galban
Florist:: Woodinville Florist
Cake Artist:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
DJ:: Kippy, Friend
Wedding Gown:: David’s Bridal; Vera Wang
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Shoes:: Aldo
Suits:: JoS A. Bank
Officiant:: Brandon Vedder, Cousin
Rentals:: Total Rental Center
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
Lindsey and her gals enjoyed girl time prepping in the cabin at the Captain Whidbey Inn. With her lucky ladybug placed on the night stand, her mom helped her slip into her Anthropologie dress, and her step mom assisted with earrings that have been in 5 weddings so far. Her mom gave her a handkerchief with the phrase ‘you are my sunshine‘ embroidered in it on one side and an ‘L’ on the other.
We later ventured to a few other areas around the venue and then joined the bridal party and family. I love this property there are so many awesome backdrops to photograph I could have spent all day with them.
As people drank champagne and ate pie they also began to dance, and danced the night away to a local band ‘Free Rain’.
These two love each other and are loved by many. All you have to do is sit back and watch and it’s nothing but obvious.
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Venue:: Captain Whidbey Inn
Caterer:: Captain Whidbey Inn
Wedding Coordinator:: Lola Leigh Events
Florist:: Allison Ronnemo / Margaret Rennemo:: friends of the bride
Pies:: The Knead and Feed
Band:: Free Rain/ Dale Reinke
Hair & Makeup:: Off White Makeup & Beauty / Megan Bingham
Wedding Gown:: Anthropologie / Catherine Deane
Shoes:: Christian Louboutin
Suits:: J.Crew
Officiant:: Mark Helgen / Uncle
Rentals:: ABC Rental
Shuttle:: Whidbey Seatac Charter
Lavatory:: Kaleb Prather
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Bob Chambers
They chose to have a traditional Egyptian Coptic Christian ceremony and wait to see each other until Nermine walked down the aisle.
The reception was at the Bellevue Club so as the sun was setting we ended the night there.
Venue:: St. Mary’s Coptic Orthodox Church
Reception Venue:: Bellevue Club
Caterer:: Bellevue Club, Coordinator Jill Parravano
Wedding Coordinator:: Irini Hennen, friend
Videographer:: Best Made Videos, Reid Johnson
Florist:: Marie Perez
Cake Artist:: Hillcrest Bakery
DJ:: DJ Johnny Edmonton, AB Canada
Hair & Makeup:: Carissa MUA, Abigail Salon
Wedding Gown:: David’s Bridal
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Shoes:: Macy’s
Suits:: Macy’s
Officiant:: Father Arsanious Hanna
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
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Geoff worked out of town most of the week for the first few years so they learned to appreciate each other and the time they had when they were together. This forced space seemed to set a tone for their relationship…space is good, and after some space comes much needed and savored time together.
Rachel is sure this is why they have had a successful 12 years together prior to tying the knot. Geoff absolutely adores Rachel and finally decided it was time to make her forever his!! They are both certain the independence they each have coupled with their supportive nature will ensure a happily ever after in their future.
They said their ‘I Do’s’ at Dairyland in Snohomish. A family friend officiated which made it extra special. It was a beautiful Sunday afternoon filled with much laughter and people cheering them on as they have all been ready for them to marry for quite some time.
Rachel ‘s dad passed away in 2004 so she walked herself down the aisle. She had a special butterfly momento tied on her bouquet as well as a photo tribute on one of the reception tables. There were butterflies on a lot of the décor to symbolize her dad being there in spirit.
Rachel and Geoff are fun loving and giddy together. Geoff has the piercing blue eyes and Rachel loves to stare into them. And Rachel…girl with those brown eyes and that floral crown in your flowing hair, you were the bomb! No wonder Geoff couldn’t pay attention to anything but you!
They seriously were so easy to be around and are just simply good together. How do I know this? I just know….I could feel it. It was special and unique and encouraging.
You two are inspiring…and it doesn’t matter that Geoff took 12 years to put a ring on it…the point is…HE DID!
Congratulations!
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Venue:: Dairyland Snohomish, WA
Caterer:: Pogacha Restaurant
Wedding Coordinator:: Liz, friend
Cake Artist:: Simple Sweet cupcakes
Wedding Gown:: Alishas
Bridesmaid Gowns:: Davids Bridal
Rentals:: Sweet Buffet Lady
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Brooks Scribner Photography
The Unity candle was of much significance as it was Jordan’s parents from 25 years ago.
Stumbling a bit over the word ‘lawfully’ Tyler burst out in the biggest laugh during his vows. They both smiled at each other and continued on and after a year and a half long engagement…finally said ‘I DO’!
One of Jordan’s childhood friends, Kendra, happened to be married on the same day last year…and yep I had the privilege of photographing her wedding too!! They honored Kendra and Daniel by giving them their own song to dance too. Jordan and Kendra have so many memories together including camping and fishing with their dads! Of course they couldn’t help but get a photo of the 4 of them…and what better memory than of them laughing!
I always dreamed of moving and saying that final goodbye to your childhood living room with...in reality...no music...no one watching...just your own tears and knowing within yourself what it means. All the memories, all the joys, all the pain.
Well yes, I have moved living spaces and countries..but my parents still live in my childhood home and although Bob and I have moved from apartments, we have since been in a home for 13 years that we have not moved from.
I don't think I have to physically move to have this emotion which leads me to a place of gratititude...a place of remembering the good. Despite what some may know about me I can often remember the negative over the positive. Maybe it gives me a point of relating or maybe I think it's humility. I think it borders on ungratefulness and I realize in that reflection, I haven't fully appreciated my husband, my girls or my upbringing...
I know they say things happen for a reason, well I believe God allows things and seasons and thankfully HE guides us through them. The key is if I choose to LET HIM. I haven't always let Him and with not letting Him, I have found myself in an ungrateful place.
So rather than moving homes, I am moving to a new perspective. I am leaving those old ways behind. It may not be to music and no one may be in the 'room' at the moment...but it's happening and it's freeing!
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Venue:: The Golf Club at Newcastle
Caterer:: The Golf Club at Newcastle, Amy Pak
Wedding Coordinator:: Bubble and Fizz Wedding Planners, Donnianne & Blythe
Florist:: Aria
Cake Artist:: Nancy Kay
Makeup Artist:: Timaree Vezina
Hair Stylist:: Tatyana Kostenko
Wedding Gown:: Bellevue Bridal, Allure
Shoes:: Nordstrom, Shoes of Prey
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Nordstrom
Suits:: Men’s Wearhouse
Officiant:: Annie Duncan, friend
Rentals:: Grand Event Rentals
Music:: Seattle String Ensemble
Photobooth:: 321 Foto
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Lisa Lovely Photography
As Amber’s childhood friend Amy toasted the couple, she enlightened us all of their gentle love for each other. It was rather emotional as Amy holds Amber in very high regard and has nothing but respect for Andy & Amber’s relationship. Both Amy and the best man Tom said almost the same thing. They are absolutely perfect for each other. They love with much grace, admiration and kindness. It has been a beautiful thing to watch and they couldn’t be happier for them!
During family photos I was able to see such tenderness from their parents. Amber’s dad, gently kissing her on the forehead and her mom, hugging her with such adoration and love. Andy’s dad proudly shaking his hand and his mom looking up to him with a huge smile! We made sure to include the grandparents in some special photos as they have lost a couple near and dear to them recently. They had a tribute table setup to honor them. I loved how both families although small are very supportive and close.
The wedding was held at Maplehurst Farms in Mount Vernon. A location that has everything you need right there. A backyard wedding area, a field, a barn for the reception, a truck and corn…I mean who doesn’t need a cornfield for photos. Not to mention a plethora of other areas around the farm that were a dream to photograph!
The sun had dissipated but the sky was still blue with a few scattered clouds. The wind calmed down just in time for the ceremony and it was a lovely atmosphere as Andy & Amber said their ‘I Do’s’. With nerves finally at bay they exchanged rings, kissed and celebrated as they exited down the aisle grinning ear to ear.
I have to say I don’t see many traditional ‘receiving lines’ any more. It certainly was something in Canada that happened after every wedding. It was nice to see them take the time to greet each guest prior to the reception. During the reception they made their rounds to each table again with big smiles and huge hearts. You can tell they are cherished by many.
As the evening progressed the guests took in yard games and spread out both on the dance floor and around the outside areas. The clouds and wind had picked up yet we got a glimpse of what would have been a sunset. Some golden bokeh filled my lens as I snapped a quick photo of the couple. Immediately after turning around we noticed a rainbow. I mean who gets a rainbow at their wedding!? We did our best to capture the magic and then they were back to enjoying their evening. Laughing, dancing and showing off their moves like ‘Jaeger’ (I couldn’t resist…it’s all in the name)!
Andy & Amber you are genuine and absolutely lovely. Not only are you beautiful to photograph, your gentle spirits are contagious to be around and I am so honored to have been chosen to photograph your wedding. Thank you for making us feel so welcome. Happy you are now officially Mr. & Mrs. Jaeger…
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Venue:: Maplehurst Farms
Caterer:: Bakeman’s Restaurant
Wedding Coordinator:: Lola Leigh Events
Florist:: Flowers by Shamay
Cake Artist:: Costco, Cheesecakes
DJ:: Forever Yours Music, Daniel Baller
Hair & Makeup:: Lavish Hair Studio
Wedding Gown:: Hermosa Bridal Boutique
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Hermosa Bridal Boutique
Suits:: Macy’s
Officiant:: Terry Kyllo
Rentals:: Sweet Buffet Lady
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Second Photographer:: Lisa Monet Photography
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The bridal party was such a fun group and they were very accommodating in the heat!
Katelyn had decided to have a Bridal shoot when she had her hair and makeup trial a few days prior so I had the privilege of meeting her bridesmaids and seeing Katelyn in her dress early. She is stunning, did I mention STUNNING, and that dress fit her to a T! It was fun to have a mix of both urban and country photos and see how much fun these girls have together!
The reception started with a few toasts from siblings and the best man. Katelyn’s sister Heather expressed how she admires Katelyn and is so proud of her. Despite their age gap they have a very sweet bond! Katelyn & Spenser were welcomed into each other’s families with open arms and are appreciative of the support.
Next was the cake cutting, smashing and eating…along with a milk and cookie bar. Seriously I could have sat near that table all night. With 4 different kinds of cookies it was Katelyn’s surprise for Spenser and it was enjoyed by all!
Although warm everyone enjoyed the dance floor. DJ, Michael Ewing played a nice variety for the crowd and included in the dance was an anniversary dance. Rather than tossing the bouquet they gave the bouquet to the couple that had been married the longest…34 years.
We were able to catch the golden sunset and then Katelyn and Spenser left to an array of balloons. All different sizes and colors and it was a beautiful send off. As they headed for the airport immediately after the wedding I know they are now sipping Margaritas in Mexico enjoying some much needed downtime! Congratulations you two…much love to you!
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Venue:: Red Barn Studios
Second Photographer:: Lisa Marie Lovely
Caterer:: Crescent Moon Catering
Florist:: Julia’s Floral
Cake Artist:: Dianne’s Delights
DJ:: DJ Mike Ewing
Hair & Makeup Artist:: Salon Maison
Wedding Gown:: Mary Me Bridal, Allure
Shoes:: Betsey Johnson
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Ethan and Eliza
Suits:: Men’s Warehouse
The ceremony was performed by a close friend and after realizing Kayla and Zack kiss awfully fast, Tyler instructed Zack to cease the moment after the ‘I Do’s’ and make sure his kiss counted! He did just that. They pledged their love and became Mr. & Mrs. Sears and with that Zack sealed it with a kiss that was perfect…or so Kayla admitted to later ;)
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Venue:: Grand Willow Mount Vernon, WA
Second Photographer:: Lisa Lovely Photography
Caterer:: Grand Willow
Florist:: Everett Floral
Cake Artist:: Trish Stumpf, Couture Cakes
DJ:: Michael Jenkins
Hair & Makeup Artist:: Bekkah Puckett
Wedding Gown:: LaineeMeg Bridal, Stella York
Shoes:: Toms
Bridesmaids Gowns:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Tuxes:: Men’s Warehouse
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The ladies arrived and although we hadn’t planned on a first look with Erin’s dad, he rounded the corner just in time for an impromptu moment with his daughter! Both in tears it was becoming very real!
One block away is the E. Smith Mercantile store so of course we had to utilize it as they are officially Mr. & Mrs. Smith.
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Venue:: AXIS Pioneer Square
Caterer:: Ravishing Radish
Florist:: Flora D’Amore by Stadium Flowers Chelsea Dudder-Cox
Cake Artist:: Dianne’s Delights
DJ:: DJ Justin Otto-Matic Music
Hair & Makeup Artist:: Timaree
Wedding Gown:: Unveiled Bridal
Shoes:: Nordstrom Ivanka Trump
Bridesmaids Gowns:: David’s Bridal
Tuxes:: Men’s Warehouse
Photobooth:: USnaps
Hot Dog Cart:: Dante’s Inferno
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As we experienced a sunset cruise the 'bigger picture' became more clear to me. I can look at things through a microscope and see details or I can step away and see things from afar and see just as many details. Just a different perspective, both a way I know GOD is teaching me...showing me HE is in 'IT' with me...If I let HIM, HE will show me the right perspective at the right time.
They started with a first look. It’s always fun to catch the grooms nervous and excited smile as he sees his bride for the first time. Shayne was stunned…and frankly could not get enough of her and how that dress fit her so well! After taking a few moments to have them relax and breathe…we ventured around the property trying to avoid most of the hot midday sun. Christal has this amazing ability to laugh and make some interesting faces at the same time. All the while Shayne is un-phased and smiles along side of her. They are so natural together and I must say her candidness relaxes everyone!! They didn’t want to kiss prior to the ceremony…although I think Shayne was just trying to avoid her sticky lip gloss…either way it kind of made it a fun challenge as we navigated our way through the photos!
As the ceremony approached Christal took a few minutes to regroup! She noted the charm of her late father on her bouquet accompanied by her grandmother’s string of pearls. It fit in perfect with the fresh blooms and seemed only fitting for him to be with her on this special day. Her mom was walking her down the aisle and couldn’t be more thrilled to “give her away”…knowing Shayne is the best person for Christal!
EVENTful Moments did an amazing job with the décor at Dairyland.
Shayne’s brother Aaron officiated and had some lovely words for the couple. After exchanging vows and rings they each poured a vase of sand into a picture frame as a symbol of them joining their lives together. After the ceremony they were ready to leave but decided to stay and dance and party for a bit! (kidding who leaves a reception before it starts).
The reception was filled with toasts from the full bridal party. Brothers of the groom, bridesmaids and a friend that has grown up with Christal so much they call themselves sisters. The love & support for these two is very evident in the kind words and tears that so easily flowed.
After the first dance and cake cutting we were blessed with a gorgeous pacific NW sunset. As the sun dissipated over the Snohomish Valley we caught a few of the rays with Christal and Shayne. Christal was definitely excited for sunset photos and I am always interested to see how they turn out with the various backgrounds. I really wanted them to climb up on a rooftop however, since that wasn’t happening we found an area that seemed to work. The grass this time of year is rather tall but with the tree farms below I love how some of them look like a vineyard type setting in the distance.
As the sun slipped away the bride and groom joined their 22 nieces and nephews on the dance floor. Between so many little family members and Shayne bustin’ out “The Worm”…the dance floor never really had a dull moment.
They were swept away in a white Rolls Royce but not without first running through the sea of sparklers that lined the parking lot. They were tired, happy and in love. Happy Wedding Day you two…can’t wait for many more exciting milestones in your life!!
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Venue:: Dairyland
Caterer:: Trails End Snohomish, WA
Wedding Coordinator:: EVENTful Moments, Sarah Swanson
Florist:: Flora DAmore, Chelsea Dudder-Cox
Cake Artist:: Cakewalk Shop
DJ:: Otto-Matic Music
Hair Artist:: Erin Rygg
Makeup Artist:: BareMinerals
Wedding Gown:: LaineeMeg Bridal
Shoes:: Macys
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Bella Bridesmaid
Suits:: Mens Wearhouse
It was a swing dancing class taught by Eli’s nana when Chelsea sauntered in with a mutual friend of theirs. Their friend introduced them and they danced the night away…well not exactly but it is where Chelsea & Eli first met. A few weeks later Eli started working at the Jamba Juice in the Safeway where Chelsea worked. Many mornings of quick ‘hellos’ were exchanged as they would pass by each other. Through a mutual friend they started hanging out at church more and more together. It didn’t take much time for these two to become best friends. Less than a year into their friendship they started dating. Their love for adventure drew them together, hiking and finding new places and trying new things. It was only a month after their ONE year anniversary when Eli planned a trip to Palouse Falls in Eastern Washington. They had their friend Andrew join them and little did Chelsea know he was there to capture Eli’s surprise proposal! Chelsea only knew it was going to be an amazing adventure so of course Andrew being a photographer and videographer, why wouldn’t we have him come along to photograph the view. It was a new place for them to discover. Chelsea had never even heard of the falls and definitely had no idea that Eli was going to propose. Talking about marriage the past few months she knew it could be a possibility but was truly surprised when Eli got down on one knee during their hike and Andrew was able to catch all their excitement and emotion!
When it came to planning their wedding they both had an idea of what they wanted…simple, organic and authentic. Chelsea decided early on that she wanted to crochet her wedding dress. She had a friend make the dress portion and although the process took a lot longer than she expected, she crocheted the top overlay. It was a process however the time invested paid off…it was detailed and beautiful and simply Chelsea. They changed locations several times and ended up settling on Bob Herman Wildlife Park. Deciding on a first look at sunrise I was stoked to be photographing it! Chelsea started getting ready at 3 am. Definitely different to be getting ready in the dark and well worth it. Chelsea’s mom Danielle (who is also a talented interior designer) helped with the headpiece, bouquet, boutonniere and other little details for the wedding. As she helped Chelsea with her hair and makeup and into her dress, Chelsea’s mom couldn’t be more proud!
We headed to the park for their first look…the combination of fog and burnt orange sun peaking over the hillside made for a stunning backdrop.
As Chelsea approached Eli she was all smiles. He turned around and he too was beaming. She was so excited to give him his gift…as she handed him the homemade box he opened up a special pocket watch she had for him. Soon after when he looked up and gazed at Chelsea. He was in awe of her, her dress and savoring the reality that they were about to get married!
We took in the early morning light and headed to the lagoon where they had a canoe waiting. I was in heaven…sunrise…a canoe…a bride & groom….yes please!! It was gorgeous…Eli even serenaded her with his mandolin…although it wasn’t without us coaxing him from the shoreline.
By 8 am the sun was hot and bright and their intimate wedding of 12 people was starting to arrive. They found a clearing in the grass that seemed to be the perfect place to commit their love to each other. They said their ‘I Do’s’ and took communion. After being pronounced husband and wife they ran down the makeshift aisle and rather than confetti the ‘crowd’ threw dried flower petals in the air!
A picnic of scones and fig jam accompanied by Kombucha (a fermented tea) was the reception food of choice. Having some trees and shoreline area to gather at, they all congratulated the couple and enjoyed some family time.
Congratulations Chelsea & Eli…may you have many years of happiness!
Click here to see their full story!
Venue:: Bob Herman Nature Reserve
Bridal Gown:: Cristi Papen
Dress Shall/Cover:: Crocheted by the Bride
Florals:: Danielle Erickson, Mother of the Bride
Videographer:: Andrew Kearns
Thanks to...
Venue:: Benaroya Hall
Caterer:: Tuxedos and Tennis Shoes Catering
Wedding Planner:: Karle Coppenrath
Florist:: Aria Style: John Fardner ariastyle.com
Cake Artist:: Edmonds Bakery
Band:: Michael Benson Band
Hair Artist:: Sensa Salon: Alicia Carlile
Makeup Artist:: Julia Martin
Wedding Gown:: La Bella Elaines, Pronovias
Shoes:: Nordstrom, Badgley Mischka
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Variety
Tuxes:: Macys Socks: Strideline
Photobooth:: Licorice Photography
Rentals:: ABC Rentals
Seattle Wedding Photographer | Benaroya Hall | Arlene Chambers Photography
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Lindsey & Tyson opted to have a first look and see each other prior to the wedding!!
They have never been ones to show off only two people that thoroughly enjoy simply being together! And if fireworks happen to be in the air then so be it!! It's a sign! Their wedding was no different! They have friends support them with personalities like fireworks...all dynamic in their own way!! AND family with stories of nicknames and terms of endearment that would make anyone sentimental! From Lindsey's mom being her biggest fan and making sure Lindsey's day was perfect...to her dad nicknaming her "bird" and how he always watched her in amazement in the process of figuring life out on her own...giving her wings to fly!
Her Uncle told a few analogies of birds and different types and how some travel together and others know how to be strong and make it on their own! All the while relating it to Lindsey and although I know I am missing a some parts of the story it resonated with me and make her nickname so fitting! Watching Tyler be so relaxed in this whole process was lovely! He is low key not taking things too seriously yet when seeing Lindsey for the first time was enamored at how stunning she was!
They laughed and embraced and then realized how many people were watching and both ended up a bit coy...honestly their humility makes them even more genuine and relatable! We roamed the grounds at Hidden Meadows in Snohomish, WA and enjoyed the rays of sunshine we were so fortunate to have! Lindsey's step father performed the ceremony and they were both grateful for all who came and supported them as some drove quite a distance to be there!
At this point Tyson may have been ready for the reception and Lindsey ready for more Fireball but they waited a bit longer for the real party to start! Toasts were given by many with the longest being from Tyson's brother -hilarious and repeating all the content may be too much, but hilarious non the less...concluding with Lindsey's fathers tribute thanking many people and reminiscing about Lindsey's childhood! They ended the night with much dancing and from what I hear a party that lasted till 3 am-the Wilders know how to party!!
Congratulations you two and I hope Jamaica is full of fun and relaxation!!!
I feel so blessed to have met you!
As I exited the plane and walked through the crowded boarding areas, I wasn't needing to find the baggage claim, I was needing to find a corner to sleep till my connecting flight the next morning. It was 11 pm and LAX was buzzing! Maybe I did have a dream and I was in the middle of it as I had just woke up from the flight and now found myself in a swirl of busy-ness!
My connecting gate wasn't posted yet so as I waited a few hours to get that information I decided to people watch, sleep and listen to the DAB (Daily Audio Bible). As I was listening I kept hearing a common thread in the passages I was listening to 'God will go before you'...'I am with you'...'I will help you'. Dozing on and off, those words kept echoing in my ears.
As early morning approached I found my connecting gate info and realized I needed to walk to a whole other section of the airport. Somehow I found myself alone, no one else around as I headed towards the Alaska boarding area.
Down the escalator to a long white hallway, rather narrow, with hundreds of medium sized tiles lining the floor. It was a rather long hallway however I knew it was the path I was suppose to be on. I saw a red light at the end and I thought 'if I just get to that light I will know where I am'...my thoughts soon shifted as I heard God saying 'I will not only go before you, but I am with you'. Thinking to myself maybe God is at that red light at the end?? But soon realizing he is with me, helping me, He is not a GOAL I am trying to GET to. One step at a time He is walking with me.
I approached the red light and thought 'where am I?' No one around and now entered some sort of construction zone. Like life, we hit bumps in the road. Sometimes colorful, interesting bumps...it can even seem fun, dancing and navigating our way around obstacles AND when not paying attention, they can derail us, be totally distracting and we can get lost.
I did in fact make my way through the construction and when I looked up I found myself in another long, bright hallway. I was thankful for the light yet the walk seemed daunting. Bigger tiles this time, wider steps and a white light at the end however being tired the walk seemed so long. Again hearing that still small voice assuring me that HE is with me. And I could do it (whatever 'it' was representing)
Isaiah 41:13 For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
I approached the end of the hallway and thinking 'Whew I made it' I saw one of the steepest escalators (aside from the ones at the Disneyland parking garage) it seemed so tall and although bright there was nothing at the top. I ventured onto the escalator knowing it had to be my next step to where I needed to go. Only a small sign guided me but somehow I knew it was the right direction. As I approached the top I began to see. Signs and arrows and life all around me. This journey I had walked feeling so alone I was internally being guided, directed and now, although my journey was far from over, I saw life and people buzzing all around me. To me the people represented love, support and God's blessing. Even when alone He is with me and has better things for me if I can simply TRUST HIM.
It was 4 in the morning and maybe I was in a dream but this walk in the LAX airport had such symbolism to me. God showed up and blew me away with his analogy for where I was.
Being the photographer I am I didn't snap any photos of the hallway or construction zone...maybe it was so anyone reading this can have their own visual of what those areas look like for them. I don't know...either way it gave me peace knowing God is not at the end of our journey but IN it, BESIDE us, WITH us!! HE is LIGHT!
The reception started with the cake cutting followed by many special toasts. These two are loved and adored. The words that poured out of people as they spoke both about and to Hannah and Matthew were genuine. You can tell Hannah and Matthew inspire, encourage and know how to be good friends! They also love God and want to honor and serve Him!
I sometimes talk about brokenness and in being broken there is a beauty that shines through…however I don’t think everyone truly believes this. Hiding our areas of weakness and vulnerability is often our innate response.
We strive to be perfect, and to only portray the best of ourselves. But what happens when you share the darker side of yourself….I find I am guarded in that area yet when trust is built and authenticity is shared, those broken pieces seem to be something I can admit, even cherish, and somehow there is healing and strength in it all.
The struggle of authenticity…being who I am, not who I am expected to be has been on my mind a lot lately. I am blessed with a few friends that I can share these bits of life with. It never ceases to amaze me the healing that happens when openly sharing, even when it’s with someone who is on the opposite sides of the fence. Somehow there are still many points of our experiences that relate and after sharing a new perspective, there is understanding and things makes sense.
It has challenged me to forgive at a deeper level than I may have ever known if I hadn’t experienced moments of barrenness and that void of needing something ‘more’.
I have clients that have let me in to deeper sides of them…sharing real stories of struggle that make their photos I take even more meaningful. Within these struggles I see a joy, a perseverance that shows me it’s not about perfection but about hope and pressing forward AND has pushed me TO BE the more real me…sometimes crass, sometimes not that funny and most often not that perfect.
My house is ‘lived in’, it’s not a museum. I don’t take my makeup off at night, and sometimes I count it a major success if I fit in time to shower. I have judged people for their hair or tattoos, YET had huge hair at one time in my life and have tattoos myself. I sometimes cry for what seems like no reason. I am impatient with my kids AND I don’t always leave room for my husband to share his feelings while mine seem to billow out endlessly when simply asked ‘how was your day!?’
In all of this I am learning about compassion. Compassion means to suffer with. When my first response is to self protect or judge. I am reading about compassion being a relationship between equals, not a healer and the wounded.
Only when we know our own darkness can we be present in the darkness of others. To forgive ourselves and to extend forgiveness…real forgiveness not just surface words with no experience of what it REALLY is!
A friend shared with me yesterday from the book ‘The Gifts of Imperfection’ by Brene Brown.
‘Our stories are not meant for everyone. Hearing them is a privilege and we should always ask ourselves before sharing “who has the right to hear my story?” If we have one or two people in our lives who can sit with us and hold space for our shame stories, and love us for our strengths and struggles, we are incredibly lucky. If we have a friend or family who embraces our imperfections, vulnerability and power, and fills us with a sense of belonging we are again incredibly lucky. If we are working toward relationships based in love, belonging and story, we have to start in the same place:: I am worthy.’.
Compassion is real when we realize our shared humanity...
With the downshift of the new year (and Bob laughing thinking ‘wow this is the slow season??), 2015 is teaching me to take time to rejuvenate. Busy doesn’t mean better. I am a mom and a wife and it’s ok to take a minute, maybe even TWO, to breathe and JUST BE! To sit with my husband in the evenings and savor being married!
We try to travel a bit in the first quarter of the year…well ok maybe every quarter but especially the first quarter. This year so far we took the girls to Los Angeles in January for a little vacay and in February had my parents here from Saskatchewan.
One morning as I was out for run I saw a pinecone. It stuck out to me…It had a beauty I never really saw in one before….to me it had so many resemblances to life. As much as I like to blog sometimes I get stuck as it’s hard to really convey all the layers within ones’ self. We portray what we want on social media and rarely let people into the real us. But when we do it’s kind of like this pine cone.
You realize people have many layers…all intricate and unique. There is more to them than just the external spiky-ness you may see. And gosh I know I can be prickly somedays (just don't ask Bob)!
When I looked close this pine cone it had dirt on the spikes, some were even covered in sticky sap. Like life. Each season, each road different. Some are smooth and some are rough and some certainly prickly. Up close it seems bumpy and messy but when you step back and you see the full ‘cone’, you see a wholeness, a beauty that makes it what it is. All of our roads, twists and turns, make us who we are. What would happen if you asked someone about their life...their messy beautiful!?
I am taking this season to revel in that. To knowing who God made me and the path he has me on and learning from paths I have been on.
My sister n law shared a verse with me the other day Isaiah 41:13::
For I am the Lord your God
who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you.
As we walked along the sidewalk to Venice beach while visiting LA we saw these random sayings painted on the sidewalk…anyone who knows me knows I love quotes, and verses and sappy lyrics…so of course a photo of them was a must!
Click here for Yelena & Daniels full slideshow...
Venue:: French Creek Estates // Lord Hill Farms
Caterer:: Lord Hill Farms
Wedding Planner:: EVENTful Moments, LLC
Florist:: STEM
Cake Artist:: Luda Shtunyuk, family friend
DJ:: Otto-Matic Mobile Music DJ & Photobooth
Hair:: Brittney Knott
Makeup:: Gene Juarez, Bellevue
Officiant:: Rev. Ray Van Winkle
Wedding Gown:: Bellevue Bridal Boutique
Bridesmaids Gowns:: Bellevue Bridal Boutique
Shoes:: J. Renee
Suits:: JC Penney
Rentals:: Sweet Buffet Lady
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It’s one of those little things (one of many) that make me smile and I often forget to thank him for. It’s those small daily gifts that are just that…gifts. A gift is not deserved, not earned…simply a gift. Like love & forgiveness. God freely gives, we don’t deserve it, if we just ask we receive it.
Through a year of both business and personal trials…some big, some small and in no particular order…I…at the end of 2014 am humbled and simply thankful. Thankful for where we are and even thankful for where we have been. I have learned that life is messy but in that mess is amazing beauty. The oxymoron that seems to be the most fitting is… the scariest yet most beautiful thing… is to be ourselves. IN the midst of all of that messy beautiful…I AM extremely thankful.
As today is Bob’s birthday…I celebrate HIM!
I want you to know I CHOOSE YOU!
I struggle to find the right words to thank you for being who you are. For being stronger than I and being a faithful helper! To being my partner and confident even when we have felt miles apart…to choosing love and friendship in the midst of the busy-ness of life!
Thank you for being my tech guy, my researcher, my support…when I hear you talk about ‘OUR’ business although it’s my name, I see you light up and an energy in your voice that inspires me.
For being a wonderful father to our beautiful girls, a friend and lover to stand by me, to not giving up and believing in us, to being willing to grow together even when there was uncertainty around us!
I LOVE YOU!
Because I shouldn’t be surprised you make the bed in the morning, or the non glamorous jobs you do in and around the house…NOR be surprised at the strong man God created you to be.
For the times I take too long to get ready OR make you do a Starbucks run when you don’t understand the language of coffee. For the times I don’t get the need to replace an engine in an old car, or off road in the mountains…I LOVE YOU!
For lack of a more encompassing word…you are nothing short of AMAZING.
Thank you for loving me in my reality when my reality is fantasy…and when I am stuck, you let me be stuck in my stubbornness just long enough to realize the hope that draws me out.
This is hardly enough to celebrate you but it’s a start…it may be the end of 2014 but the start of 45 for you.
And thanks for putting up with my quirkiness (ya that's what it's called)!
A happy selfie, a bunch of friends jumping, all dressed up and no where to go…why not take another selfie. Dancing at a wedding…everything seems to be portrayed as fun and happy. But is it?
Of course that is to be expected in todays day and age…the same goes with looks. We all judge beauty in different ways but beauty TRULY does stem from the heart.
Walking down the streets of Everett literally chasing the sunset with one of my bride and grooms…we were sure we were going to miss that last bit of sunflare when a gal, an artist herself, someone I admit I would not typically strike up a conversation with…overheard us and said ‘would you want to use the rooftop of my apartment building’!??
UM…. YES…YES we would…could she read my mind…oh my gosh I felt so blessed yet deep inside I had to admit to myself I wasn’t sure If I would have offered the same to her had it been her need. She is an artist, a painter, a visionary. I admire her kindness and willingness to trust. Thank you!
If you are interested in her artwork you can check it out at www.warpaint.mobi
After having a few months to reflect on this and be honest with myself about the question of ‘would I have offered the same to her? I realize more and more we all have a story to tell…and in that story there is beauty and meaning.
Thank you for sharing your rooftop and more importantly showing me a deeper side to humanity…I am not perfect, my family is not perfect (or the chaos for coordinating family photos) AND everyday I realize more and more I simply need God!
Inspiration today:: 'NEED YOU NOW' by PLUMB
Sometimes there are friends in life who arrive out of no where…kind of like angels! They are not only incredible blessings but they challenge you, push you to be a better you!
As I arrived home one day I got a notification that I was nominated for a contest. Now I am not big into contests or begging for votes. I know it can be a great way to get your business name out there and satisfying to ‘win’ something, but I guess I have always just been OK doing what I do and being thankful for the clients and friends that continue to use me for photography.
In saying that, my friend Stephanie nominated me for the King 5 Best of Western Washington contest. I have voted for many friends and vendors in past years but have never been part of it myself. Well thanks to Steph and her confidence in me I am now in the running. Stephanie & Dom’s wedding was the first wedding I ever photographed and since then they have been some of my biggest cheerleaders.
Stephanie, thank you for pushing me to be part of something that I wouldn’t have probably done myself, for being a friend that challenges me and supports me no matter what…and for having the confidence to know I am not begging for votes but to know that people want to love and support anyway they can!
I am constantly amazed at the wonderful people that have come into my life through photography. Clients new and old, most of which have become friends and have developed a deeper connection with than just simply taking their photo!
I am humbled and so thankful. When I live in a city, state and country far from my own family it has been comforting to have so many that have made it feel like home here!
I would be honored and so very appreciative if you would take time to vote...just click on the photo below!! Many thanks....
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He recently built a barn door for their bedroom rather than a typical window covering. Lori, talented in her own right with refinishing skills, painted it to get it the distressed look she loves and works well for décor of their home.
Lori’s vision for furniture and ‘saving’ a piece, getting that distressed look just right amazes me. Maybe it’s taking the time to research and do it right, maybe it’s therapeutic…either way I can’t say it’s my gift or talent BUT it definitely is Lori’s.
As we were adding onto our home, my studio space has a walk in closet of sorts. And although I didn’t want to hide everything in it, we did in fact need some kind of door. We were researching a set of barn doors…they seemed to be the right answer as they fit our space and work as an alternative backdrop…I mean versatility is key right?
John, being the talented guy he is, said ‘oh ya I can make those for you’….whaaaat? Are you kidding? Um yes please! So we worked it out…and voila…he built 2 amazing doors. Now I had to stain them. So for anyone that knows me, I maybe creative when it comes to photography but I am no painter or master decorator!
Between Lori’s ideas and my other friend Danielle, who in fact is an interior decorator and has her own company called NEST…we came up with a way to stain them that was not too daunting (I say that now that they are done).
Lori suggested a vinegar and steel wool process. So of course with Google being my friend I looked up the ‘recipe’ and tried to follow it. I seemed to have soaked my steel wool too long so my solution was rather rusty looking but I proceeded anyway and rubbed the solution all over the doors. Well needless to say my doors looked ORANGE…yes this is what happens when I take on a DIY project. Danielle being the expert decorator, stainer, painter etc. etc. etc….she came to the rescue.
First we took a pail of water and a wet cloth and wiped the doors off…removing as much of the orange coloring that seemed to turn powder like from the solution. This left us with a decent base color.
Then we took a few different colors of stain, American walnut, Dark Walnut and Gray, one at a time on our cloth, rubbing it on, then using a wet cloth to wipe it off. Wiping different colors on and off with a super wet cloth over and over. This works the stain in without it being too ‘paint like’ and allows you to get it into the grain of the wood and some of the corners. Once done we put a clear satin coating over both sides of the doors.
I have to say Danielle is a great teacher, encouraging me all the way that I could handle the project, and that I could pull late night hours to get it done! When I wanted to quit, she would lie and say ‘We are almost done’…Thank you Danielle! (And thank you that there are no photos of us and our late night work projects!!)
We ordered the hanging hardware from Ebay and our contractor Kevin, of Nixon Construction hung them in the studio. I am so grateful for everyone who helped with these and for Bob carrying them wherever I needed to finish the process!!
If you are interested in doors like this, please let me know and I can get you in touch with John. For any interior decorating needs do NOT hesitate to contact Danielle Erickson 425.750.7607.
Thanks to Kevin with Nixon Construction (and your team) for all your hard work. For the countless hours Danielle at Nest Design put in, including many texts and phone calls and freak outs from me. The graphic design and many other areas of support from my amazing friend Jess at Caskey Design (including the backdrop for the photos as everyone entered the party). To my brother in law Michael Chambers who was the bartender extrordinaire the night of the party…entertaining like no other. To backup bartender Shyla Hardwick for adding life to the party with her personality! To Shirley, my mother in law, for loving on my girls and having yet another sleepover with them! To fabulous friends and clients who came out to support my business and simply made it a wonderful time. And to never forget an amazing husband who put in many hours helping to set up and cleaning up. For his time, love, support and patience during this WHOLE process…especially when Danielle and I forced him to make a few changes…LOVE YOU!!
We laughed, danced, ate, toasted and cheered and it was a huge success!!
I am at a loss for words to describe how thankful I am…yes me…at a loss for words…thanks just doesn’t seem to be enough…so for now…photos will have to do!
Here are a few teaser images....Click here to see the full gallery!
Cupcakes:: Pinkabella Cupcakes
Cake Pops:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
Macarons:: Stephanie Anson (who makes amazing cheesecakes too)
The Best Pulled Pork EVER:: Mike Morehouse
Costco shopping trips:: Ashley Beutler
]]>I have to thank so many people:: Kevin, Nixon Contruction and his team, Jeff & Timmy (as my girls call him). Danielle Erickson, Nest Interior Design, for her design expertise, and friendship (and forcing me to paint and stain when I really didn’t want to). Jess Caskey, Caskey Design for her honest input, friendship, weekly visits and graphic designs of almost anything and everything!
To Bob and my girls for all of their love & support with my business, I don't always deserve it and often days are rushed and time is limited but we try and will continue to try to make it work. For their patience, even when they didn't understand the vision, as we tore different sections of our house apart and rebuilt. Thank you!
Much love to everyone!!
We are having a ‘LAUNCH’ party June 21st. Happy to have anyone drop by!!
We feel very blessed to have so much love & support around us!
Click here to see the first half of our project.
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It was from Sarah that I learned more about the Snohomish Wedding Guild and signed up to be a vendor for the Snohomish Wedding Tour. Since then we have been on the board together and are excited once again to be at the venue, Hidden Meadows, with a bunch of other wedding vendors!
The Snohomish Wedding Tour is a special event designed to give couples, their families, and friends an opportunity to view venues within Snohomish and meet with other industry professionals.
This years tour has 19 venues and the first 50 brides to arrive at registration the morning of June 1st receive a swag bag. Registration is at the Snohomish Center 506 4th Street, Snohomish, WA.
I have to admit I certainly struggled with coming up with an idea of what to donate. I wanted something fun, somewhat useful, memorable and this year colorful! I have a friend, Amanda, who is a Mary Kay consultant and she was over one day treating me to a mini facial when I saw these eye shadows. On the front there was a logo similar to mine. They came in a bunch of fun colors for Spring and it got me thinking….what if that was my swag bag item…with the tag line ‘EYE DO’…and BAM we made it happen.
Jess Caskey of Caskey Design, my go to girl, BFF and graphic designer, came up with the card covered in funky neon colors to attach to the little burlap bag that I put the eye shadow in.
I feel so fortunate to have these other moms in my life. To have friends that understand the nature of juggling life while trying to find balance within self employment. We certainly support and encourage each other and the best part…we have fun while we do what we love!
If you are interested in attending the tour you can find more info on the My Snohomish Wedding website.
Additionally I get 4 FREE tickets. I would love to give them out to anyone interested in going…just email me at [email protected] prior to Wednesday May 21st and come visit my booth at Hidden Meadows!
You can also find more information on the Snohomish Wedding Tour Social Media Connections….
Hashtag for this event is #snohomishweddingtour
Facebook - SnohomishWeddingTour
Twitter - @MySnohomishWed
Pinterest Page - mysnohowedding
Instagram at ‘snohomishweddingtour’
Website – http://www.mysnohomishwedding.com/
Memories like::
Waking up to the sun rising behind my favorite tree.
Walking down the lane to meet the bus for school…that of which my Uncle drove and was in -40 degree weather!
Tons of different animals my dad sporadically decided to raise…chickens, rabbits, pigs, cows and yes…ostriches.
Winter was super cold and sometimes long, however we always threw in some fun as us cousins would play street hockey or jump off bales!
I love the city but sometimes miss the farm…that small town feel…just a little stroll down memory lane…HAPPY FRIDAY!
In college my best friend would say ‘wow that’s really gonna get you far in life’! Well it may not have gotten me far but I sure can belt out Whitney Houston or Roxette in my car with no hiccups!
To me songs are like photos…they evoke a lot of emotion and often express how I feel without me having to come up with the words. Every line can mean something different, trigger a memory or inspire me to do something with the photography talent God gave me!
I have to admit technology has come a long way since having to rewind a cassette tape, risk the tape getting stuck in the machine and after fishing it out having to use a pen to wind it all back up just to get it ready to play AGAIN! Am I dating myself? I guess it is throw back Thursday!
I love my satellite radio that tells me the name of the song, Google for finding lyrics in literally a second and Spotify to pull it up for free and listen to it over and over…and over again! I may have a slight addiction to spotify!??? AND no more writing out lyrics…
I think music is my form of reading. I appreciate a good book but probably a book on audio is more my style. Does that make me a good listener?? My latest fave tune…’Am I wrong’ by Nico & Vinz. Talking about trying to reach the things that I can’t see…having a vision…not looking back…don’t let them compare…it’s just how I feel. Those are just a few of the lyrics that seem to resinate in me today!
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Allie was completely happy and content in their relationship. Then it happened…one evening at dinner one of Pats friends, Jeff asked if Allie ever thought about getting married. Allie, super content replied ‘I don’t want to put too much pressure on Pat…’ Just then she turned around and Pat had a ring…the ring…and right there at Diamond Knot Brewery, down on one knee, on a floor of peanut shells, Pat said ‘Is this too much pressure?’. Tears filled Allies eyes…happy tears and as she tried to catch her breath and yell out “YES”! The bartender jumped up on the bar to make the announcement and there wasn’t a dry eye in the place!
As Allie told this story again, tears welled up in her eyes. Pat looked at her with compassion knowing he has made her one ecstatic woman!! Thrilled to be planning to share the rest of their lives together you can tell they are meant to be!
Although they don’t work together…when Allie suggested that we do their engagement session at the distribution plant it seemed like the perfect fIt as this is such an important part of their life!! It’s a place they both know well! They love to laugh together and certainly don’t take themselves too seriously despite the American goth-like images we were trying to immolate! We tried to make use of the different areas of the plant including having them climb into the hopper! We did end up at Mukilteo beach near one of their restaurants to end the session.
Despite the cold wind and rain they we managed to get a few outdoor photos and even get Pat into a pair of pants rather than shorts that he tends to sport year round. (Not the same pair just shorts in general).
Allie & Pat, we are so excited for your Mukilteo beach wedding in August!! Knowing how much you both love each other I know it’s going to be a gorgeous day!!
Pine River Ranch served as the perfect backdrop. A venue that has awesome accommodations for the bridal party both to stay and prep for the big day as well as host the full wedding celebration from start to finish. AND grounds that are a photographers haven!
EVENTful Moments set up some of the cutest areas for guests to enjoy including a HOT Cocoa bar! It was the ideal touch for a brisk winter day. Sarah & Marissa are always on top of everything and know how to anticipate needs before they happen!! (Not to mention super fun to work with)!
The day started with a first look between Alicia and her dad. Alicia is one of five children but being the only daughter it made this moment that much more special! Randy savored every second!
One of the groomsmen had stood at the end of the hall and when he opened the small barn door the light poured in and at that moment I knew it was a perfect place for some portraits of Alicia!
As we ventured outdoors Andy was patiently waiting in a field of snow. Extremely anxious but very much excited to see his bride. He turned and was in awe of Alicia. Taking in all of her dress she spun around (the best she could in snow and Sorels), and Andy kissed his stunning bride and mother of his daughter, Eloise, and soon to be new baby due in September!
We roamed the property as best we could, a snowmobile may have helped but Alicia was a trooper doing all her portraits outdoors in her strapless gown from LaineeMeg Bridal. I have to say I was in heaven with all of the nooks and crannies including the old tub in the middle of the grounds!
The ceremony started with Eloise being pulled down the aisle by her Uncle. Loving every moment on that sled she was a happy camper for the duration. The guests were presented with a quilt to keep warm during the ceremony all handmade with a special tag on the inside to commemorate their day! Alicia and Andy said their I Do’s, goosebumps and all and were thrilled to be pronounced husband and wife.
The afternoon progressed and everyone enjoyed the toasts, cake and dancing. Eloise especially enjoyed the cake from, Just For the Smell of It. Loving the attention she made a decent size dent in the gluten free torte.
As the snow started falling they were off with a sparkler exit. It was the magical end to her winter wedding and although she would say they didn’t do things in the ‘right’ order…it’s their order and their story and they are happy happy happy!
Her mom and dad struck up conversation and were kind enough to ask me ‘What do you do?’. So of course without hesitation I said ‘I am a photographer’. As we conversed back and forth they asked me what kind of photographer. This question makes me dig deep into why I do what I do…get past the white noise in my head and be confident in knowing why I photograph life how I do.
People often ask...am I going to specialize into one genre of photography. My photography journey started out with shooting anything and everything…and slowly I have morphed into what I know and love to photograph…LIFE. I love the variety that life brings. All the different people and age groups I get to meet and the stories of their life that I get to document … I mean variety IS spice of life, right!?
My husband often jokes?? about having a third baby…my response um…NO... I have another baby….my business. It takes time and love and dedication and allows me to balance life with my other babies (who are growing up far too fast). I want to have the time to take care of my clients and balance home life and I am so thankful photography has allowed me to do that. Not to mention I get the best baby fix at a newborn session and I get to sleep at night!!
I love to travel and want to make the most of any trip. Whether it’s across the world, LA, or my small hometown in rural Saskatchewan , these trips help me push my photographic style. I start to see things in a new way, maybe even taking a photo by accident that I happen to love and figuring out why I love it. Photographing life with cars and people and culture in the background....LIFE...and realizing that a perfect photo is subjective!
LIFE is circular…and I love that I get to often see my clients more than just once. It’s relational and directional not just a one way street…and it’s a big part of why I do what I do.
Click here to watch my video about photographing LIFE.
So yes it is a new year and now more holidays are among us. I have to be honest I have never been one for Valentine’s Day. I often forget to be that mom, friend or photographer that does all the cutsie stuff for this non-holiday, holiday! I guess renovating our home and preparing to have an official in-home studio is a bit time consuming as well!
I still feel new to the photography world although life and business has steadily become busier and more in-depth. There is always a bit of a lull at the beginning of the year and if I am honest it’s nerve racking. However the past couple of years have taught me to enjoy it. Visit the friends you can’t in the summer and fall. Go for coffee, go to the mall, watch a few episodes of Ellen or clean that closet that has been staring at you for months…um yes to the first three not so much on the closet!
The other thing I decided to do is to volunteer where I can’t other times. I would love to volunteer more at church but also use this gift that I truly believe God gave me of photography. Whether it’s volunteering in my girls classrooms or setting up a photobooth at the church father-daughter dance, it gives me a chance to meet people while giving back a little bit. I feel very honored that my church (Gold Creek Community Church) would ask me to do this.
I have to admit my favorite part may have been having someone mentor beside me. A friend of a friend is in the ‘art’ world and she is wanting to learn more about photography. Chloe, a bubbly 22 year old that made me feel like I was 22…well maybe 25 but still…young and young at heart. We worked that photobooth together and I tried to teach her little snipits of camera functionalities as we went. But what struck me at the end of the night was how she said ‘wow it’s really a lot more than just ‘picture taking’. A lot of energy and relating to people goes into every photo’. It’s always interesting to get an outside perspective but I walked away feeling energized by that. Yes I love photography but it is about a love for people too…I am not always perfect at remembering names or being politically correct but I am about acknowledging even the youngest person, especially these little girls…with their light up shoes, shimmery dresses and princess headbands!!
THANKS SO MUCH CHLOE...you are AMAZING...next time I won't forget to instagram photos of us!!!!!
My road seems to be different every year. And as anxious as change makes me I am kinda learning to love the twists and turns that come with it…even if my heels are dug in part of the way!
This doesn't mean my love of photographing people outdoors is going to change however it certainly will offer more flexibility, extra space, and a more personal place to meet! AND maybe a client appreciation party or two!!
Kevin Nixon, of Nixon Construction LLC has been nothing short of amazing to work with. Punctual, fast and tolerant of a few random changes...ok maybe more than a few!
I am excited for what 2014 has in store but of course, if I am honest, a bit nervous! I am only human and have doubts as well as those thoughts of 'what if'...maybe when it's all done the panic attacks in the middle of the night will stop too...KIDDING...they don't happen THAT often!
A few things I do know...I have the best family, the most caring friends and faithful CLIENTS and couldn't be more grateful for everyone's love & support! I CANNOT wait for completion!!!
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I first met Molly at the PRO Sports Club in Bellevue as she completed the MY BEST 10 program in May of 2012. A 10 week program where women take care of themselves with the help of professional s in all aspects healthwise. I see such transformations in women from this program not only externally but internally. They beam, glow and exude such confidence! At all ages!
After completing the program Molly discovered a lump near her breast. Being Hispanic and having 5 children and aging she just thought it was par for the course of life changes. She ignored the lump and thought she would just get a mammogram ‘later’. In January of 2013 her doctor discovered the lump, it was cancer and Molly’s head began to spin. “You no longer have good and bad days, you have good and bad hours, with thoughts swirling around your head of what life means.” By March she had surgery and had the lump removed. She started 2 months of radiation going 5 times a week. She is now cancer free however healthy living is what the doctor recommends going forward. Her doctor says “You are never cured but can certainly live a better life as preventative maintenance”.
The PRO Club offers a 6 week refresher course to the past My Best 10 clients so Molly signed up. Coming over from Pullman weekly she is one dedicated woman. Driven, motivated and confident!
She finished her refresher course at the beginning of December and realizing that life can be short she had planned earlier in the year to have a private boudoir session with me. Not knowing what the future may hold she wanted to embrace herself where she is at as well as celebrate all of the hard work she has done since starting the My Best 10 program.
We scheduled part of a day together…having her hair and makeup done and then celebrating her health and beauty. Her husband simply adores her and I know is going to LOVE these photos. She would smirk and then laugh when talking about him, and after showing her a few she would say ‘Oh ya he will LOVE LOVE LOVE them’. Molly is inspirational to say the least! Her love for her family and appreciation for life shines through. I feel so blessed to have spent time with her.
Hair & Makeup:: Timaree Rae Vezina Garberg
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It’s family photo season!! And I too scheduled my own family photos! I thought I would treat myself to having my makeup done (thanks to the talented Timaree), had my kids home from school a bit early to save on time…only to still be rushing around last minute trying to get everyone ready, keep everyone clean and get snacks into the car to arrive on time. Kids crying, boots missing, sweaters that are uncomfortable…seriously I could write a book!
We finally get in the car, pick up Bob from work and head to Discovery Park…a place I have always wanted to have our own photos taken at. Meanwhile in the car, the girls are bickering and despite just being fed, already complaining about being hungry…not to mention bows and braids being destroyed along the way. Yep it happens to my family too!
Often people arrive at a photoshoot a bit frazzled. Everything seems to happen right as you walk out the door…something doesn’t fit, someone has to go to the bathroom or that bright red spiderman toy is attached to your childs hip and tears may be flowing!!!
Regardless the thing I love the most about photography is the final outcome. I love how Ryan Flynn captured our family…A bit chaotic with my kids expressions yet some tender moments. Of course there is always some posed and some candid but that’s how life is too! We try our best to keep it together and then sometimes it’s just a gong show and hey….that’s ok!
I have so many people say after their shoot…”wow that was more fun than I thought”! The goal to have fun…I’m ok acting like an idiot to get kids to relax…the best part is they probably won’t remember! And sometimes awkward leads to the best laughter! AND…When all else fails RUN…let them run…run away from you then towards you and by the time they do that a few times they are tired and need to breathe…and both sets of photos usually turn out to be awesome!
The other thing that makes me smile about my job is when my clients are surprised at their final gallery of photos. Seriously kids cry so let them cry it out and photograph someone else OR get one of the best snot bubble blowing, alligator tear photos that they can show one day at their wedding slideshow!!
OR just yell "SPIDER" and get the best organic scared reaction ever!
One mom from one of my most recent sessions emailed me… “These look great!!!! Thanks so much! We were all super stressed that day from running around etc and you couldn't tell at all from the pictures!”
Honestly…fall is busy but I love it and I love how the same technique leads to different photos for each family!!
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Sarah's vision for a black & white 1920's themed shoot swirled in her head and as she communicated details to all of the vendors she executed it in a classy, unique and trendy way! I was so honored to be asked to photograph this and collaborate with talented vendors and willing (& attractive) models!
It's projects like this that add to the fact that I love what I do. To meet other vendors, to work together and see how much work goes into something and be so proud of the outcome. To be rejuvenated and excited...and to see how much each vendor contributes. Things like this don't happen with one person...each person plays a key role and together something beautiful happens.
Today it is featured on Every Last Detail's Blog and we are all very proud!!
http://theeverylastdetail.com/black-white-blush-1920s-wedding-inspiration/
Wedding Planning /Coordination:: EVENTful Moments
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Flowers:: Flowers By Tiffany
Venue:: Hidden Meadows
Stationary:: Heathoriginal
Cakes:: Tallant House
Linens:: Grant Event Rentals
Bridal Salon:: Laineemeg Bridal
Hair & Makeup:: KJ Hair & Makeup Artistry
Grooms Attire:: Formals & Frills
Models:: Shannon Baker & David Canter
]]>I find people often cancel sessions due to sickness or weather BUT weddings never…what happens on the day of a wedding happens and no matter what, the show must go on!! That is what Victoria did. And me well I had to improvise. How do we move along with the progression of photos despite how the bride feels yet remain empathetic. (I mean she is an intricate part of most photos)
So what did we do…we found a couch for her to sit on and made the people come to her. We did a few bridal party photos in the field with different groups then brought everyone to where she was. Other than the random breaks to loosen her dress and sit with a bag…Victoria rallied! Cameron was on board with getting the other pics we needed then checking in on his bride on and off. It didn’t even feel like there was a hiccup in the day!
It came time for family photos so we found an area close to the reception hall and a chair. Sitting when necessary but pushing through, we managed to capture many moments where Victoria seemed her bubbly self! The ceremony progressed and she stood through the whole thing never waivering or even showing signs to anyone that she wasn’t feeling 100%.
During dinner and toasts we weren’t sure how long Victoria would last but after taking a bit of time away from the crowd a new bride emerged. She busted up the dance floor like nobodies business! Her and Cam left to a crowd cheering for them and all smiles!
It’s their day, their story and by the look of the photos I don’t think you would ever know!!
See their preview here....http://victoria-cameron.seattleweddingphotographer.com/
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You see we would dance around Charity’s living room…pretending we were the best singers with the most amazing dance moves, all the while swaying back and forth, hardly moving our feet and no sound coming out of our mouth just our lips moving, airing everyword. (I guess in this case the air was into my flute).
Now I long for a bar like that…well ‘long’ maybe a stretch but personally I am not much of a ‘Karaoke-er’. So I figure an air-band bar would be much more useful…I prefer to lip sync , I mean it works for Britney Spears right!? Although I may avoid the scantily clad outfits…but who doesn’t love a good air-guitar and 80’s dance moves!?
What does this have to do with photography? Well nothing really although it could make for some great photos or definitely a video!??
What it DOES have to with is emotion… I love music, the way it resonates with my inner-self and the way words make me feel something. I guess like a photo…you see a photo and it can make you feel something…happy, sad, good or bad – you know you are ALIVE when you feel!
Anticipation filled the air. My girls could hardly contain their excitement for a new school year. Both of my girls love to be independent so getting to ride that big yellow bus, enjoy the ‘yummy’ cafeteria food and with the hope of tons of homework, they were in heaven. And I…was excited for the mini-vacation and long break everyday to put my feet up and just ‘relax’. HAHA can you hear my sarcasm!! I must admit I am not the mom that follows the bus to the school to secretly watch them. But I am the mom that chases them with the camera making them do “1st day of school photos” followed by a jig after the bus pulls away.
As things shift for me from weekends full of weddings to more senior and family sessions…my daily ‘mini-vacations’ and idealistic view of ‘taking a break’ are filled with that never ending “TO-DO” list. I am certainly that Type-A personality that has a list and gets much satisfaction from crossing things off, double starring items and then re-writing lists for my lists.
(Photo from Pinterest )
My days are now dedicated to trying to have more structured hours. I say ‘trying’…as it’s certainly going to be a work in progress! I do have one friend that would think I am on perpetual vacation (SARAH-from EVENTful moments…uh hem)…my daily breaks are certainly not that. I am not sure if driving here and there count as vacation time although sometimes it provides interesting Instagram photos.
As these breaks from my girls are good for my sanity, I kind of look at taking a break from a set of photos after a session the same way. Typically after a session I load my images and do a quick overview and post a mini preview for my clients. I love a little teaser to get them excited about what’s to come. Next I usually cull through the images, keeping only the ones I may edit or have a hard time deciding between. Then, I add it to my list and take a break from that set of photos. I find this break from them for the next week or so allow me to look forward to this session again when it is time to start editing. Just like the excitement when a day is done and the bus door opens and my girls bounce down the driveway! I have a new perspective, and fresh eyes!
It allows me to be much more decisive when picking the photos for the final edit and which ones would provide the best variety for their gallery. Of course sometimes I just can’t choose but again I would rather have too many than not enough!
It’s been a week of adjustment but as I read on Instagram the other day…”The only thing constant is change”. This does seem to be true. A life lesson for me as well as one to teach my girls. Roll with it, embrace it and make a choice to be happy.
It was the brides earrings...an heirloom set from her mother. Of course this wasn't the wedding they were from Forever 21, they were irreplaceable, special, meaningful and did I mention delicate.
As per usual I took the brides jewelry somewhere 'creative' to photograph them. Taking in the surroundings and trying to be inspired to photograph them in a unique spot that also showcases them. I always find this part to be somewhat challenging as you are typically short on time but certainly wanting to push the creative envelope and not always being doing the same types of photos.
Placing the earrings and necklace in a few different places I ended up putting them on the ledge on the deck. I did my best to get a few different angles and when finished was aiming to put them back in their box. MY inside voice was screaming 'DO NOT DROP THEM...DON'T DO IT...BE CAAARRRREEEFFUUUUUL!!!'...then the inevitable happened. I dropped one of the earrings...it bounced off the deck bench and fell through the slat under the deck.
Of course slipping into a slight major panic Bob and I started sifting through the blanket of dirt and leaves that lay under the deck. As the mother of the bride stepped outside, we caught eyes and she gently said to me 'I don't want to know' and I replied 'Nope you don't, it's all going to be fine'...meanwhile inside I was wondering when I would be able to breathe again. The father of the bride and her brother joined us and calmly helped us on our hunt for literally a needle in a haystack. I have to say Don (Christina's brother) was a trooper...sliding under the deck with a flashlight to help Bob rummage through where we 'thought' it was. I am not sure I was much help with all of my hyperventilating but what's a girl to do when she's in full-on panic mode?
After 25 minutes, almost giving up and dealing with 'HOW AM I GOING TO BREAK THIS NEWS'...Bob stood up and right at the edge of the deck was the earring. Feeling as if I was waking from a nightmare...my cold sweats disappeared and I think he was scared I was gonna knock it out of his hands when I tackled him with a huge hug! Yep call it my professionalism!
I am so grateful for Christina's dad and brother. Very helpful and not a word of 'what were you thinking!?'...
Right after that I found a small shell - between that and the concrete it was the perfect area to place the earrings for that one photo I needed...not to mention a bit more on the safe side!
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Jess often has a brave face and is one of the most emotionally stable people I know however it's those days I get a text from her saying 'I spent all morning crying' that my heart aches for her. The days we chase our children at the playground but then she takes off her sunglasses and I can see tears well up in her eyes.
On June 4th, Jess & Ryan (and Beckem, 3,) lost their baby girl, Isla Joi. She was born at 23 weeks but due to many complications did not survive. Having known people who could not get pregnant, have miscarried babies, had stillborn babies both at mid-term and full term, as well as babies who have passed away after being integrated into a family...all have a level of pain and suffering that is hard to comprehend. All have memories and a place in the families heart!
Now...life is suppose to go on right!? The posting of fun pics they continue to do as a family of 3...but all the while knowing they could have been a family of 4. As the due date approaches more emotion is to come but the thing I love most about this family is they are REAL! Jess is not one to sit at home and cry all day despite the fact that she may want to. She will never post on facebook a 'woe is me' story. She will always try to show her thankfulness for what they have and how she can enjoy life and be content with where God has them right now. It's hard and maybe it's not always exactly how she feels but I think it's a way to move on without forgetting.
As medical bills start arriving on top of the other unexpected expenses life brings I decided to set up a charity fundraiser for them. We all have life expenses but it's amazing what can happen when people come together!!
I wanted to pay tribute and honor Baby Isla Joi. I love that Joi was her middle name. When I first worked with Jess (Jessica Joi Caskey) as a nickname at work I called her Joi...'Joi to my world' to be exact. And that's what she is...JOY in my life and I know Isla Joi would have brought them much JOY!
If you would like to contribute and support the Caskey's please click the link below. The fundraiser ends August 31st. AND to those who have already donated A HUGE THANK YOU...your love & support means the world to them!! They are so grateful and humbled by all the LOVE!
Photo Credit: Brooks Scribner Photography
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I will say every so often I am surprised. Surprised at how much I love them. Maybe it's that one of my most special friends gave them to me, or maybe it's that my favorite flowers would be a random bouquet from Pike Place Market OR maybe it's that typically flowers are accompanied by a note or card. Anyone who knows me knows I am a 'words' person and the handwritten message is the MOST important part of any gift!! It doesn't have to be on a fancy card that plays music or one that unfolds with 8 sides. Even if it's written on the paper the flowers were wrapped in, it's truly the words that mean the most.
Thank you Chantelle & Sheila for coming to visit and being YOU!! The thing I love most about you is just that...YOU!
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There is certainly a sweet spot when it comes to laughing photos and I do believe in a pretty cry…and those are truly the candid moments we want…I call it ‘natural posing’.
Set up a scene and talk your client through it, giving them something to do but still evoking a real emotion and taking one too many photos to ensure you get the ‘right’ candid. Right, wrong or whatever...it's the reason a lot of people hire me...you see a photo may say a 1000 words but thankfully you don't hear the 1000 words said to get that photo. It's part of the dreaming, imagining, and having a photo impact you in the way you 'feel' it should!
Here is the difference between true candid…and a ‘posed’ candid…
Nuff said…???
Although a flower can't choose it's color I realize with each new morning we can choose our path.
I could've chosen another coffee shop...but I didn't. I could've walked around a different block...and sometimes I did! I chose to get up, smile and enjoy all the God created and all that was here to enjoy! So much history lives in Rome!
We all our creatures of habit...even watching the employees of the Colesseum Bar and Cafe do the same morning setup of tables and chairs-balancing them so diligently to not have them rock on the cobblestone street. To set up the same umbrellas day in and day out not complaining but knowing the shade and temporary comfort it will provide their customers.
Speaking of routine, even roaming the streets yesterday we came across 2 weddings...I couldn't resist, call it the paparazzi like nature in me...I had to snag a couple of pics.
I love to travel and see the world, of course I tend to document it in a gazillion photos...however we all long for routine...whether its in rural Saskatchewan, Seattle or across the world in Italy...we all have it...and I think in the end we all need it...
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My days are often filled with much randomness and are somewhat sporadic of nature…tending to make me feel like I have severe ADD but embracing it all the same.
I am definitely a typical girl in many ways and on top of that am most certainly a list person. Post-it notes are not usually large enough for my lists so papers folded over and over, items crossed off then re-written in the attempt of feeling organized!
I wouldn’t say these are a top 9 of anything (well maybe a few are) but some are just random things about me…*disclaimer*…they are in no particular order…
1. I consider myself quite the multi-tasker however I don't seem to be able to chew gum and photograph at the same time. Not sure why...it just is? So this stuff is in my pocket for before and after...
2. Four loves of my life...my hubby (thanks for all you do and who you are), my girls (you are my life) and the beach ...
3. Spicy food and friends. I LOVE these deep fried jalepenos from our local Mexican restaurant...I seriously cannot get enough. Combine them with spicy friends and its a great combo! I am blessed to have lots of friends and family, both with their own level of spice...and too many photos to share - just know I love you ALL!
4. I like ballet flats and Tori Burch sure does make some cute ones BUT I just cannot wear them. Open toed yes, flip flops yes...but truthfully I tend to always opt for heels. I wore heels the full 9 months of pregnancy with each girl and I think secretly I have always wanted to be 6' tall.
5. I often choose salt over sugar however Sour Kids have a special place in my heart...except the green ones. Green gummies of any kind are a big NO! Happy to share my sweets but only the green ones!
6. There is something about travelling abroad. Experiencing new culture and meeting new people. I find it helps my creative mind to take a mini break but also to find a way to push through creative blocks that seem to come up when being busy. We are off to Italy and Croatia in July and cannot wait.
7. I have found the upgraded emoji app...I seem to be in love with large emoji art! So adult of me!
8. Um...Coke Zero...YUM...nuff said...
9. LOVE...who doesn't love love...God created us to want and need love and even the elephants can be inspiration!!!
Of course I have more things I love or don't love but who has time to list them all...HAPPY FRIDAY!
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SMILE is what I do when I think back exactly a year ago. We took a trip to Africa…a trip to climb Mount Kilimanjaro. They call it a “ONCE in a lifetime experience” so when asked if I would go again of course my answer was “NO”. It’s called a “once in a lifetime experience” to do just that…be “ONCE” in a lifetime.
I loved Africa…the people, the mountain, the tenting, the safari, the food, the culture, the market, the monkeys outside our hut!! BUT…I love home and I will hold the memories close BUT moving on is good and so is making NEW memories! Here’s to traveling new places…next stop Italy & Croatia!
Dedicated to our team...so glad we made this trek together...
Recapping some of the memories...
The reality of making the best of not making it...
The blog recapping everyones stories...'In Other Words'...
Our adventures in Arusha town...
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I have to admit I used to be better at writing & sending cards than I have been recently. My husband learned quickly and is very good at filling a card (in full) as are my children, even if most of them are taped with lots of construction paper shapes lining the outside…I will take it! With most of my family living in Canada, birthdays and special occasions take some planning with snail mail…at least 10 days in advance. Well with facebook and email I have become a slacker…cards are fewer and far between but words still race around in my head.
Just when I thought I could write Hallmark cards, I gave up and started photography instead. (Not really but hey it sounded good). I started writing more and more as I started photographing… little blurbs to go with each photoshoot, including a more detailed engagement and wedding story. It made me listen to people more and really try to retain their story rather than just having menial conversation.
Now comes in the part where I wish I would have read more books. Books teach you how to write without even knowing it. The ebb and flow of the words, the flowery descriptions and gargantuous verbiage…instead I try to recall the details of the story, throw in a bit of my humor and somehow make it so someone might read to the end of the page…
Regardless of all the descriptions and fancy wording I think the most important thing is that I stay true to me and write from the heart…in return I know people will do the same. If you ever get a card from me know that it will be full of hand written love…and for anyone who has ever sent me one…THANK YOU…you know me better than you think!
Leather jackets may be back in style but leather skin…not so much…
I must admit sometimes sunshine poses a real challenge with photography. When I wake up and see its slightly overcast I sometimes do a little jig as I love to photograph in that kind of weather… lucky for me I live in the Pacific NW…
However summer is here and believe it or not, Seattle DOES get sunshine. I find myself cringing when I think of having a session in the bright mid-day sun with all the greenery around us lit up like lime green lights…which just simply means it’s time to push the creativity…
With days like this I often schedule the session early in the morning or towards evening but every so often you just gotta improvise….
Between lighting, posing and a bit of photoshop I feel you can work magic at anytime of day. Without the bright sun I never would have got this shot…sooooo I guess it’s all I can do to make the best at what mother nature throws at me and rock it out no matter what!
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Of course Snohomish (town) is roughly 10 times larger than my former home town but it still has that 'feeling'...when you stroll down the street with your kids and a stranger engages in conversation...where someone driving by waves to you even though you don't know them...and all the little shops with doors wide open, inviting you in to see all the unique nick nacks that line their shelves.
The smell of fresh cupcakes, crepes, and mexican food flood the air and I know for now Snohomish is my home...
BUT not to forget beside the cupcakes and across from Mexican is one other favorite place to land. FRESH Salon & Spa. Some who know me may know I am a wonderful driver (insert sarcasm here)...and a couple of weeks ago, well, I had a fender bender. Nothing major or to write home about BUT between that and photography I have gotta say massage is a beautiful thing. Hence the reference to FRESH Salon & Spa. My friend Kelli is a massage therapist there and one of the best around...maybe THE best. She's the perfect balance between friendly and knowing when to leave you alone and let you meld into the table. She knows how to analyze and prescribe the best treatment and you leave feeling like a million bucks...well at least I did today!
With or without a car accident I feel like massage is another way to take care of myself so I can be the best at my profession. Like working out and staying strong, relaxing and taking care of those muscles keeps me agile for all my photography ninja moves...yep I've got moves like Jagger!
Happy Weekend!!!!!!!!
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I first heard of the Snohomish Wedding Tour a couple of years ago. So this year I took a step and became a member of the Snohomish Wedding Guild and decided to participate in the tour. It's definitely more me. Every venue has one event planner, photographer, DJ and florist. So something a bit lower key and focused is just my style.
You can check-in for the event starts at 10:30am on June 2nd. The first 50 brides to check in at the Snohomish Center will be given a SWAG bag! Goodies for you to enjoy and help you celebrate your big day. I will be at Hidden Meadows along with EVENTful Moments Wedding and Event Planning, DJ Otto-mattic, and Freelance Floral. I am excited to be adding something to the SWAG bag...a little something to share and use as you start your life together! Tickets are only $5.00 and I know it's going to be amazing!
EVENTful Moments, Laineemeg Bridal, Flowers By Tiffany and myself are teaming up for a special styled shoot after the event. With all that Sarah of EVENTful moments is planning I am honored to be photographing it and cannot wait to share the photos!
Thanks to Jess Caskey of Caskey Design for designing this being such a huge part of all my designs!
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In April I did another set of boudoir sessions and it's always fun to see what inspires the ladies and what outfits they bring. One in particular was perfect for a "Throwback Thursday" segment. A throwback to the 1980's Flashdance look...which then leads me into Flashdance Friday. What is Flashdance Friday?? I don't know, I thought it had a good ring to it and made me excited for the weekend.
Happy almost weekend!
]]>A few weeks prior to Faustine & Todds engagement session I would get random emails from Faustine. A photo of them in an outfit with a caption ‘Ignore our faces but do you like the color combo?". A few emails back and forth I knew they were putting some real effort into their session (well Faustine was, Todd was merely obliging with anything Faustine suggested…good man). We strategized on a location and looked at the weather every day as their session approached. Then the last email I got from her the DAY of the session was ‘We are on our way but stopping to buy an old couch first’. YESSS!! I love these people. They stopped at an estate sale, bought a stinky old vintage couch just to add some interest to their photos. Now if anyone knows me I am happy to haul around props, chairs &just about anything that will fit in my car BUT when a client wants to do the same I am nothing but appreciative and ECSTATIC!
They sat on it, laid on it, jumped on it then were ready to rid of it…you wouldn’t believe it..the hardest part of the entire process, finding a place to dispose of it! I think in the end they finally found a place but had to drive all the way back to Puyallup with it in their car!
Faustine & Todd I am so glad you were the couple that bid on my package at the Spirit 105.3 Auction…more importantly I am glad you won! I couldn’t have asked for a better surprise! We are definitely a great match!
My mom is always a trooper in the Saskatchewan 'brisk' winter weather. And when I say brisk I mean minus 40...I have to say I forgot how cold that really was. Brrrr... In the midst of being outside she said 'I think I need a new photo of myself...I mean you never know when something could happen"... (way to put a damper on the visit mom) BUT in the midst of the cold and in the middle of the cow corral she posed and now my mom has a 'headshot'. It's not the ideal studio but for now it works.
These days morning comes too fast. I am an early bird...THEY say they ‘catch the worm’ but I am happy with my homemade iced coffee. (Makes me chilly after thinking of winter weather). I often still stumble downstairs longing, needing, craving that first coffee and trying to fit in any bit of work, aka social media. I am a morning person…I think I always was and I am starting to think I always will be. Even on vacation, the dawn is a beautiful thing! As I hear my girls rustle and roll out of bed, I know exactly by their steps which one it is. The highlight of my day…as each one comes to the bottom of the stairs they look at me and say ‘Goodmorning mama’. (You would think I grew up in the south?) I can’t always say it’s with enthusiasm or a smile, but each with their own special case of bed head I turn to them and smile!!
For me these are my memories…past and present. We all have them and are in the midst of creating them. As mother’s day approaches it makes me appreciate and savor them even more.
On Mother’s Day, May 12th, Gold Creek Community Church is celebrating MOMS! With tons of 'STUFF'...including chocolates, flowers and a photobooth…by me! I will be doing some ‘Mom & Me’ photos before & after each service.
Gold Creek has become home for us. I will never forget our first time attending there. Not only did we know people as soon as we walked in the door, but after my daughter was having a rough girl morning…Cheryl, one of the faithful greeters walked straight to Eva and said ‘My…don’t you look beautiful’. And with a kick in her step Eva shifted gears and bounced into her new Sunday school class. Something I know Eva needed, and I will never forget!
Pastor Dan & his wife Audrey have become dear friends of ours. Not only are his sermons real but they are two of the 'realest' people I know. We had the pleasure of climbing Mount Kilimanjaro with them almost a year ago...and even on the side of a mountain Dan turned on the romance...GO PASTOR DAN!
]]>Sarah Swanson, of EVENTful moments Wedding & Event planning, Zerlinda Lochtie, owner and lead designer of Laineemeg Bridal, and Tracy Stocker owner and operator of Hidden Meadows & Trail Side Wedding & Event Venues, were inspired to start a non-profit organization called Wish to Wed.
Wish to Wed allows couples facing serious life-threatening obstacles to concentrate on the issues affecting their lives. From the venue to the cake, and most everything between, we take care of all the wedding planning and details. In a special ceremony our couples pronounce their ever-lasting love to one another, surrounded by their closest family and friends.
It is our hope that we can provide help to those facing life threatening situations, while celebrating the eternal commitment of marriage.
We recognize there are many couples, due to physical and financial limitations, who are never exposed to opportunities and possibilities that exist in our community by granting dreams to our couples. Wish to Wed creates an opportunity they may not otherwise receive.
What better way to create awareness than by throwing a Launch Party! The support from the community was amazing and the evening was an absolute blast! These ladies have started something incredible and I can't wait to see where it goes. They are announcing their first couple on May 1st!
They included a reception dinner, a mock bouquet & garter toss, a few speeches and of course dancing! One of the speeches was given by Eric Walter, a PR “guy” with a company called Z2. After losing his wife to breast cancer only a few months after they were married he is in full support of Wish to Wed. It was infectious to hear of his strength and ambition.
Thanks to all the vendors who participated in making this happen! Click here to view more of the nights shenanigans!
Venue:: Trail Side Wedding & Events
Photography:: Arlene Chambers Photography
Florist:: Flowers by Tiffany
DJ:: Otto-Matic Mobile Music
Catering::Trails End Taphouse & Restaurant
Event Planning:: EVENTful Moments
Wedding Attire:: Laineemeg Bridal, Formals & Frills
Guest Speaker:: Eric Walter, PR "guy" at Z2
Cupcakes:: Simply Sweet Cupcakes
Popcorn, Cookies and Cake Pops:: Lady Yum
Stationary:: heathoriginal
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Seattle Wedding Photographer (dot com) is the wedding site for Arlene Chambers Photography weddings and engaged couples. You will be able to find their photos & stories on both sites however the wedding version is to showcase and highlight them in a new cohesive way. Of course we have a few tweaks to tweak and items to add but it's a great place to start especially heading into wedding season. It's amazing to me that we can work together on a project like this...I mean me drinking coffee, eating cheetos, telling him what I envision, and Bob watching tutorials and trying to interpret what I really mean. All in all I am thankful...thankful for his willingness to help and be a wonderful life & business partner. P.S. Happy Anniversary!
Then come unsuspecting moments...where I feel like a stalker pretending to photograph my kids when in reality I sneak a photo of this couple who probably color coordinated without evening realizing it. They look like the perfect match. As I strolled along the beach I studied this couple...he had his hand on her back guiding her as she leaned partially on her cane and the rest on him. When she stopped, he stopped. When she gazed out at the open ocean, his gaze turned to her...curious about what she saw. I wondered how long they had been together as they seemed in perfect sync...just like their hats!
Sometimes these moments really do happen organically and sometimes we make it happen. I call it 'natural posing'...Bobs Aunt & Uncle were the perfect example...asking them to look at each other...and what do they do...laugh and feel awkward...BUT in one split second they give each other that little twinkle, coy look and genuine smile. And BAM!!!! It was totally worth it!!
After going through some photos the other night I came across this one...it's my reason for being...when I feel like my purpose is in question or working hard seems futile (I mean it is tax time...ugh)...I look at this and see pure joy! MY JOY!!
This says so much to me about Heidi...she marches to her own beat!
And when all else fails...JUMP!
And in the end we just keep strollin' along...
Yesterday I met local bridal shop owners Zerlinda & Jen of Laineemeg Bridal. Additionally they just opened Formals & Frills. They have a beautiful boutique on 1st Street in Snohomish and know how to cater to their clients. They offer a variety of both wedding, bridesmaids and prom dresses as well as the ability to dress the men! Check them out, book an appointment and have the boutique experience.
I walk into the PRO Club Spa and I see a woman getting her makeup done...she may be an executive, a small business owner, a housewife, a mother, a survivor! No matter who the woman is, she is nervous...excited to have her hair and makeup done but the first thing out of her mouth is 'I'm not a model'. My thought...'Perfect'! I know right then my goal is to make her feel comfortable...to earn her trust which then allows her to let her guard down, have fun and maybe even 'ENJOY' our session (what a concept).
Meet Julie...a breastcancer survivor, with two small children under the age of 3, she took time to take care of herself after going through treatment and being everything to everyone else. Of course losing weight is a goal but if I see anything I see an internal health happening. A self confidence no matter what is happening in their life. Julie has a spark about her...an inspiration!
Meet Patty...a Merril Lynch Stock broker. She has never loved her photo being taken or the end result. Patty brought it...she laughed, smized and became comfortable in her own skin...amazing to watch the transformation in just an hour. Patty later called me and said she has never loved her photo...UNTIL now!! At 56, she finally has the best photo of herself EVER...I am blown away by her compliment!
Meet Renee...a manager at Microsoft, diagnosed with thyroid cancer 2 years ago...and then broke her foot. After undergoing radiation treatment and a 12 week foot recovery she found herself with little tone left. She enrolled in My Best 10 and gained 9 lbs of muscle and is feeling alive again. Renee has such a sweet nature, peaceful and humble!!
All of these stories to me are about earning trust with my client. No one feels comfortable in front of the camera and everyone needs direction and encouragement. I love finding that connection with my client and am amazed that I always end up walking away more inspired by their stories!
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As I stare out into the Ocean and feel the peace it can bring, I slowly start to feel my heart race with anticipation…anticipation of all the power that lies within it. Of course movies like “The Perfect Storm” and “Life of Pi” don’t help with my fear of being stuck in the middle of a body of water, with no land in sight, no food and on a dingy with sharks surrounding me…not to mention no facebook or iphone (ok slightly addicted to technology). I love the Ocean but I kind of love it most on the beach with the hot sun beating down on me and a bottle of suntan oil (yep I said oil)!
When I was visiting Saskatchewan last week it reminded me that I do love the sun. Shooting in below freezing temperatures challenged me to focus faster, compose more accurately and take a moment to get it right rather than speed shooting. Of course in all of that concentration I took a few photos that were out of focus…one a bit more than the others. As I was going through my photos I saw such beauty in that blurred image. I photo of what could have been but wasn’t…and still beauty in the background.
So why not write a quote that was very thought provoking from the movie ‘Life of Pi’ on it and share it.
In all of this whether it be peace, fear, sun, cold, in focus or out of focus…People and relationships are what matter…and I think this quote helps me reflect a bit more on that.
It always amazes me how day or night he keeps going. He never really says how many times he has been up or the lack of sleep he has had, rather that he saved a calf or helped a cow move into the barn so she would be safe to deliver.
Heidi always takes to 'Papa', interested in all he has going on and she was rather smitten with this calf, only one day old that my dad saved the night before.
Eva is a bit more interested in what Grandma has going on...cooking and baking and crafts galore.
The Dodge commercial that aired during Superbowl really hit home to me. That's pretty much how I grew up...so it inspired me to capture a few more pictures of the farm and appreciate all that I maybe didn't love as a teenager! I love that my girls get to experience the cultural difference at least once a year! This photo of my dad says so much to me...He's the stong, silent type...with a brightness behind his eyes...but then again somedays a picture of Jerry from Tom & Jerry comes to mind as my dad is little but mighty and can still run super fast!
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Fast forward only 24 hours and it's my turn. After spending the morning with a childhood friend...and when I say childhood, I think the last time Lesley and I talked it was 5th grade (Grade 5 for my Canadian readers). We had many memories in the snow so we decided to make more today with her and her lovely daughters! I dressed in my wanna be warm clothes and my trendy half gloves and say to the girls 'how cold can it be, I grew up in this stuff'...come to find out it was COLD...um half gloves just don't cut it and I think 10 minutes before taking a break to warm up was a stretch. I have to admit I love the white backdrop and the serene environment but I don't think I'm as tough as I was as a kid...we used to spend hours playing in the freeeeeeezing cold tundra!
Regardless of the weather re-connecting with Lesley was refreshing. We had coffee, did her makeup, caught up on the past 20 years and it reminded me of the little gifts life gives you. As I continue my journey in photography I am always amazed at these special moments. Lesley gave me a re-gift, and in this case it was OK cause it was the regifting of a friendship I didn't even know I missed! She is full of life, is a mother to 2 beautiful girls and a wife juggling many things...but she's learning to take time to be alone , time to think, and time to savor the moment!
It's been a refreshing couple of days, although I'm fighting a cold, visiting friends and family has been relaxing and rather peaceful! It's reminded me to take time to have God help me through the day. That we have a choice to walk alone or to walk with HIM. That we have a option to include Him in the decision making process of our daily lives or to go it alone. He has gifts for us every day and it's amazing the form they come in!!
As I walked around Santa Monica last weekend with my camera and favorite 70-200mm lens I realized how much I loved and appreciated Instagram. Without getting into their privacy and policy agreements and focusing on what I love…the ease of capturing and sharing! Not to mention being able to be a bit more discreet with my phone than my professional gear. Walking into happy hour with my camera is rather shocking to those around you even in a city full of paparazzi. Hence…carrying a big purse!! Yep just as important as shoes!
Saying all of that to say Thank you Instagram…for taking the pressure off us photographers who are always striving for the perfect exposure, sharpness & clarity! For allowing us not to care about the meaning of a photo and shoot complete randomnesss! Thank you for making it easy to share on the go, add crazy filters, and post like nobodys business on facebook & twitter!!
Of course if I didn't take my camera I'd miss out on these photos...a healthy balance I think...
And who can resist an image like this...it literally 'cracks' me up...
And then some that just mean something to me...
And a composite shot that would not be the same if done in Instagram...
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You meet someone online and instantly fall in “love”…all because of the boots they are wearing in their profile picture. That’s how it was when I met Sarah. I ‘met’ her through our mutual friend Mandy who told me all about her MAD talent as a Wedding & Event Coordinator. So of course I This past Sunday we met up for a quick coffee…2 hours…yep 2 hours flew by, and after much discussion of life, love and all that is our passion for work…I walked away with a real not just virtual friend. I was not only in love with her boots but her big brown eyes, killer laugh and an appreciation for our similar Type A personalities! I also left with much more insight and respect for what a Wedding Planner offers. The amount of time & energy she gives a bride & groom as well as peace of mind on the wedding day is priceless.
I don’t dare compete with David Letterman’s top ten so I’ll give you my top 7!
7. It’s in the details!!! And she knows details!
6. She is a photographer’s friend… advocate…and she has much influence on brides…so BE KIND!
5. She can sometimes get the couple discounts on vendors …SWEET!
4. She will decrease your stress!
3. She will guide your vision (or give you one), and bring it to fruition!
2. Did I mention she will decrease your stress!
1. She is kind of like an angel…taking care of all the little details. Making sure the ‘day of’ your wedding is running seamlessly!!
Sarah Swanson owns EVENTful Moments and is amazing at what she does! Her down to earth and cheerful demeanor combined with her ‘let’s do this’ attitude makes her a go getter that you want on your side!
The more I am in this industry the more I have been blessed to meet wonderful, sincere & genuine people like Sarah. Of course not everyone is like her but that is what makes her that much more special…she goes above & beyond and BRIDES you want her – believe me!
Speaking of details…I want to feature one of Snohomish’s newest venues for many different types of events. Trail Side Weddings & Events + EVENTful Moments would be a winning combo…now all you would need is a photographer…hmmmm I think I may know one!
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Of course getting engaged is a big deal…and getting married is uber important…I mean it’s the happiest day of a girls life…BUT no matter the status of a relationship it’s the little things when celebrated that makes us ooze with love and feel loved.
As women we think of ourselves last… after our ‘to do’ list is done and everyone else’s needs are met…which is when?? Ummmm NEVER! So when a woman is willing to celebrate who she is and is learning to LOVE who she has become, preserving this is an absolute privilege.
Of course traditional gifts are fun and cute but maybe some not so traditional gifts emulate romance and beauty in a new way. A way that is a gift not only to her significant other but to herself. To remember this time that she allowed herself to be vulnerable and FEEL BEAUTIFUL…to celebrate the little things that are “HER”!
To the women who have trusted me with their intimate details...Happy Valentine's Day!! I can't wait to do more of these sessions!
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So...although there aren’t a ton of January weddings or senior sessions for me it has been a time of entertaining friends, doing some special things with my girls, focusing on a few corporate clients and diving into a some new projects!
I have much to learn in this business and each season, each year I am learning to push myself, get uncomfortable YET take it as it is and savor it. I choose to make this choice...to revel, live and have a little fun…most of all to take time for these two little ones that are growing up far to fast!!!
So here they are...the reason I do what I do...my inspiration...my loves!
Eva turns 7 this weekend...she is a bit Diva-ish 7 going on 17 ...BUT gotta love her!
Little Miss Heidi...5 and ready for Kindergarten, this is her 'I'm not looking at the camera for you' look!
And although they are starting to buck the trend of wanting photos together...they kindly obliged! At least they weren't making fun of the crazy lady behind the camera!
*Thanks to my sweet mom for snappin' this photo in -40 degree weather for me!
I guess I run my life like this. Whether it’s personal or business… I choose to answer my phone, respond to emails (sooner rather than later) and initiate conversations. In this day and age where we are constantly connected to social media and most have smart phones, I feel response time is critical. People have a choice, some want to shop at Walmart but some prefer the ‘Lucky Dollar’. I am thankful for those whose choice was our little store as it cultivated a desire to serve and make an experience out of something as simple as grocery shopping. If I can transfer that to my business I feel my clients will be better served.
My friend recently went to this restaurant ‘Navilhos’ and the concept reminded me of all customer service should be. First it was all about good, quality meat (even if it was on a stick). Obviously I am a photographer not a butcher but good & quality apply to most everything. Second they gave you a choice. With a little round card it was either ‘Yes Please’ or ‘No Thank You’ referring to if you wanted more. Of course you could ask and they were happy to help you with any request however the simple politeness of the card either encouraged interaction or stopped it. Phone calls, emails and posts on facebook, twitter & instagram can do the same. You can choose to engage or not which can open the door for a customer service experience that they may not otherwise have received.
I may not have all the products Walmart offers however I respond to inquiries without you having to answer a survey, press 1 or hold (cause we “value” you as a customer). I strive to have your experience speak for itself!
]]>Fast forward a few more years,…college, jobs, re-locating and somehow we don’t talk much but we manage to keep in touch often enough to pick up right where we left off. She was in my wedding and has always been somewhere who is positive and uplifting.
Then comes facebook…a way to connect quickly, keep up on someones life with photos and little snipits of randomness. Not to mention instant chat. So just last week Charity messaged me and said ‘I wanna come visit’…UM YES PLEASE! She immediately looked up a flight booked it, messaged me the deets and now here she is. Here for a week, catching up on life, ready to show her a bit of Seattle. I can’t say I know everything about Seattle but what I love is checking it out together. Being a tour guide and a tourist at the same time.
As we drove home from the airport and gabbed our faces off I was reminded at how special some friendships are. Those people who just FIT in your life no matter what. No expectations, no judgement, no preconceived notion of what should BE in our friendship.
Charity you are one of those friends and I am so excited to see Seattle through your eyes!
Photo by: Leigha Graf
]]>Contentment…I think we all long for it…today I’m striving for it.
This photo reminds me that life is ever changing, new things are to come and sometimes life can be beautiful in black and white with a bit of gray!
Fast forward 3+ years and yes I can open Photoshop and yes I can use most of the tools however I am the first one to admit my shortcomings when it comes to my skilz or skills!? There seem to be a lot of photographers out there that are also designers…TALENT galore!! I often find myself getting sucked in to all they have to offer…so I grab a bag of my amazing Canadian Ketchup Chips and watch the Bachelor to drown my sorrows. Then the next morning after running off all those empty calories I sit back down at the computer and figure out that although design materials and all the print options and important it doesn’t have to be my forte! I specialize in life…people! Photographing people and freezing those life moments!
I have a friend, Jess Caskey, of Caskey Design, who has grown so near and dear to me. She loves coffee, shoes (lots of them), has an uber trendy fashion sense, and most of all challenges me to be a better me and a better mom! AND she is a graphic designer more importantly MY graphic designer (yes I am a bit possessive). AMAZING doesn’t even scratch the surface of her abilities! She has saved me…not from photoshop or from wanting to learn more but from feeling pressure…the pressure to do something that is not me. I love photography, she loves design…a perfect MATCH …YES!!
I am so grateful for all of the business pieces she has designed for me. Creating is her gift & passion. I am thankful for all the business she has referred to me and I appreciate how she is dedicated to sticking with her forte…doing what she loves. DESIGN! Of course people can do it all and if you are mad talented that way – GO FOR IT! I however admit, album design is one thing BUT when it comes to creative fonts, textures and major amounts of layers and smart objects…you had me at ‘HELLO’.
Whether it’s a card for any occasion or some big random project Jess is prompt, relevant and willing to try something new! She has designed for Tullys, Bellevue Collection, and Vogue and although it may seem extravegant to hire a ‘designer’, it’s all about YOU…getting a product that YOU love and is specific to YOU, NOT a generic template.
It’s great to find comradery in a busy world of working behind a computer!
He was my high school P.E. teacher, and I think every girl in my class had a secret crush on him…OK so there were only 8 of us but still when Mr. Scott walked in we all stared…and then quickly turned away and giggled when he noticed.
Yes that was my high school…a graduating class of a whoppin’ 17 total…so when it came to school or town sports we had to get creative for players. That meant co-ed hockey teams, mixed ages for basketball, and we traveled from one rural town to another for track, volleyball & softball.
I’m not saying I am the most athletic person, I mean no scholarships or bursaries were awarded to me in high school (although did I really have a chance in small town Saskatchewan)?? But I enjoy sports and find myself to be a weeeee bit competative. And I’m certainly no fitness guru however I do value exercise. Whether it’s running, cycle class, P90X, Crossfit, weightlifting, or a turbo-kick dance class, there is something so beneficial physically , mentally & spiritually to exercise. It makes you want to eat better, it magically puts things in perspective and no matter how much it hurts it always makes you feel better.
Keeping up with a regular exercise routine, no matter how varied it may be, is super important for me and my photography business. I think on average I do at least 100 squats while photographing a wedding not to mention carrying my camera(s) and gear around all day…oh and usually doing it in high heels (great for the calves). On a family session I am usually running with the kids, laying on the ground, or acting like a crazy person to ‘TRY’ and say ‘TRY’ to keep people laughing.
And yes, here I look more like the referee than the player...
In my personal life, staying fit of course helps me keep up with my girls. I mean power shopping and Wii Dance are super important too! As a new year begins and many resolutions are being made, mine probably fall in the same category as most. Enjoy life, keep fitness a priority, and find balance where it often feels chaotic.
Photo credit:: Lonnie Webb
It didn’t matter. The Seahawks were playing the San Francisco 49ers and the fans were amped! It’s been forever since I have been to a professional football game so when Bob said he had front row end zone tickets with a bunch of crazy, screaming fans…I was in! I thought I had enough blue eye shadow on to fit in…I mean I think Mimi of the Drew Carey show would’ve felt threatened but comparatively I was pretty toned down to the regular fans!
I debated whether I should take my camera…sometimes there is just a time and place to use your iPhone but after a bit of deliberation I took it. The next question was which lens. I feel fortunate that I have options but sometimes it’s hard to be discreet and not be ‘HERE I AM with my camera…outta my way’!!
Again after vacillating (thanks to my dictionary for the spelling aka google) we decided to take our Sigma 50-500mm f/4.5-6.3…it’s big, it’s obnoxious and thankfully Bob is the one who carries it most of the time. However for this game it was amazing. To be able to get in as close as some of the news photographers below us was awesome, just a little better than my iPhone could do!
I am in no way an equipment expert that is for sure. Bob is my techy and researcher of all things, however what I do know is this lens has come in quite handy! For outdoor weddings it’s a dream. It allows Bob, my second shooter, to be farther away and still capture those intimate moments with the option of a wide shot as well. Yes the f-stop is higher and no it’s not ideal for indoors, but when zoomed in it still compresses the background how I like it and with the Canon 5D Mark III’s high ISO capabilities it’s kind of a nice addition to our arsonal.
Thanks to Bob for the images below...
I can't wait for 2013! More football, crazy fans, and definitely weddings! Oh and by the way in case you missed it....the Seahawks WON!!!
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Personally:: In June I climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro, although not reaching the summit, 16000 feet was a nice feat! Taking on this adventure with my wonderful, loving, patient, kind and amazing husband, along with a diverse group of people was a once in a lifetime experience that I wouldn’t change for the world. Don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t do it again but I wouldn’t change it for anything!!
Click on the photo to see more of our adventure...or read my previous blog...
Ohhhh the day to day of parenting…of course I love my kids and all that comes with raising them (I think)…dealing with hard issues, rejoicing in mini-successes…again I am sure a lot of days could use a ‘do-over’ but I figure when it comes to parenting, pressing on and moving forward is all I can do! Oh I could just squeeze those cheeks...LOVE LOVE LOVE these two!!!!!!!!
Professionally:: Meeting amazing people, clients, their children and many ‘extras’ at events I attended! One in particular would be a nothing short of spectacular lady from the PRO Club in Bellevue. She coordinates the My Best 10 program and facilitates the progress of some inspiring ladies. I have the pleasure of photographing the after photos when they complete the program.
I arrive at the spa and as I walk up the stairs Janet is always there to greet me with a huge smile and a hug. We can look at each other with laughter and tear filled eyes and know that there is solice in our friendship. We don’t get a lot of time to chat but somehow the minutes in between hair, makeup, and outfit changes we have a connection that I am soooo grateful for. She gets me and I her…and there is an appreciation for each other that goes deep. Sounds like a love affair…well sure… in a season of love, joy and peace…she emulates all of it!! I don't have a photo of her (I WILL be getting that in 2013)...But I do of just a few of the many ladies I have met!
Most of all spiritually…I am often in disbelief that God loves ME. The imperfections, the selfishness and the rawness of all humanity is. HE still loves me and I am sooo grateful for the grace He extends. I can’t believe He has blessed me with this life and profession.
In awwww….
Merry Christmas!
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I love that I have a husband who is my second shooter...shining star...and let's us ladies let loose and have a little fun once in a while!
People are frantic...decorating, shopping, baking...never having enough time to sit and relax...and we often feel...well like this...
So today, mid-week, mid-season...I am choosing a nap...ha hardly (that's on the top of my Christmas wish list)...but definitely aiming for peace, serenity, calmness.
And when that fails...a double short, non-fat, pumpkin spice latte...extra hot with a straw! It's just enough to give me that extra 'POP'!
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The good thing is I think we all kind of feel that way in some form or another…so once my clients arrive at the session I find it’s good to run, try to laugh, relieve some stresss then take a moment for the parents to have their own mini session.
As parents we worry so much about the kids that we often neglect what started this whole thing called family…the 2 of us. I find it super important to try to make time and have the parents get AWKWARD… up close and personal…in each others space again!!! Remember…how we used to be when we DATED!!! And I love how I get different reactions everytime. I also love the story when the client views their photos. They remember what their husband was whispering, or how he tried to lick their ear…or that they look so happy although they were fighting the whole drive there. Either way it’s a memory and it’s one they will now have forever!
This year…we are low key. Having been like many, in a busy season, and what sometimes feels like chaos spinning all around. Dealing with things you love, things you hate, things you love to hate…I am reminded to slow down and breathe! I know I have let people down and have had to make some hard decisions and so…we have decided to spend Thanksgiving at home…just the 4 us. We have great friends and loving family…some away travelling and some that just live too far away to see often enough. Either way I hope they know we are thankful for ALL of them! Happy Thanksgiving!!
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Taking one last gaze around his living room, Bill backed up slowly approaching the door to say goodbye to his Brooklyn home. The one he and his wife raised their four kids in and countless other children dropped in and out. As the soft music serenaded the scene, it added a mood…a deep sentiment. You could see in his face, memories, flooding over him.
Yep that was the last episode of the Cosby show, I will never forget it as it was the first time I realized how much life is soooo much better to music. It evokes a kind of emotion and words to a situation that otherwise may seem lifeless. Why do you think lip syncing and air bands are so awesome!?
I think today is the day to break out the holiday music. Forget the ‘rule’ that you have to wait till after Thanksgiving. My friend, Pam, is visiting from Edmonton, Alberta and bought me R&B Christmas...so time to load the CD into iTunes and crank a tune that could evoke some emotion! Of course it goes perfect with any holiday coffee from Starbucks!
Although Thanksgiving in Canada is in October I now shift traditions to November as I live in the USA. The big family dinners have shrunk to more of our immediate family but sharing it with friends and now celebrating my youngest daughters birthday at the same time are new routines we love!
It reminds me that it’s time to give back. With things being a little crazy busy I won’t lie, I find it difficult to volunteer on a weekly basis. But I have to say one thing I love is being able to give back in a different sort of way. We attended Mill Creek 4 Square Church for a number of years and I am so happy to say we maintain a great relationship with all our friends and pastoral staff there. So of course I was honored to be asked to do their staff photos. It’s a way to reconnect, laugh a little and bless them with something other than another expense. I feel it’s small but when I know that I God has given me this gift and these are some of the first people who ever supported me…I am humbled and oh soooo willing to be able to do this.
Donating, giving back, and being thankful doesn’t have to look ‘normal’. I love that there are many little things that mean so much to people. I think in the end it’s just about doing ‘something’…whatever that ‘something’ may be. I am in no way a philanthropist but I do love using big words…and I am THANKFUL!
Whether it's at the ceremony or a first look the expressions are priceless. HOWEVER I will say I LOVE LOVE (did I say LOVE?) when a client decides they want to see each other before the ceremony aka a 'First Look'. That intimate moment where the groom spins the bride around, looks her up and down and is absolutely speechless at how beautiful she is. The bride in return...beaming, feeling like she's the only girl in the world, takes it all in and time stops for a brief second.
At Morgan and Scotts wedding just a couple of weeks ago this is exactly what happened. Scott was smitten with Morgan and all her gorgeous-ness and Morgan was so enamered I think she was the one ready to scream 'WOW'!
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Along with reading comes studying and again the best text book for me is...you got it...a magazine. Poses, style, angles, lighting...so much to be examined when browsing the pages of Vogue. After traveling back from Africa we stopped over in Amsterdam and I found the thickest Elle magazine ever...now that's a textbook! Even though it was in Italian it's one of those items that was speakin' my language.
Once in a while it's fun to pop in front of the camera. My husband second shoots weddings with me so it's also great practice for him to work with a difficult model...uh hem...not saying who that is! :)
My good, Canadian, sister-like friend, Chantelle and I decided to play dress up in a couple of wedding gowns. I mean a girl, a wedding dress, some makeup, a few curls and the outdoors...let's roll! Oh and did I mention a gun or two...a little drama never hurt. Sometimes impromptu is the best way to go, less analyzing, a bit of chaos and then see what happens!!
I may have had some modeling experience but it still doesn't mean I am super comfortable in front of the camera. It reminds me that my clients aren't models and certainly aren't always comfortable. As beautiful and confident as they maybe they ALL want direction. I always get asked 'Do I smile or not smile, do I look at you or not at you?' Talking them through poses, giving them something to do and somewhere to look is key. A lame joke here or there OR finding that one thing you know makes them really laugh helps to create the 'real' moment that we all are looking for.
A shoot like this reminds me of all of that..angles, facial expression, extracting that natural smile...and most of all being comfortable! To see the full shoot click on any photo below.
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Living in Seattle that doesn’t seem to be the case. Since moving here almost 15 years ago…life is ever changing. As difficult as that may be…somedays it forces me to make decisions. Decisions from what school will my kids attend (cause where I grew up there was 1 school)… to what goals do I want to accomplish. (Yikes do I have goals!?) Who is the person I am suppose to be? There are times I know who I am and then times I am surprised by a shift that can occur in my brain where life almost feels like a dream! Where being nervous is a reality and where failure is right around the corner.
As hard as living with your own thoughts can be, it challenges me. It challenges me to be thankful for all I DO have, not what I DON’T have. That being in control of me is all I can control and if someone else doesn’t want to accept friendship, love, an apology…then I choose to still be thankful and move forward.
Like with every photo session, every wedding, every person I meet, I learn something…how do you keep striving to be the best…to be the best YOU. I want to push life to its boundaries…not sure what that totally means but I am gonna do it.
As a bag of good ol’ Canadian Ketchup chips sits empty between us, my good friend Chantelle (who has been living with us for a bit) seem to laugh out loud…OFTEN! Geeking out on facebook...messaging each other while sitting in the same room. Creeping on to each others Spotify to copy playlists. Going to a wacky workout class together where you dance, sweat, AND seriously almost die…and no its NOT Zumba. It’s reminded me that no matter how different our life paths are, laughter is important…so Bob beware, life is about to change…more love, more laughter…no matter the challenges that lie ahead!
Kinda glad I can't buy these here or I'd have to add even more workouts to my life...
Soul II Soul sang it best in 1989 “Back to Life, Back to Reality”! On to making new memories but certainly remembering and sometimes basking in the old!
I finally made it out to 'The Arch' in Cabo...twice... once on boat, once on jet-ski...as Tony the Tiger says...it was G-R-E-AAA-T!!!
It's always fun to have a new perspective (even if its just of your hotel) :)
Don't judge me on my iphone photo quality (although being a professional iphone photographer is certainly on the horizon along with self portraits).
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(I secretly have always dreamt of being a unicycler...key word, 'dreamt'...if you want to own it you can find it on etsy)!
So what am I doing? As fall approaches and my schedule is packed with fun family sessions, a few more weddings, birthdays and holidays…I am taking a little breather. I need to sit back, read, expand my vocabulary. Thanks to facebook a new word came into my life 'auspicious' meaning conducive to future success. I am ready to feel the Mexican sun on my skin & the wind in my hair (and not from pedaling a bike, more like from our resort waiter fanning me…ha I can dream). I want to enjoy the calm before the storm…the storm I have come to love!
As I caught up on Modern Family last night, wise Manny (all of 13 years) spoke my philosophy of 'the journey and the destination'...
“They say the important thing in life isn’t the destination ….it’s the journey, the challenges you face along the way, the unexpected twists and turns, the disappointments you overcome. But they are wrong, who ever “they” are. It’s all about the destination especially when the destination is an oceanfront hotel.”
As much of what he says is true I agree with his perspective …Mexico here I come… ready for less pedals and more auspicious R&R!!
When I returned home I finished up another set of families photos of uber importance!! Johnny & his 5 boys lost one of the main women in their lives 2 years ago. Judy was an astounding woman…a beautiful wife & mother…loving, forgiving, humble, gentle and kind. I’ll never forget at her funeral they played a song she would always sing to her boys “I love you, a bushel and a peck” and as I choked back the tears it made me smile cause that’s the song my mom taught me and I now sing to my girls!
Johnny has since sold this property and they aren’t sure how much longer this barn will be there. So many memories live here so doing one last photoshoot there with all of the spouses and little ones seemed only appropriate. Judy would be so proud, I know she is looking down from Heaven and smiling.
These are the kinds of stories that make up LIFE! It makes me stop and breathe just at the right time I need to. And it makes me pick up the phone and call my mom just to hear her sing ‘I love you, a bushel and a peck’!
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As I watched my girls in their first dance class yesterday I was reminded that we are all different. Obvious? Yes…but do we accept that…No. We still compare, compete and want what we don’t have. My girls…opposite in everyway… Heidi doing summersaults all over the place, Eva...struggling, crying, BUT never giving up. No matter what Eva has joy…a joy for life that I certainly can learn from.
As I emailed my friend today and exchanged a few stories of our girls, she told me her daughter didn’t make the volleyball team. To an almost-teenager that is devastating…those in-between years, being part of a team (especially a team of girls) is like the perfect accessory to an outfit…it’s a must!
What my friend reminded me is…our love for them is not based on accomplishments but on who they are. It’s also is indicative of Gods love for us…not based on what we do but just there for us to bask in.
So I say dance dance dance, do summersaults even when you can’t, and bounce cause YOLO!! If you don’t know what YOLO is…GOOGLE it…I DID!
I have to admit not every photo session goes as I plan it in my head. Kids are not dolls and have their own personalities...WHAAATTT!!??. I am not always as directive as I should be but is it weird to think a little chaos is fun :/ I often leave a session thinking of everything I could have done different...I am SLOOOWWWLLY learning from my mistakes but also walking away knowing I did the best I could and in the end we caught them being 'THEM'...their expressions, their 'perfect picture'...not mine. When I see photos online I appreciate 'perfect photos' but even more I appreciate the not-so-perfect ones...cause those just might be perfect for that family!
Ultimately it's about my clients experience. I want them to have fun, the kids to laugh, not to sit and think they have to paste a cheesy smile on their face the whole time.
Sometimes a crying photo just takes the cake!
And despite Miss Sienna's facial expression, we do have a special bond...she just doesn't know it yet! :)
Happy Friday!!
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I always knew I would have children but I never thought they would grow up…I mean have a mind of their own, have an opinion!!
Eva, my 1st grader, certainly has her own ideas. She paces while talking on the phone, acting like the diva- wanna be 16 year old she’s learned to be from her father ...kidding BOB!! Dancing and singing to Carly Rae Jepsen , Eva has a confidence about her that I admire. She loves hard and hurts easily. She is full of words of wisdom beyond her years and often makes me tear up as she encourages me. Who is the parent in this relationship! Ahem…me right!?
As she wonders what her room will be decorated like, and who all the new kids will be in her class it was like Christmas Eve last night. She glowed with pure joy as she said Goodnight, but not without laying out her clothes for morning to be sure she had the perfect outfit. I taught her right!
I am sooo proud of this girl AND of course I had to be ‘that’ mom that posts a photo and writes about her kids…but hey if I don’t who will!??
Stay tuned for next years first day of school blog when I say ‘AHHHH I have a 2nd grader and a Kindergartner’!
1. It's great exercise!
2. It's fun.
3. Did I mention it's fun.
4. People always smile when they dance. (Photo below...point and case)
5. People like to 'move it move it'.
6. Doesn't matter your age, anyone can dance.
7. I love peoples expressions when they dance.
8. Someone always seems to do the worm! (Thanks for the laugh Brent)
9. We all think we should be in a music video.
10. I've got moves like Jagger...as my husband calls it the 'Canadian quick step' (you just can't see me dancing behind the camera)!
This is how much I knew about carpool....nothing!!!
I tried to stay informed, volunteer aka brown-nose but somehow I was seemingly always dropping the ball. This year, like a good basketball player I vow to dribble better and maybe even have a slam dunk or two. Hey it’s worth a try!!
Summer has been here and is quickly fading away. At the beginning of summer I didn’t know how I was going to juggle it all. Friends and family visiting, kids out of school, work…but my strategy (if that’s what you call it) was week by week. I know maybe it should be ‘one day at a time’ (sweet Jesus)…but I find if I look at my weekly calendar I can make anything work. I don’t pretend to have my life all in balance but I am learning to decide between the ‘good things’ and the ‘best things’ for me. Asking God for direction in my day to day, learning to “be still” before rushing into the busy-ness of the day.
September is almost here and after enjoying the views of Moses lake, much pool time, relaxing in jammies most of the morning and the local farmers market – it’s time to return home and enjoy the onset of fall. Back to long, cozy sweaters, a mix of tall and ankle boots, Christmas decorations at Costco (in August) and more nights of Pinterest.
Goodbye summer sunsets...
But hello beautiful sky...although taken through a car window...if this is what I am coming home to I can handle it!!
As I watched Heidi jump in the pool for the 100th time and yell 'Cannonball' I noticed each time the splash was different. Although she is small, the impact could still vary, making the splash more or less. No matter the outcome, she still ran, jumped, yelled all the same and enjoyed every minute of it.
I too choose to do that. I may have a plan, and a hopeful outcome of things I do in life or business...but ultimately I have to trust...trust that what will be will be and in the meantime enjoy the path God has put me on and every once in a while yell 'Cannonball'!!!!
I met with Michael of Makeshift Studios and BAM!!! he made it happen. He brought 3 of his talented guys and together they followed, videoed, and spliced this all together! They put up with my lame jokes, quirky laughs and pulled out of me what I really wanted to say!! I think they sometimes wondered what they had gotten themselves into when my laughter turned to tears. I realized I was more sentimental over photography and life than I thought. I think they may be videographers/counselors.
To everyone who was part of the video, how do I begin to thank you!? Willing, patient, and all with a great sense of humor. I would not have a business without you and certainly would not have this video. It's people like you that make me love what I do!! THANK YOU!!
In a world of insecurity and vulnerability, photography has shown me how beauty really does shine from the inside out. So it was my turn to practice what I preach. I got in front of the camera, surrounded by friends and clients (who are now friends) and they let me be me and together we photographed (videoed) life.
Thank you to my husband who gets to hear all about everything ALL the time...poor "lucky" guy!!!
I am so blessed that I GET to do this…I photograph LIFE!
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Business kind of works that way too. Having worked for a small company that was later acquired by a large corporation, I can now appreciate the pros & cons of sole-proprietorship & the small business world. I guess I would say Photography is my ‘signature event’ but not everything that goes along with it. Of course there are administrative tasks that I can do…I may not always love them but I choose to do them. I realize there may come a day that I choose to not, but I feel I will appreciate those that I hire to do them…as everyone has their own ‘signature event’.
As Bob and I were shooting a wedding last weekend and I realized that wedding photography is probably more like Beach Volleyball and yes I am Misty May (um not quite). I guess I’m on an Olympic analogy roll. My point being where I can’t be…he is. Setting me up for the spike, never asking for credit and barely getting a Thank you (probably makes you want to work with me!!). Without him I wouldn’t have the constant nagging encouragement and have him as my sidekick…and without him as my 2nd shooter I never would have got this shot of the bride with her new niece as I photographed the groom with his mom!
On another note, I really wish skipping across lily pads was a sport...I am sure I would win!
Buying Birthday, Valentine, Christmas cards etc. etc. a week or so in advance, filling them out promptly with plenty of time for the mail to cross the border into Canada and arrive at my friend or families mailbox!! Now you would think with facebook reminders and all the calendars we have at our fingertips it would be easier than ever to remember. Um...nope...for your calendar to remind you, you have to enter the date into it first...oops! And I am not blaming my lack of remembering on not caring. I care...I care a lot!! And I KNOW it has nothing to do with me entering the latter part of my 30's, it's merely all the cells that were stolen from me during pregnancy.
(Thanks to Caskey Design for the cutest card designs ever!)
All of this to say, I may be a day (or two) late, but I am not a dollar short...and I am proud to say my parents celebrated their 41st Wedding Anniversary. I kinda like the off years. Yes 40 deserves a big to do...but so does 41 and every other year in between. 41 years...41 years!!!! It's hard to fathom but I am grateful and love that they are not only still in love but more importantly committed!! Committed to making it last! What a huge example and legacy...Thank you MOM & DAD!!! Love you!
A quick stop by the Bible college down the street from the University would change everything. As I briefly said hello to my brother I proceeded to take a mini tour of the girls dorm. A girl down the hall bounced out of her room and said " I have a free bed and need a roommate!!"...I gave her a half smile and thought to myself " I am soooooo not living here".
I checked out a couple of rooms and met these 2 blonde cousins. Funny, energetic and yep blonde in every sense of the word. I kinda liked it!!
Dawneil, 5'11" with crazy spiral curly hair told me about this program she enrolled in...'Worldshakers'. Being the worldshaker I am, I was intrigued...tell me more...traveling, somewhere hot...missions...I can deal with that! Hmmm I'm in...but I'm soooo not living here!
The more I talked with the duo I was ALMOST convinced, but seriously move out??... unenroll from university really!!??
Knowing full well all I had to do is say the words and my parents would be ecstatic to have me go to Bible college...that's all they ever wanted but with my rebellious nature it was all I could do to run the other way. Surprising myself I said "yep I'm in...sign me up".
My good friend Charity was very gracious and understanding, and as we worked out the rent and roommate situation I moved into dorm life!!
I attended my first " Worldshakers" meeting, wearing a sleeveless vest and shorts. As the door squeaked open and I bashfully entered the room, the team seemed to collectively hold their breath. No not because of my beauty (ha ha)...I was not following dress code. No sleeves and shorts...didn't I know this was Bible college!! I soon learned the rules and pushed where I could and obliged when I needed!!
The 2 blondes and I became fast friends. I mean when you travel with one (Dawneil) and the other (Leah) starts making out dating your brother...it makes for a bond that after 17 years is still unshakeable!!
We've had some crazy times...many nights of laughter, many phone calls with tears. I met my husband while in vacation with Dawneil and Leah had a baby the day of Dawneils wedding! We will forever be intertwined and the best of friends.
I have the pleasure of spending the next week with Dawneil and her family...poolside...sharing sunshine and much conversation!!!
... here's to life and the road we never expect it to take us!!
Either way baby Kingston is here and they are loving him!!! They are a beautiful family and it's just another lesson in life to take it all in stride! "Roll with it!" I love this family (although Sienna still isn't sure of me...can you tell!?) At least both Jenner & Kingston can't run from me yet so 2 outta 3 ain't bad!!
As much as Bryan isn't fighting for camera time... he was gracious enough to "let" a bird poop on him and I was able to catch this laugh of Andreas!!!
Thanks for sacrificing your shirt Bryan...it was worth it - she is absolutely gorge gorge gorgeous!!!!
No pressure but it might be time for that wedding!!! Hint hint!! Congratulations!!
Click here to see their full family session (with a little pirate booty thrown in)!
I promise I think about you...does that count?
I remember life before email but I am still in my 20's (at least in my head)!
Some friends you just can't live without!!
My husband has taught me how to relax!
I must be hungry A LOT!!
I'm only a "little" competative!!
I like to pin and I like to eat...I just pretend calories don't count!
Africa was fun but sorry REI I am trading in the backpack and zip off pants for some new Nordstrom wedges or boots...or maybe both!
Today I AM working...on catching up on the Bachelorette!!
All you see is miles of hills, rocks, a so called trail, porters with their white packs on their heads getting smaller and smaller in the distance as they pass by us trekking a fast pace through the wilderness of Africa. Dirt, swirling all around us, just when you think you couldn’t be dirtier the wind would pick up and sprinkle another dusting over us!
Did I mention there was dirt?
We followed this ‘trail’ that seemed to lead nowhere. We were supposed to be getting closer to this mountain but were we? As six hours of walking felt like it was ten and 5 miles was truthfully 12… I couldn’t take another step, not one more BUT magically over the hill was our camp. How, in the middle of all the terrain and rocks could there appear a somewhat flat place for an army of tents…regardless of how - there it was!!!
When I think back to Africa and the first 5 days of our ‘hike’…peace comes to mind. Not a lot happened. We had minimal sickness, I think a minor headache was the worst our team experienced. I hate to admit it but we ate like Kings…the food the chefs prepared over a little gas burner was nothing short of incredible. I thought I would be listening to my ipod non-stop to keep my brain from going crazy but no…we walked, sometimes not talking, not listening to anything and it was BEAUTIFUL. Maybe it’s Africa or maybe it’s what we as humans need to do once in a while. Stop and listen…listen to nothing. Appreciate that we can feel the wind blowing and the sun on our face. That we can be alone with our thoughts and be sane!
I have returned to life as we know it in Washington, but not without remembering those days of peace and solitude. To remember what everyone says in Africa ‘No worries, no problem’…about everything. It’s ok to take a break, it’s ok to do nothing for a moment or maybe even a whole day – what a concept! And as my husband would say ‘RELAX’!!
Now back to enjoying some coffee...
I find at weddings capturing the emotion happens through a mix of photos. I love the up close and personal ones but sometimes I am overwhelmed by the feeling I get when I see them at a distance, in their own world, possibly savoring one tiny moment for themselves on a day that flies by way too fast!
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I guess this is one way to wake up with more time on my hands and more hours in the day.
As I tossed and turned trying to shut off my brain I felt an extra pair of limbs…little limbs…my daughter had once again snuggled in between us. Normally the feeling of frustration would emerge as we each fight for our own space, but this time, her innocent snore won! Rather than being upset I stared in awe…overwhelmed that I was given two happy girls to raise! How did I get so blessed?
All I can think is ‘whatever happens tomorrow doesn’t matter cause we have had today!'. Watching their little bodies move as they hypnotically inhale & exhale. There is peace in watching them sleep (no matter the snore or flailing arms) somehow it magically washes away any stress from the day.
The flight home from Africa was great…I don’t think I have watched so many movies in the past year let alone one sitting…and I think I cried at each one. Call it emotional I call it inspiration.
I always seem to have a new favorite quote from any movie I watch. ‘I don’t know how she does it’ was no different…”The best thing about being a mom is I am a movie star to my kids in a world where there are no critics.”
When we arrived home that was so very true. Pulling into the driveway and seeing our little people peering out the front room window, so excited I thought they were going to jump through it! Thankfully the doors swung open and both kids ran into our arms. Hugging so tight and not letting go. For those few minutes we were the only people in the world.
I know I do a lot of things wrong but life has a way of teaching you to shift the balance, to maybe not make things right but to actually DO some things right. As I return to a full summer schedule I now know it’s OK to say you have an appointment AND its ok that it’s with your family. MY kids will one day be grown and I don’t want to blink and miss it!
I want them to remember so many things from their childhood!! Will they remember all that we missed or can the memory be that we tried to do it all…all for them! That although things weren’t perfect that we DID have times of laughter…it may only be a few minutes at a time BUT we did LAUGH!!! AND we went places without them but it was so we could be better parents and they could have their own experiences!!
Boundaries are hard but necessary, of course this in part has to do with parenting but I think the hardest boundaries to set and stick with are with my own. Something Africa has challenged me to work on!
Thank you to the grandparents in our life that made our trip possible. Without them we wouldn’t have experienced all we did and my girls wouldn’t have had the experiences with them that they will forever remember!
Even thought as parents we do things wrong I believe we have more hits than misses.
Sometimes things HAVE to change…what better time than now. I choose to stop and enjoy the hits and being the MRS. to my man!
I thought since I shared my story, it was time to share the teams story, each in their own words about thier summit day!!
Dan
"After a goodnights sleep, 3 hours, I was ready to go. I didn't feel much like eating but was ready to start out. I wasn't cold so I started in my sweatshirt and light layers. We headed to the same altitude that we hiked to the day before, 16,030 feet, but this time I was having waves of nausea. All I could do was stop and the nausea would stop, then take a step till I felt I would almost throw up but stop again. Although the guides advised us 'if you feel like throwing up...throw up' (simple advice) but I didn't want to throw up all the pasta from the night before!! I thought to myself...if I feel like this all the way I am gonna quit!! SO I started praying...praying for my kids, and grandkids and all the trials they have gone through and for strength for all the trials they will endure. Amazingly...my mind was off the nausea and I was in the zone and making it up the switchbacks. I started getting cold so I added a few more layers and started power breathing. It was harder than I ever imagined. Every step I would power breathe...every hour I would think I was almost there and realized I wasn't even close. I looked up once and saw a ton of stars only to realize they were headlamps all the way up the mountain and I wasn't even close to the top. My decision...to NEVER look up...keep looking at my feet...one step in front of the other. I put my head down and made it to Gilmans point and saw Uhuru peak. I thought 'yesss...so close' BUT noooooo it wasn't. Over 2 hours left to hike, tired...tired of waiting...tired of everything. I put my mind in gear and powered through. I was GOING to do this. I ended up passing by 50 people and made it to the sign. I put my backpack down and waited for Audrey and the rest of the team. I felt elated...sooo very REWARDING. Now to go down...the same way we came up!! I passed by Dom who was throwing up but I didn't have time to stop. Call it the compassion in me. The greatest relief was to see Uncle Dan at Gilmans point heading to Uhuru...all Uncle Dan said was 'I just can't get enough Oxygen'. I loved going down...skiing down the loose gravel and shale. I think I flew down 2000 meters in 15 minutes- AMAZING! I felt for us as a couple it was so rewarding. Getting to be with Audrey at the top and both of us feeling so good was incredibly meaningful. We were happy to make it to Kibo Hut and venture the next 9 miles to camp for the night. Although super tired we made it to camp and were more than HAPPY the summit day was behind us!! We did it!"
Audrey
"I slept good the night before, even had a nap in the afternoon..which was awesome cause we had had a few nights of not sleeping well.
I was anxious to put the summit behind me so I could move forward and truly enjoy the rest of our African experience. I remember Dan saying as we started the hike, that he was gonna throw up. I kept thinking 'What if he does get sick will I go on?' My focus was praying for him...to ask God to help him and to feel better. From that point on, when I thought I couldn't go on...I would thank God for my heart, lungs and head...the entire trek to the top, I would continually pray that. I realized God was in charge of every breath of my life...All I could do was recite in my head Psalm 139:14 "I will praise you because we are fearfully and wonderfully made."
An amazing moment was when we all came together before the steepest ascend...all of the headlamps up above that seemed never ending and seeing the people in our group that were starting to feel the effects of the altitude, especially Dominique. I didn't have a headache or any other issues - I could see where having anxiety could affect your breathing but I continually prayed and focused on each breath - and putting one foot in front of the other. Trying not to be overwhelmed by the endless trek. But there was no turning around, we had to keep going. 'Are those headlights or the stars? Don't look up!!' Finally I reached the TOP but not Uhuru Peak...my breathing was still tough. Although the guides kept encouraging us that it would get easier it was kind of a false sense of hope. The Uhuru sign seemed miles away and we were only inching towards it.
Slowly but surely we trudged along, and although tough the scenery was phenomenal...
At this point Dom was pretty sick but it actually helped distract me from how I was feeling...I was trying to keep my focus and mental balance so I just passed him. :) As we got closer to the sign Dan pushed me...telling me to put my head down and keep going. He took off ahead of me and I kept praying. It took me over half an hour from that point "Pole Pole" (slowly slowly in Swahili). We only had 15 min at the top so I was kind of worried Dan would have to leave before I arrived but Dan made it to the sign and videoed us as we made it there. I will never forget getting our pictures at the sign....SOOO emotional, we all cried "Can you believe we made it?" As if saying it out loud would make it more real! I was so proud...Dan & I did it together!! All of our training and hard work paid off. As we stood there I got a slight headache and figured we needed to head down. The guides were saying we would feel better as we headed down...but it wasn't getting better. As we started skiing down on the gravel I started to increasingly feel better. I had this experience where Dom yelled at me...warning me that a boulder was coming right for me...I moved to my right and this huge rock went bounding past me...'whew'!! But now its heading to Pat & Dan but they couldn't hear us yelling...thankfully it stopped before it got to them. You realize you are at the mercy of the mountain...a new level of vulnerability. When we got to the next stop it hit me that this day is not over yet. Although still emotional and hardly believing 'WE MADE IT', we headed to our camp for the night. Dan and I walked and walked the next 9 miles making it to camp, thankful the day was behind us. We slept so well that night and I was continually thanking God for the whole experience but ready for what Africa had waiting for us!!!"
Pat
"I felt a bit of nausea and dizziness as I headed to the top. At one point I went to sit down but missed the rock...I didn't think anyone saw me till Dan gave me a hardtime about it. I guess it didn't go unnoticed! I blame it on the lack of oxygen! It certainly, most definitely was the hardest thing I have ever done. Would I do it again? Probably not!"
FYI - Pat is a man of few words but much wisdom!!
Tom
"We headed to bed about 7pm hoping to sleep before our wakeup call at 11pm...unfortunately there was no sleep for me. I had quite a bit of anxiety about leaving and about the journey ahead especially since I was already finding the lack of oxygen a challenge. We got ready to leave at midnight and didn't realize how dark it would be. Of course we had our headlamps but it was dark. All I could do was concentrate...one foot in front of the other...step by step. I didn't have altitude sickness but the hike became increasingly more difficult. The 'switchbacks' (which were basically a straight up trail with minor zig zags) were TOUGH! I made it to Gilmans point and was relieved...thinking 'I made it to the top', not believing that the next 200 meters would take me over 2 hours. 'One foot in front of the other' was all I could do and repeat to myself over and over. My guide was even having his own difficulties so I knew getting to the top was not going to be EASY!! After the 'switchbacks' I knew I could make it to Uhuru Peak but I have to admit it's the hardest thing I have ever done physically!! Not only physically difficult but it was more emotional at the top than I expected. I was so happy to accomplish this as it was my personal best. Coming down was fast but harder than anticipated. I thought I would feel better as soon as I started coming down but nope...it didn't really happen that fast although I came down 2000 meters in a short time. After a bit of rest we were told of our 5 mile walk to the next camp...I was still not breathing easily and after about 9 miles into the 5 mile walk I was ready to reach camp and sleep! I am so glad I did it, and thrilled I made the summit, but will never do it again!"
Uncle Dan
"As I got up to Gilmans point I had a mixture of feelings...Euphoria & Dread...I had this beautiful view in front of me but then I saw how much further Uhuru Peak was and had that sinking feeling in my gut of how much farther I had to go. I have to give special credit to my guide & friend Frank...When I couldn't get enough air in I would have to stop and take a few deep breaths and he was so patient with me. I would go 25-30 feet then have to stop and breathe...step then breathe. It made me feel better that others seemed to be having the same issue :) The zig zags were not much of a zig zag more of a straight line with a bit of a side step, and again when looking up, the headlamps never seemed to end so I had to stop looking up. I have to say at 70 years old, it's up there with one of the most difficult things I have ever done. All in all a WONDERFUL experience."
Heidi
"We (Unlce Dan, guides and I) left an hour before the rest of the group...and had 3 amazing guides that would keep telling us to slow down and to make sure we were catching our breath. The hardest part for me was not the straight up, it was the gravel...I would take one step up then slide 2 boot lengths back. Just when I thought I couldn't go up anymore I would look down and think 'I can't go down either'!! Thanks to our guides for being so encouraging and keeping us going the entire time. I got a bit sick at the top, dizzy and super cold!! Probably the coldest I have ever been in my life. I was able to ski down the gravel with 2 guys on each arm which was fun. I think the hike after the climb was the hardest...walking miles over the dry river bed almost killed me but I did it!! Pretty much the hardest thing I have ever done in my life BUT I made it!! I made it to Gilmans point!!!"
Dom
"I got up at 10:30pm...I was excited to just DO IT. I had it in my mind the anticipation of making the summit for so long, and finally the day was here! I wore everything I brought...5-6 layers!! We headed up, it was dark but we had our headlamps and just started, one foot in front of the other!! I didn't end up taking the altitude sickness medication cause I had no symptoms or issues with altitude up to this point. I felt great and after consulting with the guides they were fine with my decision. After about 4 hours into the climb I was feeling kind of tired, it was tough going, slow, and hard to make solid footing through the zig zags. After making it to one of the top points I started to vomit. Things weren't quite right, everything was kind of cloudy in my brain, fuzzy! I kept telling myself 'no big deal, I can do this'. I looked around the corner and it was soooo much farther than I thought to Uhuru peak. We are above the clouds and you can see the curvature of earth with the horizon, it was amazing. But again the sickness kind of hit me hard. My guide, Deo, inched me on. If it wasn't for him I wouldn't have made it. He pushed me. It was agony but he would egg me on and because of him I made it. It was pretty emotional once we reached the sign. I had anticipated in my mind that the best part would be coming down. Walking around the ridge of the mountain. We had the best weather and what should've been the best walk of my life was a walk of hell for me. My brain was still fuzzy, I had neasea, and was continually throwing up. It's so different than you think. You can watch movies, train, try to mentally prepare but it's so different when you actually do it and it's YOU going through it!! It was good to get to the first stop but even after resting a bit, the next 5-10 miles were definitely hard BUT a good time to reflect on what we just accomplished. I don't think I am going to become a climber but I could see God's hand all over this trip and am thankful for all that I experienced."
Bob
"Arlene was feeling pretty ill. Fainting, throwing up, diarrhea...not fun!!! We were hoping to head out to summit at 4am but she was still feeling so faint there was no way we could summit. She wanted me to go and I think the crew wanted me to go without her but there was no way I was leaving her. We ended up getting up at 7am, had some breakfast and started hiking down to the lower camp. We basically hiked across Africa to the trail the rest of the team would later follow. It was a fairly level trail but a long hike for the day. We got into camp and were able to rest. Then the cooks set up a little table and we were able to have a little date dinner then rest a bit more before everyone else started to arrive. Dan & Audrey were the first to arrive into camp and the first thing said was 'that was not 5 miles, more like 9-10'. We were so fortunate to have a cook & guide come with us. We were treated very well...I don't regret the decision I made. We did this trip together and for me it was about the journey...doing it together!! I didn't struggle with altitude at all...and happy to have made it higher than Mount Rainier to 16,030 feet. Maybe I will come back one day and climb with my girls but I don't think I will get Arlene here again...probably not in a tent again either!!"
What a great team!!!
If you missed it, read my story here...
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For girls being girls even on a mountain top...
For the stand up toilet tent and the sitdown toilet box...that was a true 'relief' at the end of a day of hiking and peeing behind rocks...
That I don't have to carry my fruit on my head...(not sure how well I would do at that)
Or push it in a wood wagon...
For a 70 year old man that not only made it to the TOP of Kilimanjaro but showed us his youthful spirit...
And for some tasty BBQ goat at the Arusha City Park!! Cheers to Tanzania!
She was the only female porter on our team of about 50 male guides & porters. She hauled as much as they did with very few breaks and tackled that mountain like a pro. And all in tennis shoes and a track suit. There is something about her eyes...a peace and a deepness that made me want to know more. The language barrier and my initiative haulted that. We talked a bit through one of the guides at the end of our trip, sharing a brief hug and some nods but in hind sight I wish I would have sought her out earlier. I wish I would have tried to make more of a connection. Knowing both Heidi and I are committed to praying for her we are so grateful for all we have, that we thought we would leave her some gear behind.
Truthfully I am not much of a hiker so my boots will stay in Africa, hopefully to bless Severa in all her journies to the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro and Heidi is leaving many thermal items to help with her warmth as she continually climbs to provide for her family.
As I write this it's still brings up some very raw emotion.
We trekked across Africa...with beautiful weather and the African sun beating down on us we arrived at camp 4. Fall Summit. We all felt so good, I even had a burst of energy at 15,500 feet ran a few meters (mainly to the bathroom) but hey I still gave running a shot. We did an acclimation hike up to 16,030 and all of us were literally on top of the world. So excited for what was to come.
We had dinner and at the risk of giving too much of the middle of our story away, the dinners were out of this world. I have a lot to learn from these African tent cookers!
Evening approached and we were to sleep from 6 pm to 11 pm then start out on our journey to the summit at midnight. Well this is where my story takes a bit of a turn. As 10 pm approached so did body aches,fever and all of the bodily functions that went with that. I tried to stand up but as I was about to faint I was happy to land safely on the ground, gripping a rock despite the freezing cold. If this wasn't enough, a little clip from 'The Bridesmaids' rang true as I found the nearest rock for my bodies next 'response' to whatever was going on.
I made it back to the tent shivering desperately trying to warm up. The guides were so wonderful bringing me hot water bottles to warm my sleeping bag and checking in every few minutes. As midnight came, the team leaders checked in on me. Bob, knowing I was not well enough to even answer
at that point told him he couldn't leave me and that the team would have to start without us. Now most people who know both of us know Bob is about
the journey but I am about the destination. I wanted Bob to go, for him to have this experience...and as I sat there and cried he said "I came on this to have a journey with you, I am not about to leave you now". I still sit here in awww, tears streaming down my face that this is my husband. That this was
his idea and passion to come to Africa and now he is choosing to stay with me.
The guides informed us to rest and try to sleep till 4 am and we could try to head out for the summit at that point. I tried to sleep, labored to get comfortable, with the fever coming and going and stomach pains persisiting I went through the most emotion I have ever had in a 4 hour time period. Crying that all we had hiked and worked for would not happen. Claustrophobic that the tent was getting smaller and smaller. Overwhelmed at the love
my husband had just expressed. Anxious to get home and see my family. Dreading the long road ahead to get back to our lodge.
At 4 am the guides came in and at that point the decision was made. I couldn't stand without getting faint and I needed to take more medication to stop
my bodily functions from dehydrating me. I was so thankful they moved the little portable toilet into our tent...sorry TMI but the 20 feet to the toilet tent
was even too much at that point.
After the final decision was made, we were instructed that we would rise at 7 am and head for the camp that the rest of
team would later meet us at...I felt peace. I could finally sleep knowing what road we would be taking in the morning. Still saddened that the summit of 19,341 feet wouldn't be our story, I am now able to deal with reality of what is. That our summit was 16,030 and the view
was still specactular. Above the clouds and on top of the world.
Pastor Dan said it best as we were walking back on our short 12 mile hike to the main gate today. Regret is your friend. Without regret you wouldn't care about the outcome. Regret will remind you of what you were striving for.
Life has a way of teaching you little lessons, even on a big mountain. God is constantly working on me, ridding me of worries in my life and the night of
summit was no different. The constant nagging in my head 'what will others think' had to go by the wayside as Bob and I made the decision of what was best for me. I think I will be emotional about my summit for quite sometime...Trying not to live in regret but in thankfulness that Bob and I were able
to do this journey together despite not reaching the expected destination.
I am so proud of our team. Dan & Audrey...planning this trip, leading the group and never giving up. Always inspiring and moving forward. Dominique for making us laugh and his spirit for all things local. Pat, quiet yet determined and had his own way of encouraging others. Tom, driven & passionate, and was going to make it no matter what. Heidi, pushing her body beyond what she thought it could do and keeping those porters humble. Uncle Dan (70 years old, and as the African guides called him Babu 'grandfather') taking 20 steps then stopping to breathe, truly one AMAZING man.
The past 7 days is beyond words, although I just wrote a lot of them. Team comradery, laughter, competition (mainly in the game of dice), and encouragement.
WOW Africa is incredible! More photos to come :)
We board the plane and as the doors are about to close we see a bright orange shirt running down the aisle...yep it's our little brown friend!! He made it!!!
We laugh, we eat, we sleep and are at ease that we are making this trek together...we also rested in the fact that the flight attendants assured us he had a ticket all the way to Tanzania with his bag checked all the way through.
We get to Amsterdam and run into the rest of our team, say a quick HI and head into another security line. Dom again ends up in the 'special services' line. We get though and here he is again, fighting for a ticket. 'No sir, you aren't in our system, you have no ticket!' Again Dom displaying a great amount of patience says 'you must have my ticket...this is the one part of my flight they had on file?' Nope...once again no ticket. This time, we line up to board and Dom isn't coming...he is still waiting, waiting, waiting. We board, the doors close and no DOM...oh my now what!!??
We make to Kilamanjaro...got all our bags but no bag of Dom's. Praying that he made a flight and they pulled his bag we desperately try to get some wifi to re-connect after the past 9 hours.
We finally log on to find out that Dom was compt a hotel in Amsterdam, food vouchers and some spending cash!!! Go Dom...he is hopefully arriving on a flight today so we will see what stories he has to tell us.
The other 3 on our team should have their own story as they flew into Nairobi and are taking a bus here...Can't wait for the sharing tonight!
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My dad is kind of and Old MacDonald type...not just because he had a farm, and not because he liked to sing 'E I E I O'...but mainly because we raised not only one of many types of animals... but herds and pairs and barn fulls of these animals. As I told the story of our rabbit raising days to my girls the other night...how we had over 200 rabbits, all in their own cages and the type of bottle they drank out of and how they ate (and stunk)...but oh so cute. And of our Ostriches we had in a special barn with a running pen. How we had random people come to our yard to see them and we just hoped they would perform their mating dance so they felt it was worth the stop! My dad and his crazy ideas but no matter the outcome always smiling and laughing.
Now that's another thing about my dad...his laugh...he is rather quiet...he doesn't have a lot to say but the man will laugh...and it sounds like a machine gun!! It's amazing to me that his laugh is the same tone and the sound is evenly dispursed all the way through. It's something that is HIM and I LOVE it.
My dad is shorter in stature...5'5" but if you think you can beat him in a race you have another thing comin'. We used to race him all the time, sure that the more we practiced and the older he got we'd be able to eventually beat him...NOPE!! He still races my cousins and wins everytime. Kind of like road runner...those short little legs kick it into high gear and next thing you know he's left you in the dust, hopped a fence an is off doing his work for the day.
I think most of all I love my dads sensativity. As I mentioned he is quiet, being the oldest of 4 boys and having rather boisterous brothers he is certainly the most subdued...BUT...sensative. His ice blue eyes would often tear up as he gave us a hug. When he met my daughter for the first time at 10 days old, he didn't say much but the watery eyes said enough.
Sometimes dad when I want you to talk but you just hug me and give me that look...it's enough and I love you for it! Thanks for being you and loving all of us with and without words! You are one of a kind!
He loves my mom more than anything in the world - they act like giddy teenagers half of the time...but hey...I will take it and try to learn by example!
Last but not least...a shout out to my hubby!!! A wonderful husband and amazing dad!! Here's to dealing with a house full of girls and hormones!!
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!!!!!! Papa we are so excited for your visit!!!!!!
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Thanks to Zach Smith for doing makeup and Shawna Pester for doing her hair...love teaming up with some awesome talent!!!!!
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Side note...SO excited for Natasha & Joes Whidbey Island wedding this weekend....
A few weeks ago I had Charlene & Pat pose for a close up portrait...as I directed Charlene to wrap her arms around Pat and Pat hold her hand she proceeded to tell me 'this isn't really us'. Being the good sport she is she humored me and gave it a shot and let me get in close. I personally love how it turned out but the best part is so does she!! She loves it!! She called me the other day and said it was one of her favorite images from the session!! WIN!!!!!
Of course we had these images too which gave them the candid feel they wanted!!
I think in the end it comes down to earning your clients trust and having some fun...the end result...you both get images you love!!
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I am reminded everyday, having two girls of my own, how different sisters can be!
I too have a sister. She is six years younger than me and although we are very different we do have similarities too. It's sometimes weird to see her talk or the way she uses her hands when she speaks...it's like looking in a mirror...odd but kind of enlightening at the same time! Although distance keeps us from seeing each other much it doesn't change the bond we have. I am fortunate to have photographed a lot of sisters and I can see how special each and every connection is.
Photos below courtesy of Grant Romancia.
This week my sister and her husband are celebrating their 2nd wedding anniversary. The first two years of marriage...so much love, so much change, and life together is in full swing. They have started their own cake business, Bridge City Cakes, and let me say Wayne is pretty talented. Arvelle works full time at the Universtiy of Saskatchewan but is a huge help and supporter to their business. I am so proud of them and wish them much happiness. CONGRATULATIONS...I love you very much...and know I think of you often!!! Here's to LOVE...
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As I sat eating cheetos veggies and was preparing to climb Mount Si again this past Monday as 'practice' for our upcoming trip to Mount Kilamanjaro (um...not quite the same kind of hike, but sure let's call it practice)... I found I was pressuring myself to beat my last time to the top. I'm not sure why?...Who was I trying to impress?...Was it really just for a personal best?
I find it's the same discussion I have with my staff, me, myself and I (sorry that joke never gets old for me)! Who am I trying to impress, what am I trying to be? Rather than compare myself to other photographers, can't it be true inspiration. Can't we be happy when someone has an amazing image and captures some true, genuine emotion. Do we have to have photo envy or can we simply take inspiration for what it is and have it propel us forward to a new place that keeps us going.
This photo is by David Beckstead...he does some amazing things with reflections, buildings, sunflare and some unique posing...super inspirational!
There are so many things that bog us down...schedules, to-do lists, life...but in the midst of it all I want to remember that photography is something I LOVE to do. It's about people, making a connection and making them feel comfortable. Sometimes the pressure feels daunting, the pressure to continually be changing and keeping up.
Just when I was doubting that anything was changing, that I was standing still in my business, my wonderful husband sat me down and listed all the things that HAVE changed in the past 6 months...that no matter how big or small there is change happening and when there is no change, that's ok too...release the pressure and embrace the moment.
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]]>In the attempt to fit in a few hikes before we head to Africa to climb Mount Kilimanjaro (yes I am still going….ahhhh), we climbed Mount Si in North Bend on Saturday. Ya I know, not even close to what we will face in Africa however it was good practice and necessary for my peace of mind (or maybe lack thereof) :)
The hike up was good, I was trying to set a personal record but it’s not really hard to be when I have no previous record! I made It up in an hour and thirty minutes, I don’t really know how that fares but I was just glad I didn’t bite the dust on some of the twists and turns.
We made it to the top…didn’t attempt the Haystack, but thought about it, that counts right!? Saw a squirrel…who was trying to get a nut…but hey who’s not!? And a bird almost stole my friends sandwich…again you put it out there, beware you might lose it! After enjoying the view for a bit it was time to head down.
Now it’s kind of amazing they haven’t invented something to help train with going downhill (again maybe they have but I am not an avid hiker so I have no clue). Regardless I put my headphones in and thought ‘heck ya I’ll run, it will make me get to the bottom faster’. As I am running, my eyes are watering, I’m sweating, my nose is running (yep I’m a site for sore eyes)…and I keep thinking “Man my left toe keeps catching on rocks…what’s the deal!?” “Just don’t fall…don’t fall…that would be sooo embarrassing…don’t fall!” So what do I do…I FALL…in slow motion I goooooo doooooowwwwwwnnnnnn, over a rock and onto another rock, and I am not stopping! "What is going on!?" My backpack, and all I have in it, is propelling me forward onto another rock and another rock…finally after laying there in disbelief I jump up…as if I was as fierce as Katniss with my bow and arrow, I look around, back and forth…phew...no one to be seen…which means no one saw me…which means it didn’t happen. RIGHT!? As if on Hunger Games myself I knew there was no time to stop…so I continued down the hill.
Thankfully I wasn’t on a game show and thankfully I wasn’t too scraped up as I ran into some clients whose wedding I am photographing in September…wow so glad they didn’t have to pick me up off the ground! I made it to the bottom with time to spare (again racing against myself) but had time to pick up my pride before the others made it down to head home.
I am sure this is just the beginning of many hiking stories to come…Africa please be kind to me! 29 days is coming fast!
My girls are complete opposites…different hair color, eye color, tastes in food, likes in clothing, attitudes, personality, sensitivity, and body type. It’s more evident than ever how we can come from the same ‘factory’ (as my mom likes to call it)…really I’m a factory!? …ok!?...and we still are totally different! And that is what I LOVE about them…so different yet inside we all have similarities. We all want to be loved, and accepted and heard! We all want to have friends to have fun with a safe place to land when we need a good cry!
As I photograph many ages of girls…teenagers…women…I am in awe at how amazing all of them are EACH in their own way. Little girls are carefree, free to be who they are with no inhabitiions.
High school seniors wear their outfits with ease, rock their own looks and embrace whatever body type they have and I haven’t heard a negative word out of their mouth!! (LOVE THAT)
Mothers of young children…GORGEOUS but forget to stop and see it…so much beauty radiating from them but are busy giving to everyone else they forget to savor the moment and time of life they are in (including me)!
Mature women…I have met some of the most incredible women through My Best 10 at the Pro Club. Having worked hard but neglected themselves, now taking steps to feel good, both inside & out, and embrace this stage of life. I have learned so much from all of these ages…how as women we sometimes still feel like little girls, but how little girls act more adult like by truly not caring what anyone thinks.
As I raise my girls (together with my husband) I want so badly for them to embrace who they are and who they want to be….NOT what someone else wants. It’s a constant reminder for me to embrace who I am and surround myself with those who encourage that!
All of that to say Spring sometimes makes me think I should read…but instead I get in the mode of cleaning. This week it was a combination of cleaning my desk, my cameras and my mind!
My desk..easy…make a pile, move stuff from one side to the other, put a few things in a drawer and psychologically it’s ‘clean’ !
My cameras…take them into the “Camera Clinic” (a little hole in the wall shop that is fast and amazing). I’m not sure why it evokes such a good feeling but it truly feels great to know my cameras and lenses are fresh and I can ‘see’ clearly!
*obviously not my everyday camera :)
Now my mind…that is a little more tricky…not necessarily to clean it but to clear it. Working out is a huge part of that. Although somedays it’s easier to avoid working out…instead to eat edit, or watch TV play with my kids, or do house and yard work, I realize how crucial exercise is to my psyche. Whether a little or a lot, sometimes it has little to do with physical results and more to do with just breathing and keeping perspective on life.
Photo courtesy of The Photo Collab
With mothers day approaching and my girls being so excited to make me crafts at school and pick me flowers I took a moment to enjoy the fleeting moment that a dandelion seed offers. So small and fragile and in a blink...gone! I feel like life sometimes is like that. Struggling to savor the moments with my kids and take in all they are and embrace who God made them to be!
I am thankful God gives us new opportunities each day and Spring is a great reminder of His newness!
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Sometimes standing up is required...whether it's standing up FOR something or standing up ON something! Usually taking a different approach or changing your angle can shift your perspective. I always want to be the type of person that is open to hearing another opinion...it doesn't mean I will agree or change mine but aren't our differences what make the world go round?
Same with photography. Standing up ON something can change my perspective to something I never knew I might like. So when I feel stuck or wonder what I can do to change a 'look'...maybe I don't have to change the pose, maybe I just have to move...up, down, side to side. Kind of like a good aerobics video!
Thanks to my husband this was his perspective...
After a slight change...this was mine...
Another perspective from my friend Stephanie Carlson...
And this was through my lens...
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I understand the hestitation about being in front of the camera...and the work that goes into preparing for your own session, even if it's 'only' mental preparation, it can still feel daunting. That being said Nike is onto something...their motto of 'Just Do It' is powerful and something that I myself repeat over and over (mostly silently) but nonetheless repeating. Obviously this can apply in many facets of life. Still feeling relatively new to the photography industry, putting myself out there and taking risks is something I want to keep doing...including being in front of the camera myself!! It's a constant reminder of how my clients feel and how one of my main goals is to have their session be fun and comfortable!
In the words of Jasmine Star..."I don't need to showcase, I don't need to prove, I just need to BE"!! It was like she was in my brain...that is how I feel...I just want to do what I do and just BE...with that I want others to "BE"...BE ok with being them and together we document life...your life...because life goes by fast and no matter how we may feel right at this moment we don't get to relive today...
All of that to say, my friend stepped out of her comfort zone, to try something that she wanted to be proud of but was hesitant...I stepped out of mine, never having shot 'Boudoir' officially...together some beautiful imagery was made...now most of it is for her husband and of course this may be a 'typical' shot you have seen before...regardless we know the hard work and emotion that is behind this photo and the main thing...there is a story and it's hers! Kelli you are stunning!
So…nuf said…let’s take on this adventure. It’s time for me to get serious, change my attitude and decide to enjoy this journey we are about to go on. We are heading to Africa with 8 other people and I know the challenges we will work through, the comradery we will build, will connect us for a lifetime.
Although I may not be as peaceful as the giraffe in the photo, but giraffes by nature are persistent and that I know I can be!! Praying I summit and watch the sunrise on day 5, I know that even if I don’t this journey will be well worth it…this trip will be about both the journey and the destination and I can hardly wait!!
So what do we do - we take all the estrogen and have Bob photograph us "women"!! We TRIED to get the girls to sit and look normal...ya right...so instead we had Bob make them run to blow off steam only to come back and smother us with kisses. Hey whatever works to get 'the shot'...I have to say I love the photos of my girls kissing my cheek...usually they are being such smarty pants it's hard to get a sincere kiss!
Although we ended up with yellow dandelion 'stuff'' all over our hands and faces and had a few moments that honestly should not be relived, it's all part of photographing kids and making memories with family. I am so thankful for my Canadian family and miss them terribly. I grew up only a mile from my aunts and uncles...now seeing them once a year hardly seems enough!
Thanks Steph for your visit...until next time!!!!!!!!
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I met Carrie last year when she wanted to document a unique time with her children. After losing her love & husband Andy, to Colorectal cancer she wanted to freeze a few moments of her and the kids. Hailey & Dylan are pretty amazing…not only do they love each other but they sure know how to give their mom some extra hugs & kisses when she needs it!
As life seems to present many speedbumps, Carrie still manages to run a successful business, Halo Construction. Since Andy’s passing she has put a team together for Relay for Life as well as coordinated a golf tournament to benefit the American Cancer Society. She said the American Cancer Society was absolutely amazing to them as they went through treatment and battled Andy’s cancer so she wants to give back as much as she possibly can!
This years golf tournament is on April 28th and still has room for sign ups. Even if you can’t golf or are a lefty like myself it might be worth a shot just to support such a wonderful cause. They are also looking for sponsors…so if you or anyone you know have interest in sponsoring I say GO FOR IT.
They are selling raffle tickets for the Relay for Life fundraiser now and at the golf tournament…and YOU can win…a photography package…from Arlene Chambers Photography…so buy a ticket and maybe you’ll win and I'll get to meet you. Either way we all win by supporting such an amazing cause!
It started almost 10 years ago, we met at church, saw each other once in a while then decided she should get a job in the crazy escrow world where I worked. However we had so many Jessica’s that worked at our company the only way she could come on board is by going by her middle name “Joi”. She was game for anything and being that her mother in laws name is Joy, she thought maybe the world could handle two Joy Caskeys. Hence, her becoming “Joi to my world”.
The name has stuck and although “Jess” completely suits her I find myself still calling her Joi. She truly is joyful. She has more energy than most people combined and a great attitude on life.
Her talent and passion is Graphic design. Having worked for Tully’s, Costco and The Bellevue Collection, she now freelances full time. It seems to work well with being a full time stay at home mom to a very active 2 year old…Mr. Beckem Rae.
So just to give you a bit more of a background…Jess has always been super trendy, not afraid to try new styles or break the mold. Although I love my tank top, cardigan, and scarf ensemble she has pushed me to find new patterns and colors and throw it all together. She is truly someone who can rock any style and DOES!!! I love that about her. Now what does that mean for her son…yep more style…colored jeans, and little leather coats and don’t get me started on the hats. The kid has a wide variety of hats and KEEPS THEM ON…WHAT…what kid does that!? And all of it pairs nicely with those ice blue eyes!!
Saying all of this to say I believe this is what makes her great at creating. Not only is she trendy but it totally translates into her work. I am at awe how she comes up with new designs and styles and what kind of designs she can make from a blank canvas! Speaking of canvas…she paints. I mean could the girl have any more talents…(and she sings but it’s hard to find a good karaoke place these days so I rarely get to hear her).
I often watch Jess in amazement. Her energy is contagious and her zeal for life is inspiring. Since leaving the ‘corporate’ work worlds we have found a real comradery in our friendship. She inspires me to find balance. Watching her juggle motherhood, working from home, & friendships it confirms that we all need friends…good friends. Ones that know you aren’t perfect and it’s “OK”! Ones that know you will make mistakes and love you anyway.
All of these things make her FANTABULOUS…which I believe makes her work that much more special and unique. I want to thank her for designing my logo and for all of the design work she has done for me. She is truly gifted and I feel blessed to know her!! She is a huge encouragement and I hope this feature shares a little insight into the giant amount of love I have for her!! Her work is unique so check out her stuff on Caskey Design!
Could this family have more style!!???
My model...I love how Becks let's us dress him up...hopefully he doesn't figure us out anytime soon :)
He was featured on Komo 4 news showing the importance of childrens health and fitness. It's a great way to incorporate activity along with family time (as shown by Shawna & Noah Pester).
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Stephanie decided to come visit for a month and see what life in the USA is like. Being from small town Saskatchewan it’s a bit of a change…well more than a bit…traffic, trees, people, oh and living with small children and a rat race schedule. Either way it’s life and it’s our life so WELCOME –enjoy the ride!
She is interested in photography so what better way than to be my model!! Of course I had big plans…the perfect location to frolic through the trees, finding the perfect log to lay on and shoot different angles, and the perfect amount of sunlight glistening off the branches. Um…sooo not perfect. We were running out of time (especially when dealing with kids and close to dinner time), the trees had tons of sticker bushes…so no frolicking….and rather than sun we got wind…like tornado wind (well maybe not quite but you would think by my kids reactions it was the biggest storm ever).
I also had high hopes of doing some portraits with my reflector and trying some ‘stuff’…so much for high hopes…we did the best we could with the weather, the tight location and the sticker bushes.
Situations like this continue to teach me that things don’t have to be ‘perfect’ to get the ‘perfect’ photo. To me these photos are perfect because we froze a moment. A moment of my girls with their cousin who is super special to me! I will always remember this time having Stephanie here…her soft heart, and those eyes.. .and of course I will remember Evas goofy laugh and Heidis serious nature!
See more of this shoot here...
That's when I found out she grew up in a musical family, watching her dad play guitar and her mom play piano. She always knew she wanted the same. So rather than just sitting on the side lines watching her dad she joined in. She was surrounded by country music, bluegrass and old hymns, and started singing at a young age. In high school and college she sang jazz music where she learned about improvisation (making up melodies), and eventually started writing her own songs.The combination of her upbringing and high school music classes led her to start learning the the guitar in college. Tapping into her heart & soul she would write lyrics and end up with a sweet melody to them. Wanting to share her heart with others songs continued to flood her head!!
Fast forward to some life in between now and then, a family and earning a living she has come back to her love of playing and singing.
She started the Arts Community at Mill Creek 4 Square church and has found real community and support along with many others. The thought she kept having was..."I've got to get these songs off my couch" maybe she was secretly inspired by Billy Oceans 1988 song "Get outta my dreams, get into my car"...or maybe not. (Sorry complete side note)
The Arts community meets twice a month and has allowed Jessi to dream bigger. She has written 16 songs in the past year and a half and she is hopeful to move forward with being able to share them with the world.
We all have times in our life when we are struggling to find purpose and direction. I certainly don't think there is an 'age' this happens I think it just happens...we evaluate, ask for signs, make decisions and try to find the steps to make it happen. It's not always that clear and I know we can find ourselves in a place and wonder "how did I get here" but with faith and confidence I believe HE shows us!
This has happened for Jessi. She has received confirmation in various ways in recent months, including the unexpected gift of a guitar from someone she barely knew. This person felt that the guitar was supposed to go to her as a gift, and little did this person know this would be a huge confirmation for her...the gift of obedience to God on the part of the giver, and her willingness to recieve it confirmed the next step of her journey.
Who will God bless by you obeying or receiving...you can find her on her new facebook page or on you tube singing her heart out!
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ROTFLMAO...at the risk of offending someone with my acronym...do YOU have a photo that when you look at it you seriously laugh OUT LOUD? Put it out there and YOU COULD WIN...Here is mine...and I am sharing it with all of you!!
HOLY HAIR - I would seriously do my hair the night before and obviously I used too much hairspray since I didn't have to do much the next morning! Why didn't anyone tell me it was hideous...Oops they did...WHY DIDN'T I LISTEN!!????
HOW TO ENTER!!!
Here is the challenge...find your BEST 'WORST' picture and email it to [email protected]. I will upload to facebook so people can vote.
To OFFICIALLY Enter::
1. Like Arlene Chambers Photography on Facebook (if you haven’t already).
2. Post the following on your Facebook wall or Twitter feed, “Arlene Chambers Photography is giving away 2 FREE mini sessions!! For details check out her blog post at http://www.arlenechambers.com/blog/2012/3/-best-photo-contest-where-you-actually-lol.
3. Leave a comment below this post saying you did the above! And tell me what was happening with your photo and why it's funny to you or just leave a random comment about the photos posted. The TWO mini sessions will go to 1.The owner of the photo that gets the most facebook VOTES and 2. The owner of one of the COMMENTS from below this post.
The 2 WINNER(s) will each get...
* One half hour mini session (up to 5 ppl)
*An online gallery with 15 high resolution, retouched, digital images.
*A free 8x10, and an additional surprise!
To be used within the next 6 mos. (appt subject to availabiity) at a Snohomish County location. Pkg valued at over $250.
It's in the Details::
The giveaway is open for submissions from Tuesday March 20th till Saturday March 24th at midnight. On Sunday March 25th (sometime in the afternoon) I will put the number of comments into a 'number picker' and draw the winning number. I will contact the winner(s) via email and then announce the winner on Facebook. Only one photo entry & one comment per person. You must be 18 years or older to enter.
Get ready to laugh!
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But most of the time my baskets and laundry end up like this. Getting the laundry to the laundry room and into the wash – EASY- and most days the dryer but FOLDING – really- I think it’s overrated and don’t even get me started on ironing! But I must give credit where credit is due…I have a fabulous husband and he is the best folder-er ever!! Yep I think he must have worked at the GAP years ago and learned the art of folding cause man I don’t hold a candle to him!
At least these days of boiling water and a wash basin are gone and technology has arrived…when I find myself trying to live up to all sorts of expectations I hear my friend Chantelles voice in my ear saying... “The only expectations we have are from ourselves”. So true!
And Miss Chantelle you are beautiful inside & out!!!
We celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary - just the 2 of us (and 7 million New Yorkers) regardless it was fabulous! Walking...walking...walking, eating...eating...eating, & shopping...shopping...shopping. I loved the time we got to just 'BE' together even in a fast paced city.
Of course because I am, I mean feel 21, we had to stop at FOREVER 21...um can you say huge...4 floors packed full of style, all for me. :) Well with the exception of the guys corner, and a kids nook. Our 2 a.m. excursion (yes they are open that late) didn't allow for much time to get through each floor (Bob was secretly high-fiving himself) but I DID find a kelly green dress that was a MUST HAVE.
Now for the other reason NYC was the destination of choice for our anniversary. A photographer that feels like a friend even though I only know her through her blog & facebook. A real person who shares the same struggles in life, love & business. We took in Jasmine Stars the FIX friday night, along with 200 other NY area photographers. Not only did we meet some spectacular photographers but I truly feel I met some friends, comrades, for life. We may live on opposite coasts but with a facebook group Cassi Claire set up it has been an amazing place to converse, share and ask questions. I walked away from that knowing I CAN DO THIS!! Being confident in who I am and the experience I want my client to have. Jasmine said "If all you do is to walk away with one thing, one thing you are going to do, then it's worth it." And it soooo was! (Plus I walked away with more than one thing...BONUS)
And even though Bob thinks my jokes are terrible, I must have said something funny...or maybe it was almost falling...I can't remember :)
Thank you NY - you are fabulous! And thank you to an amazingly supportive husband who is totally ok being 1 of 8 guys in a room of 192 women. I love that about you & I love you!! (Thank you Angelica Criscuolo for the photo-it maybe the only one we got together on our trip).
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In the meantime our children are growing up, and sometimes we wonder where our place is…do we have goals of our own anymore and if we do what does that ‘look’ like.
As we long to find the balance in life, we realize balance is hard to find and it looks different for everyone.
As a busy mother of 3 boys (5 year old twins and a 2 year old) Christy and I manage to connect at the gym once a week. A good workout, a bit of solitude time, and lots of conversation surrounding the details of life. Christy has been very encouraging , from sharing our struggles as parents to supporting me as I started my own business…I think in the midst of it all she realized she wanted something more. Something of her own and something where she could invest in people again. We used to be involved in church groups and work functions where you have time to go for endless coffees and volunteer any night of the week. Now with a busy family life is there another way to do something of the same nature but different!??
Why not combine the things you love…Christy loves to run and loves people!! As a certified mental health counselor and a RRCA certified running coach it seems like the natural thing to do is start a business that includes both. Christy is a seasoned athlete with 5K, 10K, half and full marathon experience. Her 2012 goal is to conquer a triathalon. Seriously kudos to her!! I like to workout but wow a triathalon would be awesome!! The beautiful thing about it is she can take people who don’t think they can do it or wonder if they will EVER be able to, and literally run along side of them to train them in order to accomplish their goals.
With all the fear and doubt that creeps in while wondering if you should or could start a business. Will it work? What will ‘they’ think? When really…who are ‘they’??? Is it really a group of onlookers that have an opinion…and if there is such a thing… should we care? When we do something we love and it involves caring for people isn’t that OK, isn’t that enough? I commend Christy for taking this LEAP of faith, the STEP of starting something new and RUNNING towards a goal, a goal of her own that she feels is new addition for their family. Go Run With Christy!
How adorable are these boys...of course my girls love them!!
And although a lot of women stand behind their men, we are both blessed to have men that completely support us!!
You are beautiful Christy!!!
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Today I am looking up...sometimes I find my head is so far in the computer I forget to be in awwww of the world around me. To me that means appreciating my girls for who God made them. The emotion Eva wears on her sleeve and the quirky, strong will of Heidi! This morning my girls taught me it's ok to just "be"...just "be" in awww...and just "be" me!
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Carlee & Tim are expecting …a BOY!!! Hoping he will arrive near his due date of April 10th, the Olivers are very excited!! Being a laid back, easy going couple, I am sure they are going to make great parents!! They have yet to completely decide on a name so I am very excited to meet him in April and see what they come up with.
They were completely trusting me with the location and it just so happened that the area I picked had an old orchard way in the back…sweet!!! The old building, paired with the unique barren trees and the mix of sun and rain…oh and did I mention her perfect little belly – all around amazing!! They truly are in love and this baby is going to be one lucky little guy to join this budding family!
I love how he looks at her...
I am thankful for clients that will explore random locations!
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Sherry may be a pastor but when you meet her she is very down to earth and you will usually find her with her partner, her support, her biggest fan…her husband...Tim. Tim is also super talented, a drummer and amazing musician and just an all around great guy!
Together they are a dynamic pair, living out their dreams together and wondering HOW God, WILL God make it all happen!? Little did they realize their dreams of music and having a family would literally collide.
They were in a season of waiting…waiting…feeling like it would take F-O-R-E-V-E-R for something to happen. How to raise the funds to record an album, wondering why pregnancy wasn’t happening when they wanted it to as they had been trying for quite some time. No matter what came their way they knew and believed in the provision of the Lord. They knew that He was in control.
Then it happened…the dream of the album was coming true. They set things in motion, set a release date, now it was onto getting things ready to start recording. Shortly after they set the release date…BAM…they found out she was pregnant and baby Muchira was going to arrive in late July. Rather than being completely stunned they were overwhelmed by Gods goodness. It would seem like this was a lot to happen all at once but Sherry and Tim knew this was all perfect timing...HIS timing. They see the big picture (well at least a bigger slice of it) and are trusting God as this journey unfolds. It’s hard to believe that they will be having twins (in a way) ...2 very different but much desired babies!
I love the way they love...
I love the way they laugh...
Sherry you are beautiful!
You can see more of her dream and have the ability to help them out at kickstarter.com. Her video is inspiring and the fact they are surpassing their goal is another way God is revealing Himself to them.
They are off to Africa to visit Tims family for a few weeks so feel free to leave words of encouragement on her facebook page while they are gone!
I had the pleasure of doing a photosession with the Muchiras last year and what a wonderful time we had. They truly are a genuine, kind hearted couple!! Thank you Sherry for having faith to take on this project. You have poured into my girls during piano lessons and have personally inspired me to not be afraid to take risks and see what God can do.
Blessings...
~Arlene
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As I smell the yummy bread baking in the oven, I can't help but thank Spotify for providing some music to go along. As I like to say 'Life is better to music' and so is food...Spotify makes this happen and it's FREE (with some commercials but I don't mind)!
I've always liked to find rustic, unique locations for photo sessions. Even if I have to use the same place I try to make it look a bit different everytime I am there (not to mention the people totally make the location)! I have decided to challenge myself again to finding new places. Even if they look similar to an area I have previously done sessions at I am pushing to get out of my comfort zone. I came across a run down building as I was driving around the other day. Little did I realize the back of the property was an old orchard. Um score!!! I wrote a little note on my business card and stuck it in the mailbox in the driveway. I have done this before and often don't get a call back BUT this super nice lady called me back and totally was on board for me using her property...ANYTIME...WHAT!!?? Sometimes it pays to take a risk...people still have huge hearts out there we just need to find them...and to not forget to say THANK YOU!
(More of Carlee & Tim's session to come).
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